What Do You Regret ?

[knightstalker]

Well in one thread i said I was a nice guy but even nice guys do things they regret..I did this back when I was younger about18..This girl was in love with me and always called came by where I worked and was always around..She always wanted to go out but I wouldnt because I was afraid of what my friends would think..Well one night I decidide to go out with here and we went to the movies..I went to get us some popcorn and walked to the lobby

There stood my three buddies they asked me what the hell i was doing at the movies alone and if i wanted to go in and see the movie with them ..I did and left that poor girl sitting there waiting for me and I never showed back up..To this day I hate what I did to her and wont forgive myself for it..I have seen her since but as I deserve I still get the cold shoulder..

 

[AzureAngel]

I have seen her since but as I deserve I still get the cold shoulder..

Tried apologizing? If you still see her, that is.

 

[knightstalker]

I have done nothing but apologize to her since that day..I dont expect her to forgive me because I wouldnt do it if I was her but I wanted her to know that I was sorry..So yes i have many times

 

[AzureAngel]

I have done nothing but apologize to her since that day..I dont expect her to forgive me because I wouldnt do it if I was her but I wanted her to know that I was sorry..So yes i have many times

Just checkin'. I was going to kick you in the head if you hadn't. *Chuckles.* We all make horrible mistakes sometimes... prolly learned a little something about looking good for friends, though.

 

[Joemv56]

I regret not living in the present. I have spent most of my life living for tomorrow, waiting until things are going to be nearer perfect, then I believed I would begin living. Someone once wrote "why is it that that I spend so much time trying to be someone I am not rather than being the person I am."

 

[knightstalker]

If I had not apologized I would be kicking myself in the head..You see I really hurt that girl because that was about 14 years ago and she still hates me..

 

[SilverVeil]

Well in one thread i said I was a nice guy but even nice guys do things they regret..I did this back when I was younger about18..This girl was in love with me and always called came by where I worked and was always around..She always wanted to go out but I wouldnt because I was afraid of what my friends would think..Well one night I decidide to go out with here and we went to the movies..I went to get us some popcorn and walked to the lobby

There stood my three buddies they asked me what the hell i was doing at the movies alone and if i wanted to go in and see the movie with them ..I did and left that poor girl sitting there waiting for me and I never showed back up..To this day I hate what I did to her and wont forgive myself for it..I have seen her since but as I deserve I still get the cold shoulder..

A guy did this to me when I was in High School. It was my first date. I never dated anyone in school after that. He never apologized though.

 

[Hamletmaschine]

As Edith Piaf sang...

Non, je ne regrette rien

Non! Rien de rien ...
Non ! Je ne regrette rien
Ni le bien qu'on m'a fait
Ni le mal tout ça m'est bien égal !

Non ! Rien de rien ...
Non ! Je ne regrette rien...
C'est payé, balayé, oublié
Je me fous du passé!

Avec mes souvenirs
J'ai allumé le feu
Mes chagrins, mes plaisirs
Je n'ai plus besoin d'eux !

Balayés les amours
Et tous leurs trémolos
Balayés pour toujours
Je repars à zéro ...

Non ! Rien de rien ...
Non ! Je ne regrette nen ...
Ni le bien, qu'on m'a fait
Ni le mal, tout ça m'est bien égal !

Non ! Rien de rien ...
Non ! Je ne regrette rien ...
Car ma vie, car mes joies
Aujourd'hui, ça commence avec toi !

 

[Wiggles]

I regret two things, and they both have to do with bullying.

One. There was a girl who I knew when I was a kid, sort of mean and rude. I made fun of her, I made her best-friend quit hanging out with her.

One day I heard her parents screaming at her, and her crying so hard. I realized that maybe there was a reason that whe was so cruel.

Another was a boy who I went to school with. In seventh grade I had a geography class with him, and most of the kids in that class made fun of him for his shoes. And they were funny shoes, they looked like plastic toy shoes. I admit it, I made fun of them too. It really wasn't about the shoes, it was about me trying to fit in with these kids. One day I looked into his eyes and I saw so much pain. He actually lived right up the street from me, in this dingy little house with his two younger brother and his dad. Turns out that's all they could afford.

I quit making fun of him, of anyone. It breaks my heart that I used to be so cruel. I'm just glad I wised up.

I regret being such a shit head little kid.