what I'm looking for

[magdalene]

I’ve been thinking about posting an ad here for a while, but couldn’t figure out how to explain what it is I’m looking for. Plus I am nervous, being a newbie. I decided to go ahead and try anyway.

I was sexually abused as a child, and have been going through a period of intense personal growth and healing in many areas of my life, including my sexuality. I would like someone to talk with about sexual issues. I am interesting in exploring different aspects of my sexuality. I have discovered that much of what I thought I liked and didn’t like sexually was more of a reaction to the abuse than a real expression of my likes and dislikes. I am interested in learning and talking about what I really like and what I really want, sexually. There are some aspects of my sexuality that I have felt embarrassed or ashamed of in the past, such as some fantasies about BDSM kinds of activities, and I would like to be able to discuss those things with understanding and accepting people.

I am mainly interested in on-line conversation right now, but might be interested in meeting to continue exploring things at a later date, depending on how things go.

 

[cuff_U_now]

Anything you want to talk about I will. About time to release what's hidden. Life is to short to think back about what it could have been. Ask and I'll be glad to answer. If PM is easier then chose that.

I’ve been thinking about posting an ad here for a while, but couldn’t figure out how to explain what it is I’m looking for. Plus I am nervous, being a newbie. I decided to go ahead and try anyway.

I was sexually abused as a child, and have been going through a period of intense personal growth and healing in many areas of my life, including my sexuality. I would like someone to talk with about sexual issues. I am interesting in exploring different aspects of my sexuality. I have discovered that much of what I thought I liked and didn’t like sexually was more of a reaction to the abuse than a real expression of my likes and dislikes. I am interested in learning and talking about what I really like and what I really want, sexually. There are some aspects of my sexuality that I have felt embarrassed or ashamed of in the past, such as some fantasies about BDSM kinds of activities, and I would like to be able to discuss those things with understanding and accepting people.

I am mainly interested in on-line conversation right now, but might be interested in meeting to continue exploring things at a later date, depending on how things go.

 

[gldflcn]

I’ve been thinking about posting an ad here for a while, but couldn’t figure out how to explain what it is I’m looking for. Plus I am nervous, being a newbie. I decided to go ahead and try anyway.

I was sexually abused as a child, and have been going through a period of intense personal growth and healing in many areas of my life, including my sexuality. I would like someone to talk with about sexual issues. I am interesting in exploring different aspects of my sexuality. I have discovered that much of what I thought I liked and didn’t like sexually was more of a reaction to the abuse than a real expression of my likes and dislikes. I am interested in learning and talking about what I really like and what I really want, sexually. There are some aspects of my sexuality that I have felt embarrassed or ashamed of in the past, such as some fantasies about BDSM kinds of activities, and I would like to be able to discuss those things with understanding and accepting people.

I would be more than willing to chat with you, here or yahoo or MSN whichever you prefer...would like to hear your ideas, thoughts, fantasies and get to know you and see if I maybe can offer some insight or direction or just some help in general..
Drop me a line...


I am mainly interested in on-line conversation right now, but might be interested in meeting to continue exploring things at a later date, depending on how things go.

 

[OldestMotive]

I have a friend who has much the same story and is in much the same place as you are right now. She and I have talked alot over the years and especially over the last year as she has been dealing with the rediscovery of her sexuallity. You're welcome to PM me if you want to talk.

 

[magdalene]

thanks to all who responded

I appreciate the support. I have replied to the responses here by PM.

Thanks again,
Magdalene

 

[Sphinx220]

Feel free to contact me anytime...I think everyone should be have folks to talk to...

 

[anthony10306ny]

Anthony here

I am a good, caring, loving , white male I am 43 from New York, I saw your post and would like to try to help you. in any way I can as an human that has cares for others like I do. Just like for you to know I am in a wheel chair I have cancer, but I am here for you to be your friend to chat with you on anything you like to. I am safe to get to know. e mail me at anthony10306ny@aol.com
I do thank you yours Anthony