What do you want to know about the opposite sex?

[BlackSnake]

Every since I had desires for females, I wanted to know how to please them. Not in some vague general way, but specifically.

For instance, I like females with soft bottoms. I like grinding against their bottoms til I cum. I don't like females to have a lot of hair between their legs. I like having my mouth between their legs and hair gets in my mouth which I hate.

 

[Selena_Kitt]

<gulp> quite a description you gave there!

What do I want to know about men?

Hm... What are men really feeling when they look at other women? I mean, if they're in a committed relationship... and their eyes wander... is it a reflex? Does it really mean she's prettier? That he wants her? What?

 

[hugo_sam]

<gulp> quite a description you gave there!

What do I want to know about men?

Hm... What are men really feeling when they look at other women? I mean, if they're in a committed relationship... and their eyes wander... is it a reflex? Does it really mean she's prettier? That he wants her? What?

As with many of the potential questions that may come on this thread, I can only answer for myself.
There is usually no great meaning when guy looks at another woman. For me it simply falls under the catagory of general appreciation of beauty, packaging, style...take your pick. You can look at another car and appreciate it's lines, or color or design. The difference is that appreciation does not translate directly into want. It think that is often the confusion, I can appreciate something without wanting it for myself. In fact there are many things I can appreciate that I most definitely do not want.
IMHO

 

[Guest]

do men really mean what they say when they compliment a woman's body?
(agrees with selena) why look when you already have someone? why say things like "I will look at whom I want to and flirt with who I want to"? don't they understand that kills a part of us inside?
why do you demand that we go down on you but when we would like it returned you think its gross?

can you understand that sometimes we are grown women and can and wll take complete care of ourselves... and other times we WANT and need you to be our 'big strong man' even if it sounds old fashioned and outdated

 

[Selena_Kitt]

In fact there are many things I can appreciate that I most definitely do not want.

*smile* great answer... so what do you want to know about the opposite sex?

 

[cloudy]

why look when you already have someone? why say things like "I will look at whom I want to and flirt with who I want to"? don't they understand that kills a part of us inside?

I disagree....it may bother you, but it doesn't bother all of us. If I'm comfortable with myself and the relationship, he can flirt, look all he wants to. Even if I'm not all that comfortable in the relationship yet, it still doesn't bother me.

Looking is just that: looking. That's all.

 

[BlackShanglan]

What do you want to know about the opposite sex?

What is it?

 

[The_Fool]

Sometimes the looking is an unconsious response.

On a related note. When you "dress up" do you wish to be admired?

 

[Evil Alpaca]

What is it?

That's a human. Weird looking, aren't they?

 

[Selena_Kitt]

What is it?

*snort* !!

Time to do some phenomenological research?

 

[Selena_Kitt]

When you "dress up" do you wish to be admired?

I would say, oh yes, most definitely yes... appreciated, admired, seen... not oggled (or is it oogled?) in a creepy way of course...

 

[BlackShanglan]

That's a human. Weird looking, aren't they?

Strange. They wear clothing, and yet they're so ... naked.

Thank goodness for fuzzies.

 

[Evil Alpaca]

Strange. They wear clothing, and yet they're so ... naked.

Thank goodness for fuzzies.

Luckily, SOME of them realize that you're supposed to do it on all fours.

 

[The_Fool]

What is it?

You still hanging on to that androgynous placard?

 

[hugo_sam]

*smile* great answer... so what do you want to know about the opposite sex?

That is actually a difficult question SK.

I think I could fill volumes with what I want to know and/or do not understand about the opposite sex.

As far as the question of 'gowing down' on a woman. I have never understood that one either and I am entirely male. Personanaly I would rather 'go down' on a woman that have the recoprical (JMHO)

I think my question would be why do many(but by no means all) women feel the need to 'play games' (dropping hints to what they want) and then get upset when men(generally more literal beings) do not understand or pick up on the nuances or hints, when strightforward statements would be so much more effective and generate far less friction?

 

[kendo1]

Just because I'm on a diet doesn't mean I can't look at the menu.

What's wrong with looking? Does that make me unfaithful to the one I've been married to for the last 20 years? (and the 10 years of living together before)

My wife likes to look too. Big deal.

I'm with uncle Hugo.

More to the point, I want to know why women fall out with one another.
My wife and daughter fell out tonight! I managed to get them talking again after lots of hugs(from daddy).
Daughter hates her best friend, then she didn't, then she did again(all in the space of a week).

I never fall out with my son or daughter.

Ken

 

[BlackShanglan]

You still hanging on to that androgynous placard?

If the horseshoe fits ... or is indeed nailed to one's hoof ...

 

[carsonshepherd]

Luckily, SOME of them realize that you're supposed to do it on all fours.

Woof!

 

[Stella_Omega]

I like to look, too- very much, I ogle men and women both.
I nudge my husband and point women out to him that he's missed. I would be worried if he didn't look at other women, to me it would be a sign that his interest in life in general is waning.

Here's a question though-
How is it that a man can see a car flash by and in the space of a half-second see enough of it that he knows the make, model, and engine size- AND exactly how many were made in that particular year? I mean, I can tell you the color...

 

[hugo_sam]

I like to look, too- very much, I ogle men and women both.
I nudge my husband and point women out to him that he's missed. I would be worried if he didn't look at other women, to me it would be a sign that his interest in life in general is waning.

Here's a question though-
How is it that a man can see a car flash by and in the space of a half-second see enough of it that he knows the make, model, and engine size- AND exactly how many were made in that particular year? I mean, I can tell you the color...

To partially answer your question Stella
I think it is a matter of interest and knowledge.
Again it does not apply to all women( by any means) but I have seen women momentarily see how someone is dressed and name the maker of clothes, style and current(ncy) of the fashion. To me it is just good looking clothes or not. Nothing else.
I have also seen the same think happen with makeup. How one woman can look at another and tell the brand of makeup befuddles me, but I have seen it done.

 

[entitled]

i want to know why it's ok for men not just to look, but to comment LOUDLY about whoever or whatever crosses their path, but it's taboo for a woman to blurt out some version of 'fuck me RAW' when something really yummy walks by.

 

[Guest]

 

[kendo1]

Well, as a women speeds past me and I just catch a glimpse of her I could tell you her bust and dress size.
It's all a matter of what you find interesting.
I'm not so good with cars.

 

[cloudy]

I like to look, too- very much, I ogle men and women both.
I nudge my husband and point women out to him that he's missed. I would be worried if he didn't look at other women, to me it would be a sign that his interest in life in general is waning.

Exactly.

If you have a problem with him looking, it's just that - your problem, not his.

 

[Selena_Kitt]

why do many(but by no means all) women feel the need to 'play games' (dropping hints to what they want) and then get upset when men(generally more literal beings) do not understand or pick up on the nuances or hints, when strightforward statements would be so much more effective and generate far less friction?

why are men such bricks, that they can't pick up those subtle cues? I can hand a woman a cup of tea, and we can both know exactly what the other is thinking, and who just looked at whose ass and who is sleeping with whom, and all I said was, "Here's your tea." really, how hard is it? <grin>

Seriously, though... why do men want women to be more like them? To be rational, and logical? sometimes I feel like I couldn't possibly tell you what I was really feeling or what I really wanted if I tried... it comes and goes, changes like the weather... often it isn't a manipulation on my part, it's just that by the time I've told you what it is I want, the weather's changed again...