What is the one thing that takes your breath away?

[lark sparrow]

One (BDSM) thing that really takes your breath away, brings you to your knees or makes your head swim?

(Open to interpretation, of course! )

 

[bunny bondage]

well, this probably isn't what you're looking for since it was a one time thing, but it certianly left me feeling over-awed and put in my place. He was sitting on one end of the couch and i was reclining with my head in His lap. He had been petting my hair but had laid His arm across my chest. playfully, i grabbed it and started biting. "yeah? you wanna bite me?" He asked as he pressed his arm into my face. "go on, harder, i can take it." He urged. misunderstanding, i did as He asked and bit with all my might - thinking this was just a new game. but He quickly reminded me who was the pet. His arm pressed down painfully on me and i was struggling to keep the pressure off my nose. (nobody looks pretty with a broken nose, it's the only reason i'm not seriously interested in boxing) He continued jeering at me, taunting me as He pressed His arm - one of the two arms that He uses to bench press me - downward. just as i was beginning to get really scared, He finally released. i looked up at Him, wondering what, if anything, He was going to do next. He said something like "now you know not to bite me, right?" i just nodded. His grim expression was all seriousness, and i felt as though His gaze might draw every secret from my soul. i was SO wet.

 

[Netzach]

A view from the Top:

M submitting. Going to his knees, kissing my hands, letting me put his collar on him, calling me "Masterette" in the middle of the day, not in a "scene" per se.

M asking "please beat me" totally out of the blue. M saying "fuck me, Daddy" when I fuck him. M yelling while I use the mean cat o nine and still wanting me to use it more.

Watching someone, anyone, bootblack.

A view from the bottom:

Play with my pressure points. The time my Top, an acupuncturist, played with my Qi and some needles.

Bootblacking a really hot pair of boots.

 

[Netzach]

Ok, so it's five things. Do you really expect a switchable bisexual to be able to pick just one?

 

[psiberzerker]

I'm with Netzach, lot's o' stuff tempers me, but I realy get off on burning. On the other end of the whip, I really enjoy having someone totally at my mercy. I don't want to hurt hem, just completely fill their world, their sensorium with me. Nothing takes my breath away on the top like taking away theirs. (Figuratively, not literaly.)

 

[Richard49]

When R would get on her knees and offer me her play collar and ask me to put it on her ..........

 

[WynEternal]

Oh wow. Just one thing? It's so hard to choose. Sometimes, it can be a look, or just a few words softly whispered in my ear that make my knees quiver and melt, and sends my heart fluttering.

 

[BlondGirl]

...When a lover bites the back of my neck while fucking.

 

[Richard49]

...When a lover bites the back of my next while fucking.

My vampire kiss

 

[Azalea]

What takes my breath away? Simply the thought that my body would be totally at my lover's disposal, for whatever he desired. That thought is enough to arouse me.

What took my breath away a few miinute's ago was Richard's words on another thread....
"Those I have collared or have wanted to collar I have loved."
That was like an electric shock, and I am totally aroused and even feeling weak-kneed.

 

[Richard49]

What takes my breath away? Simply the thought that my body would be totally at my lover's disposal, for whatever he desired. That thought is enough to arouse me.

What took my breath away a few miinute's ago was Richard's words on another thread....
"Those I have collared or have wanted to collar I have loved."
That was like an electric shock, and I am totally aroused and even feeling weak-kneed.

It please me that I touched you so deeply

 

[Azalea]

Then, sweetie, be very pleased, for I am very deeply moved.
And be assured, the pleasure is mine.

 

[psiberzerker]

One thing that literally takes my breath away(And incidentally theirs), is co-breathing. The one asphyx thing I permit my self is breathing together mouth to mouth during love/hatemaking. Though relatively safe (for breath play) I wouldn't even do it if it wasn't a bit of a fetish for me.
Fortunately, there's no resetory/circulatory constriction, just normal breating of a hypoxinated breath. You can also regulate it somewhat by adding sips of air from your nose. Don't get me wrong, it's still hideously dangerous. I'd stop if I could. Please please please do not try this unless BOTH of you know CPR.

 

[lark sparrow]

One thing that literally takes my breath away(And incidentally theirs), is co-breathing. The one asphyx thing I permit my self is breathing together mouth to mouth during love/hatemaking. Though relatively safe (for breath play) I wouldn't even do it if it wasn't a bit of a fetish for me.<snip>

I've done this as well - very intimate (and cooperative) activity, but I've not done it not for extended periods of time at all, so I think it's been safe.

 

[lilminx]

The way he talks to me while his fingers are inside of me.

 

[Domcop]

The way he talks to me while his fingers are inside of me.

dont worry: there will much more of that and a few other variations on the same theme.
glad to know i take your breath away beh beh.

 

[lilminx]

dont worry: there will much more of that and a few other variations on the same theme.
glad to know i take your breath away beh beh.

Me too.

 

[scoobytoo2000]

OMG my first post ever after being a member for about a year ! ! !
It rarely happens but sometimes after intercourse if the wife is not completely satisfied, without asking or caring she will jump up and sit on my face and force me to finish her off, i am not gay or bisexual but being forced to clean her out and make her come is just a wonderfully wicked thing to do....I dont know if this really counts as BDSM, but it does for me

 

[bunny bondage]

OMG my first post ever after being a member for about a year ! ! !
It rarely happens but sometimes after intercourse if the wife is not completely satisfied, without asking or caring she will jump up and sit on my face and force me to finish her off, i am not gay or bisexual but being forced to clean her out and make her come is just a wonderfully wicked thing to do....I dont know if this really counts as BDSM, but it does for me

hiya! welcome! and you'll be glad to know that enjoying the taste of your own cum does not mean you have to suddenly start questioning your sexuality. He often drinks his cum from my mouth, but is as straight as it gets. does your wife know how much you like this? perhaps there are other things you could try as well!

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

When He runs the flat of His palm across my nipple...

It not only takes my breath away, but drops me right into subspace, every time.

~anelize

 

[bunny bondage]

i've been thinking about this, and after reviewing the porn we've made (which is a lot!) something occured to me! when He jerks on a leash attached to my collar. i know, i know, this isn't terribly inventive, but it really does make my soul flutter! especially when i'm blindfolded and i have no idea that it's coming. it's just an excellent way to control my entire body with nothing more than a flick of the wrist. mm!

 

[psiberzerker]

Hiya, scoobytoo2000! Glad you got that off your chest. I think having your wife "force" oral sex on you is Dominant, but barely. The fact that you get off on something you concider gay, despite your sexuality is definitely submissive, at least by my definition.
No, I don't think tasting your own seed, and liking it makes you gay. Nothing makes you gay, just like nothing can make you a dominant, submissive, sadist, masochist, et cetera. Sexuality is intrinsic, and while it can be changed somewhat, it takes a long time.
Welcome to the club, I hope you keep exploring, and enjoying yourself, and your wife's.

 

[scoobytoo2000]

I wasnt questioning my prefrences, now reading it 24 hours later I do not know why I put that part in there..I grew up in the San Francisco bay area and have seen it all....My motto is if ya have fun JUST DO IT and who cares what others think

 

[lassarina]

Restraints and a blindfold are the things that will send me into subspace the quickest. Especially if they're applied while i'm alseep and i wake up to them already on.

lass

 

[Ebonyfire]

Walking into a totally clean house, and looking down at the naked kneeling sub awaiting my opinion of his work.