Your five year old cat starts "marking her turf" (and not in that cute "I'm gonna rub ya" kind of way) all over thehouse while she is in heat? I'm on my last nerve of chasing her and plonking her in the litter box...
I don't know about cats, but I put "Bitches Britches" on my little dog when she is in heat. You just insert the tiny little mini-pad, pull her tail out the hole, and she can do whatever she wants. Except hump my leg, I hate that.
Getting her fixed it what I am going to do, but not untill next month when I can afford it. I have two female cats, and I was planning on getting them fixed at the same time. As far as getting her laid, do you want to take care of the kittens of a cat with OCD?