What Is Your Definition Of True Love?

[#1tankcomander]

Is it when your SO farts and you don't mind?

Or the loud belch uttered from the depths of their core?

Or the taunting of sexual fore play till you're ready to explode?

Or the sincerly evil look she gives, knowing you're in for a treat tonight?




Just a few thoughts........

 

[Kuntmode]

n/a

It is when she swallows my load without me even suggesting or asking for her to do so.

She does it willingly

 

[Gusty Wind]

{{{ UNCONDITIONAL LOVE }}}

aww.... hard to get...sadly...

glady.... I found you

mmuuahmuah

meoww```*

now you want scold me now

Geez

 

[Guest]

When you can wake up next to them.... and not mind their morning breath.

 

[Bluesboy2]

It's when

He/ she can listen to you rehearse the same song for hours a day, days on end and still smile at you and say " You don't have to stop, I like that one" and mean it. Or at least seem like they mean it.

 

[watergirl]

tooo blave

when you want to grow old with them.

 

[horny_giraffe]

Re: tooo blave

when you want to grow old with them.

Haha. I was thinking the same thing as your title.

"Wuv...Twu Wuv..."

 

[watergirl]

mawiage

I can always count on you guys! thanks. =)

 

[Gusty Wind]

{{{ UNCONDITIONAL LOVE }}}

aww.... hard to get...sadly...

glady.... I found you

mmuuahmuah

meoww```*

now you want to scold me now

Geez

 

[#1tankcomander]

Re: Re: tooo blave

Haha. I was thinking the same thing as your title.

"Wuv...Twu Wuv..."

BINGO! You win the prize!

"Now can we just get on with it!"

 

[juicylips]

There's no such thing as true love.

 

[Dillinger]

There is love and there is friendship. There are Friends and there are Lovers.. There are FRIENDS... there is LOVE.

We tend to over value "love" and undervalue friendship.

What is the difference between friendship and love? We can love our friends, we love our family, we love our pets. We can even love doing certain things. So that leads us to another question: What is the difference between love and romantic love? Is it just sex? Is love the intermarriage of friendship and physical attraction? I think it has to be even more than that. I think plenty of people have "fallen in love" with someone they are physically attracted to yet that person might not really be someone they would have chosen as a friend. Perhaps they only thought they were "in love." Perhaps true love is a combination of friendship, attraction and caring and yet is more than the sum of its parts?

How many lovers have you had that are no longer in your life? Perhaps you don't even know where they are, what's happened to them? How many times have you thought you've been in love... but it faded, or maybe wasn't really love to begin with. Not true LOVE anyway.

We say that we "fall in love." Perhaps it is at least equally important to "fall in care."

Love (Capitol L, lover case "ove"), in many ways, is transitory. Friendship - a real friend - is for life. A real friend, more than anything, wants to know that you're healthy, that you're safe, that you're happy. A real friend is there with you through good times and bad. Accepts you for who you are. Supports you even when they know you're wrong. Watches to make sure you don't fall and, despite their best efforts to keep you from falling, when you do fall they are there to pick you up.

Love often overshadows friendship - but even when, for whatever reasons, that particular love is no longer there... your friend is.

Sometimes I think what we call love is not much more than being attracted to someone. Perhaps overwhelmingly attracted - for whatever reason, often physical but not necessarily exclusively so. We mistake this compulsion for love. But I believe that LOVE is even deeper then that. Most people end up marrying a person they are very "attracted" to. But the preponderance of marital problems and divorce leads me to think that this type of attraction is not enough. And cannot therefore really be Love.

When you have a lover, are "in love" as opposed to IN LOVE, the love between the two of you is often more concerned with sustaining love than with nourishing Friendship. Self-perpetuating for its own means... feeding our desire to be in love rather than truly opening oneself to finding true LOVE.

If you truly love someone then, just as it is with a friend, more than anything, you want that person to be safe, healthy... happy. Even if that happiness is with someone other than you. Even if it hurts you to see that person with someone else, even if you wish you could be that person, it still sustains you to know that your friend is happy. That is enough to make any hurt bearable.

If you are lucky enough to have a friend, a REAL friend who you truly care about, who then becomes a lover... and that grows into Love... then perhaps you have found true LOVE. There is a difference between love and Love and LOVE.

love is transitory. Friendship is for life. True LOVE is forever.

Originally posted by me on "A Friend" - http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=69071 - on 02-21-2002 - I still feel exactly the same way.

