What Does Prom Night Teach To Kids?

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Excess?
Arrogance?
Debt?
Does the prom teach any viable lesson about life?


Her dress cost $250; her shoes were $100; and there was $60 for a bottle of Christian Dior's J'adore, her favorite perfume. A trip to the beauty salon will cost $70, the limo is $50 a person, and it will cost $90 just to get in the door.

Lucas, 18, who attends Staples High School in Westport, Connecticut, expects to pay more than $700 by the time the evening is over.

"It's totally worth it!" said Lucas, who got a part-time job at a clothing store to help pay for the June 6 event. "How can you put a price tag on a lifetime of memories?"

Proms are a huge business, estimated to bring in $2.7 billion in revenue for purveyors of dresses, shoes, lingerie, cameras, film, beauty supplies and salon services. Teens also rent limousines and hotel rooms and plan after-prom parties.

Almost 20 million students will attend proms this year, with the average 17-year-old spending $638, or more than $1,200 per couple, according to research by Conde Nast, which publishes Your Prom and Modern Bride magazine.

It's totally worth it! How can you put a price tag on a lifetime of memories?
-- Raquel Lucas, high school senior


"It's definitely become a reliable, growing industry," said Wendy Liebmann, a retail analyst at WSL Strategic Retail. "And right now, it's booming."

Retailers are pouring millions of dollars into prom advertising. Magazines such as Your Prom, Seventeen magazine's prom issue, and YM magazine's special prom book attract millions of readers.

"The prom is recession-proof," said Antonia van der Meer, editor-in-chief of Your Prom, which is published every January. "Even with the war on terror and the war in Iraq, people go to the prom. It's a feel-good event, and right now people need to feel good."

Your Prom says that of its 5.2 million readers, 55 percent have part-time jobs, earning an average $4,651 a year. Overall, teens spent $172 billion in 2001, with nearly half going toward clothing, jewelry and beauty products, according to Conde Nast research.


Limousine driver Mike Muth, far left, helps a group of seniors from Mariner High School in Everett, Washington, pose for prom pictures.
Van der Meer, the Your Prom editor, said many teens get a life lesson from shopping for their proms.

"They learn -- in this microworld of prom -- what things cost and how to budget," she said. "Whether you have a prom girl who has a lot of money to spend or a little, they're going to have to budget."

Department stores are often a destination where teens shop for prom dresses, but small businesses are also beneficiaries. Teens spend $416 million a year for limousines, and $172 million on flowers, Conde Nast found.

Robert Rivera, of Continental Limo service in Westport, who will be driving many of Lucas's classmates to their prom, said he makes about $40,000, or about 15 percent of his annual sales, during the prom season, which runs from late April through June.

"Every limo company looks forward to prom," he said.


*How much did you spend on your prom stuff?
Me...
About 40 bucks total..
I rented my tux, my girlfriend made her dress, my mom let me take the '66 Continental.
We danced a little, and with another couple we parked in the woods.
It was a fucking good time!

:D :devil: :rose: :p
 
My daughter went to Jr. Prom this year.

She shared a limo (120 for her and her date) and they both agreed that they wouldn't do it again, next year they are taking a cab.

She bought her dress at Value Village. $30, fully red squin gown. $40 to alter.

He rented his tux, $65.

They drove the limo thru Taco Bell. $12.

Hair was $30 bucks, but I paid close attention so I could do it myself if she liked the syle.

He bought her a wrist corsase $25 and paid for the on site photo $20.

But then, that's just us. My daughter likes vintage clothes and we shop at antique stores etc for them.

When all the other girls were standing around in their light blues and pale pinks, she was a living flame in that red flashing gown we got for 30 bucks.

:)
 
I didn't even go to my Prom. My buddies and I convened at my best friend's house and played Shadowrun instead. I am certain we had a better time doing that than we would have had we chosen to go. (Jake and I were the only seniors--we'd have hung out together and been BORED--wishing we were at my best friend's house playing Shadowrun. ;)
 
I paid through the nose for prom. I think, when all was said and done, I ended up shelling out a little over 750$(Including the hotel room)

But, hey, how can you put a price tag on lifetime memories(Pretty easily. 750$.)

Was it worth it? Well, my girlfriend decided to break up with me at our prom and the hotel room ended up being a place where I passed out drunk on the floor.

I'd say that's worth it.

Prom is supposed to be a celebration of your high school years, who cares if it teaches you a lesson or not?
 
I've didn't go to my senior prom -mostly because I got my GED when I was 16 after my sophomore year in high school. Even if I hadn't gotten my GED early, I still wouldn't have gone -I didn't understand the point, and I honestly still don't.

What does prom night teach kids? Mostly how to waste money.
 
I was a frugal teen. My junior year, my prom dress was the dress I wore for my sister's wedding a month prior. My senior year I went spent $100 on a dress that normally cost twice that. Clearance sale at a bridal shop. $10 for gloves. A family friend was a hair dresser and did my hair for nothing. My date borrowd his uncle's car. I bought the tickets since I asked him and he was an underclassman. All totaled, it came to about $150 for me, which I paid for all by myself. I do agree tho, it was worth it. I will always remember my proms.
 
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