What does your sexuality NEED?

[Luna_Wolf72]

What would Your Sexuality say are its basic needs? Its core requirements?

How about you?

Trust
Honesty
Willingness

That's it, that's all.

I can live without Topping, I can exist without being a Daddi, I can live without all of the fun little games and lessons...I can NOT live without those three things, sexually. Nor would I want to.

 

[Duncan1981]

As to the OP.

Fire, sparks, passion, lust or whatever else you choose to call it. I need the feeling of wanting in me at all times.

 

[NomadLady]

For mine, the answers would be intimacy, an atmosphere of exploration and creativity, and, at a fundamental level, the need to BE dominated in the bedroom.
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My sexuality needs to be linked to my primal side... The pleasure is but one aspect of what my drive is...

I need to serve. I need to please. I need to be cared for, loved, and kept close. On occasion, I need to hurt in a way that breaks down anything and everything, and then to be held in a way that puts me back together.

As to the OP.
Fire, sparks, passion, lust or whatever else you choose to call it. I need the feeling of wanting in me at all times.

Been reading this thread a few days now for the lack of just writing a list, these people described it pretty well for me....

 

[Byron999]

Been reading this thread a few days now for the lack of just writing a list, these people described it pretty well for me....

Yeah .... can't fault the above ..... but need a good kick start, a spark that will light my fuse

 

[MsDeanne]

Exploration...
much MUCH more exploration.

 

[Deleted member 1251157]

Having my husband kissing me long, tenderly, passionately, lovingly enough ....

 

[Duncan1981]

Today it needs this.

A thunderstorm of control. I need to look down upon her with a gaze that could boil her blood into liquide sex. The feeling of her skin as I reach down to cup her cheek. The brush of her clit as I force it into bliss. I NEED the thoughts that pump her full of feeling of passion and lust. To hear her begging "Please Sir can I have some more...." "You can have all of it."

Damn I just need my focusing control of her body.

FUCKING NYQUIL drugs my brain!

 

[dexwebster]

In short: power exchange, security, and an interesting partner.

- Power exchange. Gender, formality, and who's in what role are all irrelevant, but there has to be something. It really is a fetish. I basically don't get aroused unless someone has more power than their partner. And if I have to choose between a bout of vanilla, orgasm-guaranteed sex and a D/s scene with no sexual contact, I'll take the D/s.

- Security. I have a traumatic past and a few resulting hangups. In order to relax enough to really engage and enjoy, I need to be comfortable enough to know those buttons won't get pushed.

- Interesting. I'm a hardcore introvert and don't need that much human interaction. If you don't bring something else to the table, well, I've got a good imagination and a fully functioning hand. Orgasms are cheap. What do I need you for? For me to really want someone, there has to be something about them that makes me sit up and take notice.

 

[Felix_Jones]

Well, the title of the thread is; "What does your sexuality NEED?" So, if your sexuality is apparent one hour out of twenty-four, what does it need-- in that timeframe?

Excellent point! Hhhmmm...a willing participant maybe? With an imagination and a bin full of weird implements. You can never regress sexually, I might be relegated to dating only women with strapons and S&M benches. Or at the very least those ones willing to take things there.

 

[Commedia]

With one I love and care for, I need intimacy, romance, and tender love.

With my sexuality in general, I need curiosity, exploration, excitement. I'm very moody, sexually, and my moods usually determine my sexual needs.

 

[Commedia]

It's just so intimate, and lovely.

I agree. Kissing, to me, is far more intimate than sex.

 

[o_so_wet]

Someone to take control...cuz sometimes I tend to get out of control

 

[aahilliard]

This:

I need to serve. I need to please. I need to be cared for, loved, and kept close. On occasion, I need to hurt in a way that breaks down anything and everything, and then to be held in a way that puts me back together.

More than anything, though, I need to be able to make him happy.

exactly.