What every girl virgin should know

[LonelyLittleRed]

I need some advice, I'm finally taking that step and I'm worried about being bad or doing something wrong or getting hurt. I'd appreciate some advice if you please.

 

[Wife of Bath]

I need some advice, I'm finally taking that step and I'm worried about being bad or doing something wrong or getting hurt. I'd appreciate some advice if you please.

If you're this concerned you're not ready.

 

[Super-Surprise]

I need some advice, I'm finally taking that step and I'm worried about being bad or doing something wrong or getting hurt. I'd appreciate some advice if you please.

Make ABSOLUTELY sure your partner(s) do not have any venereal diseases! (STD's)

See here... http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=11545

See here... http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1297908

 

[bronzeage]

I need some advice, I'm finally taking that step and I'm worried about being bad or doing something wrong or getting hurt. I'd appreciate some advice if you please.

I'll pretend you are who and what you present yourself to be and give you the advice I gave my daughters.

Make the decision ahead of time. Choose the time, the place, and the person with great care. If you leave this to the last minute, someone else will make these choices for you.

Beyond that, don't worry about it. It doesn't last long and probably be no better than your first attempt at snow skiing. Don't expect angels to blow trumpets. It's like anything else, it takes practice to get good at it. And like anything else that requires a partner, you need to practice with the same partner, if you really want to get good at it.

 

[Hard_Rom]

Take your time. Make sure you are ready. Some say it hurt a bit. It is a learning thing. I doubt it is great for anyone the first time.

 

[Penuche]

I need some advice, I'm finally taking that step and I'm worried about being bad or doing something wrong or getting hurt. I'd appreciate some advice if you please.

I'd echo the comment about disease. If you're unaware or unsure of safe sex methods, now would be a good time to find out, before you become more sexually active.

Also, the comment that unless you decide who where, when etc this will be, somebody else will decide those things - do this on your terms as far as possible.

There's no perfect time to lose your virginity, and your first time is unlikely to be amazing. It might be, if the person you're with is skillful, respectful, and understanding, but don't rely on it.

I don't want to embarrass you by making you say in public whether you masturbate, but if you do, it's likely to give you an idea of what feels good to you. It can be a great help to your partner when they're trying to work out how to give you as much pleasure as you're giving them.