What is your Compatibility Profile?

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spawned from Soul's Haven Thread in the BDSM section, I thought we could do with a little compatability survey of our own. My results had things that I expected as well as a few things I didn't.

I'm too cheap to pay for a subscription at eHarmony just yet. But they let me fill out their relationship profile and are allowing me to search for matches from their files. This is from what the questionnaire said about me... If anyone else has taken this survey, what does your profile say about you?

If anyone wants to see if I will mesh with them:

Overview:

By analyzing your answers to the Relationship Questionnaire we have created the following Personality Profile. Everyone has a set of subconscious wants and desires that drive their choices and attitudes. By asking you questions about a wide range of emotional issues, this report has established general patterns in your values.

Some of the following information may seem inaccurate or incomplete. Remember, that this profile is a snapshot of your personality at a specific moment. It is not intended as an in-depth analysis of your complete being, but as a tool to aid in self-discovery.

You have to be with people. This extends into the need to gain popularity, achieve social recognition and influence those people around you. The "bottom-line" is a strong people orientation.
You have a high trust level for others. Occasionally you may have trusted too much and was "stung" in the process. Your natural optimism, however, tends to pull you out of such slumps.


You have a strong sense of humor. You usually know when to lighten a difficult situation, amuse and entertain people.


You have a strong feeling of optimism, considered favorably by most people around you. Your perception is that the bottle is half-full rather than half-empty.


You may be rather emotional; that is, one will generally know how you are feeling, whether good or bad, because you let others know your moods easily.



Communication:

Each person has a unique way of communicating. We use a combination of body language, facial expression, verbal tone and word choice to share ourselves with others. The following statements offer a look at the natural behavior you bring to an interpersonal relationship.
One of your great strengths is your ability to communicate and talk readily.

Since all strengths may be overused at times, you may sometimes talk too much.


You can generate enthusiasm in yourself and in other people. Your enthusiasm, often contagious, involves many people in a social activity who might not ordinarily become involved.


You have a natural, outgoing style that some have labeled as the "natural salesperson." You are generally likable, talkative and socially assertive. Your primary intent is convincing or persuading people.


Poised, confident, persuasive and impressive are descriptors for you. You are usually capable of speaking in a comfortable manner.


You show sympathy to the feelings and needs of others. Your natural empathy style may draw others to you.


You are a natural communicator. You love to talk, offer jokes and make sure that everyone is having a good time. This trait is especially evident at functions and outings.


Improving communication:

Many different factors determine the communication styles with which you are most comfortable. Some individuals thrive on the challenge of pointed criticism, while others are at their best in a nurturing environment where criticism is offered as a suggestion for improvement. Each of us has a unique set of requirements and preferences. Below is a list of communication styles that will mesh well with your own. Having a partner who understands and practices these traits is important to your long-term happiness.

Ask "How" questions to draw out opinions.


Patiently draw out personal interests.


Be stimulating, fun-loving, and fast-moving.


Ask for opinions and ideas.


Show sincere interest as a person.


Be prepared to listen to many stories.


Provide personal support and assurance.


Plan sufficient time to talk and listen.


Share specific ideas to carry out an action.


Present ideas softly, nonthreateningly.


Leave plenty of time for socializing and relating.


Plan interactions which support dreams and goals.

Strengths:

Following are some of the specific strengths and/or personal characteristics that you bring to a relationship. These may form the foundations of many of your friendships and dealings with other people. Some will seem obvious, but you may be surprised by others. Take a moment to reflect on each and consider what role it may have played in your past successes, and even failures.

You take pride in being very loyal to friends and family.


You meet new people easily and are good at making them feel welcome.


You are optimistic and tend to make others feel good about themselves.


You tend to work hard at making sure that other people are happy.


You are excellent at listening to the concerns and ideas of others.


You are skilled at finding "win-win" solutions when conflicts arise.


You are good at motivating others toward positive goals.


You tend to enjoy life and share that enjoyment with others.


You are a dependable and caring partner.


You tend to be a very calming influence in heated situations.


You have an excellent sense of humor and tend to see humor in events spontaneously.


You are very sincere in actions and words.


Needs:

In general, human beings are defined by their needs and individuals by their wants. Your emotional wants are especially important when establishing with whom you are compatible. While answering the Relationship Questionnaire you established a pattern of basic, subconscious wants. This section of the report was produced by analyzing those patterns. Our wants change as we mature and obtain our life goals. You may find it valuable to revisit this section periodically to see how your wants have changed.

You may want:

A variety of activities.


Others to behave with the same sense of urgency.


Security and safety procedures around the house: fire safety, smoke detectors, electronic security systems, etc.


Others to adhere to your high standards.


Things done "right" the first time.


Detailed information about major decisions with complete instructions.


Recognition for your concern for quality relationships.


Many activities, so there is never a dull moment.


Freedom from boredom and routine.


Others to work and play as hard as you do.

 

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