What has someone PMed you that turned you on the most?

Great thread. I really like when a woman says something very dirty but very witty/intelligent. It is usually based on a post I wrote or my screen name.
To paraphrase Will Rogers: I never read an initial PM that I didn't enjoy reading.
 
I was sent a short vid of a woman I've chatted with - if it is a woman - teeing off at a golf course. She's a skinny Asian woman. Yeah... it was hot. 🤷
 
I got a private message where the person wrote more than just a line or two, which was nice for starters. But then, it seemed, no matter the sexual act they discussed, it was apparent we liked the same thing. What made it really erotic was that it was right down to the most detailed, trivial aspect of things.

The initial PM was eye-opening and erotic, but so was everyone after that as we discussed the tiniest of details knowing the other liked it as well. The spell was broken when I went on vacation and never returned to conversing with them again.
 
I chatted with a woman here a couple of years back for five or six months. She sent me pics, lingerie then nudes...then a long masturbation video...THEN a face pic. Honestly that face pic seemed a bigger deal than watching her orgasm...she was very guarded about never posting her face, so it was "special"
 
Received a pm from a woman who really wants a threesome (or more) and/or couples sex. Had my full and undivided attention. Would love for wife and I to experience another couple (or guest) who love to have a great time! She seemed very mature, focused and straight forward. Was a Great pm back and forth. I hope she finally makes a breakthrough in her quest!
 
I got a private message where the person wrote more than just a line or two, which was nice for starters. But then, it seemed, no matter the sexual act they discussed, it was apparent we liked the same thing. What made it really erotic was that it was right down to the most detailed, trivial aspect of things.

The initial PM was eye-opening and erotic, but so was everyone after that as we discussed the tiniest of details knowing the other liked it as well. The spell was broken when I went on vacation and never returned to conversing with them again.
This. Write more than "I like your tits" and take the time to connect your interests with mine/ours and now you may get a response.
 
Not necessarily a turn-on exactly but I get so warm and fuzzy inside when someone PMs me and we realize we have similar kinks and experiences 🄰 not just exhibitionism. Makes me feel not alone in the world, and it's hot af too. It's like my heart's cumming :cathappy:
 
I had one woman PM me about fucking her adult son, based on some of my activities on threads here. Turned into a helluva conversation! Who knows if it's real or not? Still helped me squirt a couple loads so far.
 
I received a text message from a woman at work I had been talking to and had a dinner date with. Some of our conversations had skirted on being sexually teasing. Her text said if I came over to her place and ate her pussy, she'd suck my cock. I broke speed limit laws getting there!!
 
Any PM that references a special moment we shared.
"I need more of ...."
Not generic. Individual and personal.
 
Even if we never plan to meet, communicating with someone where that's a possibility is exciting. Just knowing it's possible makes everything much more vivid.

When I run my fantasies about it, it's easier to picture myself in the fantasy, whereas when I read erotica, I can imagine myself there, but it's not as vivid and always feels somewhat like I'm watching someone else.
 
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A million years ago I was chatting in the Literotica chat 'Busty Beauties' room. A female friend of mine and I chatted privately for a bit and then she posted in the 'public room' that all the women should check out my profile pic and chat with me because I would get them off. For the next hour, I was a 'chat stud' and had so much fun. That's the only time that has happened.
 
Sorry, this was a stupid duplicate question that I have edited.

I think for me it wasn’t overtly sexual. It was a girl sending me a face shot. I had been talking to her a while and liked her. I had also formed the impression she was cute. But wow I had underestimated how cute.

Em
I had recently reconnected with a female school mate on Messenger. Talking about my bad marriage and found out she was divorced. Out of the blue, she said whenever you get free, come to her house and join her in her hot tube. Said I would have to dig out my trunks and then she said "swimsuits are optional". Instant fantasy and horniness, lol.
 
A woman friend here pm'ing me about having an FFM in detail and how she would like it to play out.
 
I’d leave the Sub out as it upsets a number of people on here who seem to not like how I use the term. I.e. I’m not a ā€œrealā€ sub as it’s just about role playing for me and not a way of life. I get a lot of hate about it. Maybe EmilyMillerFakeSub would have been better.

Em
Sorry to hear about the hate. Though you do say tendency and not lifestyle in your profile.
 
Is it too much to ask to say hey I like your forum comments, I'd like to get to know you???
 
For me it was chatting with a 50 year old married woman on here. I'm 40 and also married. Started off with just us sharing our sexual frustration which lead to erotic stories, photos, and videos. Plus just genuine good and honest conversation. It was an exciting few months. No one has matched her. Just fantastic.
 
A specific picture from three or four years ago. Because of who it was from and what it signified.
 
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