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Christopher2012
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This is a series of threads that I have created in search for female friends who enjoy playful and flirty chat as well as deep conversation. I have learned a lot over the course of creating these threads, and I continue to refine my own preferences in women. That's really great because I'm learning and hopefully I have made a positive impact on the women I interact with.
So with that, this is a more detailed explanation of what I'm looking for in a woman. In the past, I simplified my requirements to a few main qualities: intelligence, wit, and quirkiness. What I was left with was women PMing me, telling me that they won the Nobel Peace Prize, were leaders in their scientific community, had doctorate degrees, and I think even Michelle Obama PMed me at one point. What I realized is that just because you have credentials, that doesn't necessarily mean that you're going to stimulate my brain.
I think what it really boils down to is that I'm looking for a girl who can naturally and fluidly interact with me in a way that doesn't seem fake. I want to laugh and I want to make you laugh. I want there to be times where we're totally relaxed and maybe even a bit flirty and I also want there to be times where we can talk about deep life concepts, current events, etc. And it does not take a Ph.D. to do any of that. As a matter of fact, I think it takes something even more special than a degree hanging on your wall. I mean, look at me. I'm dumb as hell and I have a piece of paper on my wall that says I spent a lot of time staring at the ceiling and playing video games in class.
The question of age and body size always comes up. It doesn't matter. As a matter of fact, I don't think I've ever had a decent conversation with somebody under the age of 25 on Lit (and I'm 27). And I'm a bigger guy. I love women of all sizes. So don't let that make you hesitate. Generally, if you're confident that you're sexy, then that will probably shine and I'll see you as sexy, too.
Like I said the first time, there's really no right or wrong. Our destination is unknown but the sky is the limit. As far as kink goes, express your sexuality and desires if you wish. If not, that's fine, too.
Just please don't send me a short PM with no thought behind it unless we have spoken in one of my threads. If we have talked before, a short PM is fine. But if you have 0 posts and you send me a PM that says "Hi there, I'm interested," I'm not going to respond (and yes, that happens... a lot).
Update: If you have less than 100 posts on the forum, please do not PM me. This is no offense against lurkers or new posters. I just want posts from active members with some forum presence. Thank you and see you on the boards.
So with that, this is a more detailed explanation of what I'm looking for in a woman. In the past, I simplified my requirements to a few main qualities: intelligence, wit, and quirkiness. What I was left with was women PMing me, telling me that they won the Nobel Peace Prize, were leaders in their scientific community, had doctorate degrees, and I think even Michelle Obama PMed me at one point. What I realized is that just because you have credentials, that doesn't necessarily mean that you're going to stimulate my brain.
I think what it really boils down to is that I'm looking for a girl who can naturally and fluidly interact with me in a way that doesn't seem fake. I want to laugh and I want to make you laugh. I want there to be times where we're totally relaxed and maybe even a bit flirty and I also want there to be times where we can talk about deep life concepts, current events, etc. And it does not take a Ph.D. to do any of that. As a matter of fact, I think it takes something even more special than a degree hanging on your wall. I mean, look at me. I'm dumb as hell and I have a piece of paper on my wall that says I spent a lot of time staring at the ceiling and playing video games in class.
The question of age and body size always comes up. It doesn't matter. As a matter of fact, I don't think I've ever had a decent conversation with somebody under the age of 25 on Lit (and I'm 27). And I'm a bigger guy. I love women of all sizes. So don't let that make you hesitate. Generally, if you're confident that you're sexy, then that will probably shine and I'll see you as sexy, too.
Like I said the first time, there's really no right or wrong. Our destination is unknown but the sky is the limit. As far as kink goes, express your sexuality and desires if you wish. If not, that's fine, too.
Just please don't send me a short PM with no thought behind it unless we have spoken in one of my threads. If we have talked before, a short PM is fine. But if you have 0 posts and you send me a PM that says "Hi there, I'm interested," I'm not going to respond (and yes, that happens... a lot).
Update: If you have less than 100 posts on the forum, please do not PM me. This is no offense against lurkers or new posters. I just want posts from active members with some forum presence. Thank you and see you on the boards.
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