What do you find most attractive about a woman.

SuthernCumfort

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Does size matter? Does she have to be skinny mini? Big breasts, husky voice?

Yall know what we like about me :D But what exactly do men like about women?
 
my preferences

honesty--no games; takes me as I am and doesn't try to change me; whether I disgust, humor, or embarass her, she loves me even more

oh, sorry, you were asking about physical assets. Not bony, I don't want to see her ribs or her hip bones. Voice doesn't have to be husky, but it does have to sound like it is coming from an adult-I don't want people to call my house and think I have a ten year old girlfriend. She doesn't look prepubescent either--no Ricci types. Ample, REAL breasts, size doesnt' matter as much as proportion. These size 6 women with DD fake breasts look ridiculous. Curves, hips. Hourglass figure, not a q-tip with a couple of BBs sticking out.

or, in short, look here https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=505626

Of course, that's just me


SuthernCumfort said:
Does size matter? Does she have to be skinny mini? Big breasts, husky voice?

Yall know what we like about me :D But what exactly do men like about women?
 
Eyes.

A great, muscular pair of legs gets my attention. A firm, round ass gets my attention. A slim, flat tummy gets my attention. Perky youthful breasts get my attention. Shiny, healthy hair gets my attention.

But the eyes win my heart. Nothing melts me faster or more completely than a set of feminine peepers. Smiling eyes, sultry eyes, exotic eyes, intelligent eyes. Dark, bright, or colorful.

Probably why I enjoy seeing them looking up at me when she's sucking my cock.

(What? You didn't think this was going to be a Harlequin romance novel, did ya?)
 
My drawing in my sig reflects what generally turns my head...a full, curvy, voluptuous figure, big breasts I can lose my lips and face into, some tattoos and a bad-girl attitude...BUUUT...I honestly like and get turned on by many different types, not just one...which is also reflected in my art, as much as I can show that passion.

My only true default requirement is that you have a genuine smile and love to show it.
 
Down-to-earth is a really important quality for me.

I really respect a woman who knows the difference between an important matter and a trivial matter.

Someone who has the mind to actually be saying something substantial when they speak.

...and as far as looks go; busty, tan/ethnic, glasses, british accent, full/pouty lips. Not necessarily that order or co-dependent characteristics.
 
homina said:
honesty--no games; takes me as I am and doesn't try to change me; whether I disgust, humor, or embarass her, she loves me even more

oh, sorry, you were asking about physical assets. Not bony, I don't want to see her ribs or her hip bones. Voice doesn't have to be husky, but it does have to sound like it is coming from an adult-I don't want people to call my house and think I have a ten year old girlfriend. She doesn't look prepubescent either--no Ricci types. Ample, REAL breasts, size doesnt' matter as much as proportion. These size 6 women with DD fake breasts look ridiculous. Curves, hips. Hourglass figure, not a q-tip with a couple of BBs sticking out.

or, in short, look here https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=505626

Of course, that's just me

I like how you discribed what you want personality wise. Í mean after all isn't that what any man or woman wants in a long term relationship?

I envy Monique's body. She's not thin, but she's not fat like I am either.
 
IrezumiKiss said:
My drawing in my sig reflects what generally turns my head...a full, curvy, voluptuous figure, big breasts I can lose my lips and face into, some tattoos and a bad-girl attitude...BUUUT...I honestly like and get turned on by many different types, not just one...which is also reflected in my art, as much as I can show that passion.

My only true default requirement is that you have a genuine smile and love to show it.

Sounds like me, with the exception of the bad girl attitude.
 
Ekserb said:
Eyes.

A great, muscular pair of legs gets my attention. A firm, round ass gets my attention. A slim, flat tummy gets my attention. Perky youthful breasts get my attention. Shiny, healthy hair gets my attention.

But the eyes win my heart. Nothing melts me faster or more completely than a set of feminine peepers. Smiling eyes, sultry eyes, exotic eyes, intelligent eyes. Dark, bright, or colorful.

Probably why I enjoy seeing them looking up at me when she's sucking my cock.

(What? You didn't think this was going to be a Harlequin romance novel, did ya?)

From you, Eskerb, that is a Harlequin romance novel...lol
 
SuthernCumfort said:
Does size matter? Does she have to be skinny mini? Big breasts, husky voice?

SuthernCumfort said:
Yall know it doesnt have to be about physical appearance only.,

Sorry, but from your original post we had to assume you meant physical (or aural) attractiveness. You didn't mention anything about her personality.

In general, men are visual creatures and we typically notice and enjoy the physical appearance first and foremost. (I feel the need to add that there are exceptions. This board has become ridiculously Politically Correct and even that disclaimer will do little to stop the flood of hate posts. Whatever.)

It's true that a great personality will keep the fire alive far longer than looks alone, but when you start listing things like "sense of humor, animal lover, and kind heart," you'll find that everyone thinks they have those same characteristics and thus they all fall onto someone's list of perfect women.
 
SuthernCumfort said:
Does size matter? Does she have to be skinny mini? Big breasts, husky voice?

Yall know what we like about me :D But what exactly do men like about women?

Have I seen you? I don't know what I like about you.

Physically - eyes, lips, smile... I prefer petite... small, but it's not necessary. Tits aren't important, but proportionality is appreciated.

Personality wise - if she can make me laugh and make me think, if she can laugh at herself, and if she can speak up with an educated opinion at times, then she'll likely be able to keep my interest. It also helps if she has the brain of a whore, but can act like a lady when it's called for.
 
A woman physically can vary to great degrees to me. I like so many types of physical features and sizes. My big turn on is a woman that is proud of what she has and uses it. Confidence is the biggest wow factor for me. Especially the shy woman who suddenly opens up and just gives all she has for her own satisfaction... I guarantee you if a woman is enjoying herself I am too. A woman who will whisper her deepest secrets and hidden desires is a must too.

Oh and physically... the swoon factor comes into play if they have that little dimple just to the side of their mouth when they smile.
 
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SuthernCumfort said:
Wow, Raw, maybe you have seen me LOL

If you have pics up, link me, please, and I'll tell you what I like about you.
:D
 
What turns me on is a woman that can communicate to me what she wants then allow me to do it to her in my own way. Also a very sexually adventurous type of woman, one that I can experiment with.
 
For me it's important that it's a person that I can talk with about everything, and whom I have some kind of connection with. As for looks, well I prefer a nice face with a nice pair of eyes. The rest isn't that important, because if I like the personality, I often comes to like the whole person.
 
ShyGuy68 said:
For me it's important that it's a person that I can talk with about everything, and whom I have some kind of connection with. As for looks, well I prefer a nice face with a nice pair of eyes. The rest isn't that important, because if I like the personality, I often comes to like the whole person.


I totally agree ShyGuy68. :)
 
ShyGuy68 said:
For me it's important that it's a person that I can talk with about everything, and whom I have some kind of connection with. As for looks, well I prefer a nice face with a nice pair of eyes. The rest isn't that important, because if I like the personality, I often comes to like the whole person.

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How did I measure up????
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I know its a terrible question, but I can be a terrible person ;)
 
sereneone4u said:
From you, Eskerb, that is a Harlequin romance novel...lol

HAHAHA...so very true.


I am stunned that I'd be referenced as homina's ideal, or anyone's ideal. I don't think of myself that way at all, but thank you.
 
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She must be mentally attractive, witty, a smart ass, have common sense, able to figure things out for herself and not have to ask for permission to do anything. She must have eyes that speak to me.
 
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