What is up with young women these days?

[Ahi_Viking]

I thought I'd ask here. One friend calls it "old guy fetish". I am surprised at how friendly younger women are with me now that I'm about 50. I take good care of myself and stay very fit, which my wife says helps. Just in the past few days...I was approached by a stunning blonde with big, blue eyes in a restaurant by my office at lunch. She was with a woman my age who seemed pissed her young friend was talking with me. Beautiful girl with a beautiful, bulbous ass - 20 years old. My wife sent a babysitter over. I never met this girl but my wife was teasing me before she even got there, arriving in tight jeans with big holes in them - showing a lot of skin. Stunning girl who insisted on standing within kissing distance when we spoke, with an electric smile, also 20. Then (when I was out with my kids) at a local eatery the manager recognized us from previous visits and came over with free meal offers. Beautiful brunette, very thin, 25. She took about 20 minutes to stand in front of me and talk. At one point she looked me right in the eyes and let me know that she lives by herself. I stumbled through some dumb reply as she kept her eyes locked on mine. I guess I don't remember ladies being that interested in guys more than twice their age back when I was young. I enjoy it, though. Anybody relate or have related experience?

 

[prdigy666]

Because younger guys are pretty dammed pathetic. Reap the benefits lol

 

[Imp1982]

They want a man who knows what they are doing.

 

[FantasyXY]

I have experienced basically the same thing. I even posted a story here on Lit about one of my younger woman encounters.

There are a couple of observations I have about this phenomenon...

1. This is not new. When I was younger I was constantly asking my self why some woman that I was interested in was more interested in some fucking old guy.

2. The answer is money. Old guys have it, and young guys don't.

 

[stickygirl]

I've heard the money thing before but it's only part of the story: it's more to do with self confidence too. Moneyed older guys have nothing to prove so they don't act like idiots. Who wants to hang round some twit who is self conscious and nervous all time? Younger guys are a pain in the ass that way, so it's nice to actually hold a conversation with a guy without him breaking into a sweat. if that leads to some bed action, then that's likely to be more civilised too... And you know he'll pay for the room!

 

[LWulf]

My own concept of this, natch.

There are different dynamics to take into account for what you are going through.

Some women like to feel "safe." They see that in a well-mannered married man and don't see it as wrong to be in close proximity. You aren't supposed to be attracted to them since you are married.

Some young women like older men regardless if they are married or not.

Some young women split between those two examples as they feel safe around a well-mannered married man, but they like to flirt to see how much resolve you have. In this instance, you could split the two into two different possibilities:

Those who get off simply teasing someone who can't respond.
Those who simply want to know if you find them attractive (most likely reason). They see you as a good judge of character and on a lark want to see if even an older married man would respond.

In the end, girls nowadays aren't any different from girls years ago; girls just wanna have fun (It's you that has changed).

 

[jaF0]

They want Daddies to discipline them.

 

[stickygirl]

Some women like to feel "safe."
Those who simply want to know if you find them attractive (most likely reason).

In the end, girls nowadays aren't any different from girls years ago; girls just wanna have fun (It's you that has changed).

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PIb6AZdTr-A&list=RDPIb6AZdTr-A

 

[FantasyXY]

I've heard the money thing before but it's only part of the story: it's more to do with self confidence too. Moneyed older guys have nothing to prove so they don't act like idiots. Who wants to hang round some twit who is self conscious and nervous all time? Younger guys are a pain in the ass that way, so it's nice to actually hold a conversation with a guy without him breaking into a sweat. if that leads to some bed action, then that's likely to be more civilised too... And you know he'll pay for the room!

Absolutely... Confidence breeds money and money breeds confidence. I had heard this saying a couple of times when I was younger, but never knew just what it meant until I got older, and actually had a couple of spare dimes to squeeze together.

And that money/confidence does tend to make us more civilized. And you are right. Old guys will pay for the room, and the dinner, and the show... not because we think we have to... but because it's the civil thing to do.

And of course we are hoping for some bed action, but we aren't necessarily expecting it. Who would you rather have sex with? A guy who wants it so badly he will take anything and try anything, or an old guy that knows exactly what he wants and how it works.

 

[stickygirl]

***swoons already***

 

[Scarlett1993]

Older guys are hot

I always seem to find a much older guy perving on me in a club a major turn on. Must just be the idea that they're naughty for looking at someone so much younger than them like that and they probably know what they're doing too!

 

[Bighammerfucker]

I'm one of those younger women (not from the post but I'm 23) oops lol

No but seriously, I think it's really a maturity thing. I can only speak for myself but I've reached an age where I'm getting on my own career path, living my own life, etc and so the age of people I am around has dramatically increased and while I never found any of my younger/my age coworkers sexy, there is nothing sexier than age 30-50 to me. It's about the confidence and the politeness and genuine vibe a lot of guys I've met throw off. I mean, it helps too that I'm young and working with different guys all the time so they notice me, but sometimes there's just a look in a man's eyes that fully lets you know he thinks you are nice looking, whether he wants it there or not, and yeah it does make me pay attention for certain when I'm given a smile and eye contact that lasts a nanosecond longer than normal.

 

[HoldYouDown]

Nothing's changed...experience, confidence, charm often come with age.

 

[kaitlyn_sun]

also... people are generally nice, you're noticing hot women around you and imagining that somehow those two facts are related.

 

[ReadingExcitesMe]

Nothing's changed...experience, confidence, charm often come with age.

Yes!

 

[lindsay2014]

Can't speak for other women here, but I've always preferred older men.

I guess it's probably a bit of a maturity thing, but I've had better conversations, company and everything with them... oh.. and better sex too

I just feel more appreciated, and treated better

 

[MaryanneB]

My husband used to laugh about young women talking to his crotch. I told him to enjoy iy because there is a point when they look at younger crotches and not his........
He enjoyed it....a lot.

 

[KinkyGAGuy]

It is called "having your shit together"

 

[Justfantasies]

I have had this happen to me a lot and its a lot of fun.

But I am guessing that only a few young women are willing to follow through. So far I have only ha d sex with two of them.

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