 

[tyme]

If you are lucky enough to have a friend, a REAL friend who you truly care about, who then becomes a lover... and that grows into Love... then perhaps you have found true LOVE. There is a difference between love and Love and LOVE.

what you just said is what I have. I am his friend first his lover and wife second. to me true love is when you want that person to be happy so much that if you are not the right one for them or they found someone new you would give them what will make them happy. That is true love and true friendship willing to do anything for that person.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

True love begins with resisting the urge to throttle into unconsciousness, travels though the area of not really wanting to throttle them much at all, and winds up with you forgetting what made you want to ever throttle them in the first place. But, that's just me, I'm secretly an antisocial bastard.

 

[tyme]

lol
hey at least you say it like you think it.

 

[sheath]

When you look at your best friend and you suddenly realize that he is exactly what you have been bitching about not being able to find...

And he sees that look in your eyes and without a word...

He reaches over and takes your hand.

THAT is when you know. Friends first. Then so much more without even conscious effort. It just...happens.






(Love you, my Music Man. )

S.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

The truth is, alot of people mistake lust for love, so they put up with alot of shit that drives them absolutely bugfuck, at least at first. then as time goes on, they either decide that they can put up with it or not. If it's love and not just like or lust or whatever, eventually you embrace even those things that first aggravated teh pure living piss out of you. You love the WHOLE person, not just those parts that are easy to love.

 

[Calamity Jane]

The truth is, alot of people mistake lust for love, so they put up with alot of shit that drives them absolutely bugfuck, at least at first. then as time goes on, they either decide that they can put up with it or not. If it's love and not just like or lust or whatever, eventually you embrace even those things that first aggravated teh pure living piss out of you. You love the WHOLE person, not just those parts that are easy to love.

I think a lot of people think that's what love is... so they stay in bad situations because they think 'if I really love this person, I need to love them in spite of <insert stupid/annoying/dangerous behavior here>. That's bullshit.

The only 'true love' is the love we have for ourselves. The love that keeps us seeking happiness, even if that means being alone.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I think a lot of people think that's what love is... so they stay in bad situations because they think 'if I really love this person, I need to love them in spite of <insert stupid/annoying/dangerous behavior here>. That's bullshit.

The only 'true love' is the love we have for ourselves. The love that keeps us seeking happiness, even if that means being alone.

I'm with you on that one...that's why I have spent the last year being voluntarily single. The simple goal was to get a serious grip on who I am, and what I love about being myself, without worrying about pleasing someone else. I've come to a place where, instead of saying ''if I really love this person, I need to love them in spite of <insert stupid/annoying/dangerous behavior here>', I say "If I'm having so much shit to put up with, why am I still with this woman?'
This is leading into my upcoming thread about punching a woman's teeth out...stay tuned.

 

[under where]

True love? When you kiss them and it feels as if your heart might fly away somewhere.

 

[#1tankcomander]

Juicy, YES there is! Be patient, it will come when you least expect it!


Dill 'ol pard coming from some one who dosen't follow through with promises, dates and leading a life of lies, I expected as much from you! You wanna slam me ? Go ahead I have truth and proof to offer! I have never lied here or any where, so do your worst bud!

Johnny M, I was there a long time ago, but fod out there is the one true love and changed my life, though not all ways easy, for ever.

TRUE LOVE and TRUST go hand in hand, but then I have MY TRUE SOUL MATE to thank for that!

Pagan CG, same to you as for Juicy! You'll turn the corner one day and it will hit you like a ton of bricks falling! Just don't go looking for it and it will present it's self to you. Remember GOD loves little TEXAS Girls!

 

[Riles]

True Love?

It's a myth, but I once thought I had it when I came home one day and to my amazement, his underwear was NOT on my bathroom floor!

Of course I was completely fooled, he forgot to put them on that day.

 

[#1tankcomander]

True Love?

It's a myth, but I once thought I had it when I came home one day and to my amazement, his underwear was NOT on my bathroom floor!

Of course I was completely fooled, he forgot to put them on that day.

ROTFLMAO!

 

[Tranquility]

True Love

True Love is when he snores all night keeps you and your gf awake but you still kiss him goodbye before work and then its tested again at the end of the day when he comes in smelly from work and plops his work boots on our couch

 

[#1tankcomander]

Re: True Love

True Love is when he snores all night keeps you and your gf awake but you still kiss him goodbye before work and then its tested again at the end of the day when he comes in smelly from work and plops his work boots on our couch

OK, but what did you and the GF do while he was snoring????