What is the real reason a younger man wants to date an older woman?

[Iamnotthe1]

I met this guy on a dating site and we hit it off very well. He told me he loved the way I look and just had to get to know me. So,after several weeks of chatting I agreed to have dinner with him tomorrow night. He's 33 and I'm 50. So why does a dude that young really wanna go out with an older woman? Don't say great sex cuz I already know that part. But really...

 

[LadyVer]

I met this guy on a dating site and we hit it off very well. He told me he loved the way I look and just had to get to know me. So,after several weeks of chatting I agreed to have dinner with him tomorrow night. He's 33 and I'm 50. So why does a dude that young really wanna go out with an older woman? Don't say great sex cuz I already know that part. But really...

One thing is they see older women as being emotionally mature, therefore they don't have to put up with any drama from the older woman. On the other hand, this can mean the younger men arethe ones giving out the drama because they're not mature enough... And I'm just saying some younger men are like this.

 

[Sensualdreamer]

A few thoughts:
He is likely seeing $ in other words he views you as a sugar momma
Older women your age would be rare to get pregnant
Maturity.

 

[neruda]

Less inhibited, more expirenced, usually more fun.

 

[gavinp]

knows what she wants and doesn't piss about.

 

[neruda]

A lot less coy, shy bullshit.

 

[Aquagal]

Not into head games, more sexually experienced and confident.

 

[Miles Long]

Not into head games, more sexually experienced and confident.

A couple times I have dated women a fair amount older than I am, and in those relationships these were things that I really liked about them and about our relationship dynamics.

 

[Scentofawoman]

I would second confidance and maturity.

 

[LadyVer]

Bump. Good thread.

 

[kiwi_submissive]

One of my friends dates older women because if they have kids they have usually left home or are doing their own thing so they can go out and do what they want and not have to worry about babysitters or plans changing at the last minute.

 

[cowslinger64]

I met this guy on a dating site and we hit it off very well. He told me he loved the way I look and just had to get to know me. So,after several weeks of chatting I agreed to have dinner with him tomorrow night. He's 33 and I'm 50. So why does a dude that young really wanna go out with an older woman? Don't say great sex cuz I already know that part. But really...

If he accidentally calls you gammy or mawmaw ....cut him some slack.hmmm?


I've been with quite a few older women...it was mostly just for fun...many aren't nearly as confident as the women here. Many have never had a gspot orgasm...and some don't even know how to suck cock. But they are often willing to try new things and that is enticing,

 

[Iamnotthe1]

Wow, thanks for the excellent response. I'll keep these comments in mind. Keep em coming cuz this dude is so damn good looking that if all goes well this evening then I'll certainly give him a second date

Mr. Slinger, that was hilarious! Thanks for your humor

 

[whalee1]

I met this guy on a dating site and we hit it off very well. He told me he loved the way I look and just had to get to know me. So,after several weeks of chatting I agreed to have dinner with him tomorrow night. He's 33 and I'm 50. So why does a dude that young really wanna go out with an older woman? Don't say great sex cuz I already know that part. But really...

Does he really have to have an underlying motive? Just enjoy your time with him.

 

[cowslinger64]

Wow, thanks for the excellent response. I'll keep these comments in mind. Keep em coming cuz this dude is so damn good looking that if all goes well this evening then I'll certainly give him a second date

Mr. Slinger, that was hilarious! Thanks for your humor

You had to know it was coming..


I'd careful treating this anything other than fun...my initial thought is this isn't anything more. That's such an age disparity...don't try making it something it isn't.

Meeting off dating site only fortifies that for me...a guy isn't likely to say he just wants in your pants but those places are meat markets..

Just be careful...

 

[MrBiggs69]

I could list over 100 reasons. But here is just a few, forgive my grammar and mistakes. This is a very quick list.

Dick skills
Sexuality
Confidence
Knows how to fuck
Music tastes
Attitude
Exprienced as much as I have.
Willing to try new an olds tricks
They know how to dress and behave.
They can cook a good meal
I can call her a milf which will 1.Make her laugh or 2. Make her wetter
Will do what younger women think is gross.
Finds it erotic to call me daddy when Im fucking her, which is awesome.
Respects how sucessful I am and how hard I work.
They tend to spoil you as much as you spoil them.
Intelligent conversation
Meaningful Ideals and outlooks.
Attention span is not like a lil facebook slut.

Once again, very quick list please forgive my spelling and or puncuation.

 

[Miles Long]

I could list over 100 reasons. But here is just a few, forgive my grammar and mistakes. This is a very quick list.

Dick skills
Sexuality
Confidence
Knows how to fuck
Music tastes
Attitude
Exprienced as much as I have.
Willing to try new an olds tricks
They know how to dress and behave.
They can cook a good meal
I can call her a milf which will 1.Make her laugh or 2. Make her wetter
Will do what younger women think is gross.
Finds it erotic to call me daddy when Im fucking her, which is awesome.
Respects how sucessful I am and how hard I work.
They tend to spoil you as much as you spoil them.
Intelligent conversation
Meaningful Ideals and outlooks.
Attention span is not like a lil facebook slut.

Once again, very quick list please forgive my spelling and or puncuation.

I'll be honest. I like any list that starts off with "Dick skills" at number one.

 

[LadyVer]

Bump. Great thread and comments from the men.

 

[Lord_Nibiru]

A few thoughts:
He is likely seeing $ in other words he views you as a sugar momma
Older women your age would be rare to get pregnant
Maturity.

I don't think most guys care about the first 2, but yeah maturity and experience probably. You'd imagine most older women could offer a few little surprises and (might sound bad) but maybe the guy's a bit nervous and finds more comfort in a confident older woman. Plus, lets be fair, loads of older girls are hot.

Just go with it, if he's not genuine it won't take long to see through him - he's a dude afterall.


Oh yeah "dick skills" - love it

 

[MrBiggs69]

I'll be honest. I like any list that starts off with "Dick skills" at number one.

Not in that order.....or any particular order lol. But yeah that is important.

 

[Miles Long]

Not in that order.....or any particular order lol. But yeah that is important.

I think I knew a Dick Skills back in college. He was a good guy.

 

[IhateClowns]

I think I new a Dick Skills back in college. He was a good guy.

Was my pledge name

 

[Miles Long]

Was my pledge name

That was you? Good to see you again, brother!

 

[ZipBlockBloodie]

Exactly what others have said. It's the reason I don't date anyone younger than me or my age.

Maturity is a big one, that means less or no bullshit attached. We also like a sense of security and i'm not talking about money, I mean emotionally the connection is tighter.


Also I find older women are openminded about things in general.

 

[IhateClowns]

For me honestly, age doesn't matter. It is the connection made with the person. She could be 50 or 21. I think too much emphasis is made on age. I won't date anyone under this age or over that one. I think it limits your opportunities. I have dated women older than me and younger than me. Each one privides a different dynamic.

If you don't act your age, and just be yourself then you age won't matter. Obviously this is within reason. If you are underage or if I have to change your diaper then move along.

Don't focus on the age difference. Who cares if he is 33 or if you are older. Just have a good time. If that happens then nothing else matters