what do you think of infidelity

[sexy-girl]

what do you think of infidelity


is it ok to cheat on your partner if she/he will never find out ?

do you believe that monogamy is the only "true love" realationship ?

is it ok to sleep with other people if your partner agrees ?

have you ever cheated on or been cheated on do you regret it ?


i feel pretty strongly about this but i'll see if anyone wishes to talk about this sort of thing before i give you my opinion

 

[Ambrosious]

Infidels suck

Always calling for uprisings and usurping power. Down with uprisers!

 

[registered "^^"]

not worth a damn

But later on High Fidelity was invented .

 

[p_p_man]

Oh! Oh! a dangerous sounding thread...

KEEP CLEAR! KEEP CLEAR!

DANGEROUS THREAD ALERT.....

 

[Ambrosious]

Re: Oh! Oh! a dangerous sounding thread...

KEEP CLEAR! KEEP CLEAR!

DANGEROUS THREAD ALERT.....

You do realize this is about infidels, don't you?

They aren't dangerous if you keep them in their stations in life.

 

[thumbs2_ca]

well i have never cheated although the opportunity has arose so to speak.
I think one should stay faithful. oh wait.. my wife is away for a couple of weeks. I suppose if she would never find out it would be ok.. lol.. just kidding

 

[Renegade]

Re: Oh! Oh! a dangerous sounding thread...

KEEP CLEAR! KEEP CLEAR!

DANGEROUS THREAD ALERT.....

Danger, Will Robinson. Danger.

 

[Bob Peale]

what do you think of infidelity
--> It's ok; kinda tastes like chicken.


is it ok to cheat on your partner if she/he will never find out ?
--> Unless you happen to be President Clinton, that's usually the goal


do you believe that monogamy is the only "true love" realationship ?
--> baking powder? squeege me?


is it ok to sleep with other people if your partner agrees ?
--> no. but it's fine to have sex with them

have you ever cheated on or been cheated on do you regret it ?
nope. they never found the body


ok, I've had my fun. In all seriousness, I believe that anything you do you should do 100%. People have different views on boundaries, but I believe fundamentally that if you do anything, you give it your all. If you are willing to stray, then you at least should be willing to end what you're in and commit fully to the new.

Flame on

 

[Ambrosious]

Re: Re: Oh! Oh! a dangerous sounding thread...

Danger, Will Robinson. Danger.

Please stop, you're killing me.

 

[Renegade]

Flame on

What are you? The Human Torch? (comic book joke. heheh)

 

[Ambrosious]

What are you? The Human Torch? (comic book joke. heheh)

Ren's on a roll tonight! Look out Improv!

 

[sexy-girl]

LOL p_p_man ... im starting to get a bad rep on this board ... and i was so nice before i came here ... oh well


my father had an affair and split up with my mother last year so thats why i feel strongly for it


i have no time for people that cheat on there loved ones but if people wish to do it and agree it with there partners then thats different


my gf and i have actually fantasized about having a 3some (with a girl before you guys get excited) but to be honest i doubt we'd ever do it we're both too jealous and possessive of eachother to share with anyone

 

[Bob Peale]

Did you say Ren is droll?

Or Ren is a troll?

or Ren has a mole?

I hate it when I run low on Lithium...

 

[Siren]

I agree with you Bobby Boy

 

[Ambrosious]

What about the zealots? Zealots are good too.

 

[Bob Peale]

Re: I agree with you Bobby Boy

No, I agree, it is called intrigity....

Siren sweetie, I was with you up until right here.

What the hell is "intrigity"? You made my spellchecker choke!

 

[Siren]

I know what it is....

 

[Bob Peale]

What about the zealots? Zealots are good too.

Especially with a little lemon and dill

 

[thumbs2_ca]

sorry to hear about that sexy girl. I am on my second marriage but it had nothing to do with infidelity on anyones part. Two daughters 24 and 26 and very close.
I think it would have hurt them badly if it had been for other reasons than just not getting along.

 

[sexy-girl]

thanks thumbs2_ca ... i dont forgive my father at all ... my older sister is on somewhat friendly terms with him ... but is mad at him too

 

[Siren]

Yea I agree

 

[april-wine]

i was involved with someone once who was always looking for the next best thing....it was a difficult relationship to recover from....

i regret some things i have done, i think we always have some regret somewhere in our lives....having said that, i think faithfulness is the building block of any relationship....a true lasting one anyway

 

[Starfish]

what do you think of infidelity? I think that people cheat for several different reasons. I would only say that I would never be driven to do that unless I was in a relationship that has failed, and is worsening in neglect or abuses. If that relationship can't be healed, then it is time to move on. Some people stay together for convienence, yet they have lovers on the side, so they can be happy. This is only okay, in my mind, if both spouses/partners know about it. Everyone else is just a misleading pig.


is it ok to cheat on your partner if she/he will never find out ? NO

do you believe that monogamy is the only "true love" realationship ? NO, I don't.

is it ok to sleep with other people if your partner agrees ?
Yes, as long as all parties are involved or agree to have seperate partners. In the case of having sex with a third party, as long as both partners are open and honest about thier thoughts and feelings, so that the other is clear on what is going on, then jealousy would only arise if one partner showed more love to the third party person, than they do to thier partner. It is hard to pull this off, without anyone getting thier feelings hurt.

have you ever cheated on or been cheated on do you regret it ?
I have never cheated on a partner, but I've thought about it. I have been cheated on, and it was because one of the people had a trailing relationship with another girl, he hadn't ended before he "hooked up" with me. He neglected to mention that to me. He was fucking her, and me at the same time. The other person was just a pig.

 

[nasty]

Infidelity SUCKS!!!!! If you have a gf/bf, I believe in the, "look, but don't touch" rule.

 

[p_p_man]

OK I'll give a serious reply...

I've bedded:

women married to other men...

women engaged to other men...

women in relationships with other men...

but I have never bedded them when I was in a relationship myself. Double standards? Fear of being found out?

No I just never felt the need. Plenty of opportunity but no need.