What do you do when your Dom is sick?

[h_i_s]

I think this is great Sinn. To me it's the job of the Dom and sub to take care of each other in the way that is best for them. I know my Sir wants to do so much for me and I am so looking forward to his training and learning to be the best submissive I can be for him. I also know considering out age differences that someday I may have to take over more of the decisions in our relationship. I am hoping if that day comes I will be equiped to still do what he would wish and what is best for us.

Curious here pita, what is the difference in age between the two of you?
It's a gap of 11 years for my Master and i.
The age gap rarely effects us ... so far. Most times, even in spite of His health concerns, He seems to have more energy than i. He looks young for His age, & i'm often told that i do, as well. It's funny the way people stare sometimes when we are out in public. Soon as i look, they ACT like they are not staring. It's obvious enough though, they are trying to figure if i am His daughter or His lover. It's amusing.

 

[His_pita]

Curious here pita, what is the difference in age between the two of you?
It's a gap of 11 years for my Master and i.
The age gap rarely effects us ... so far. Most times, even in spite of His health concerns, He seems to have more energy than i. He looks young for His age, & i'm often told that i do, as well. It's funny the way people stare sometimes when we are out in public. Soon as i look, they ACT like they are not staring. It's obvious enough though, they are trying to figure if i am His daughter or His lover. It's amusing.

He is 22 years older then me. He is also in way better shape and healthier then me. *Working hard to catch up!* I actually look younger then my almost...gasp...40 years so I am looking forward to going out and seeing if we get looks. I just might have to get a T-shirt that says, "Yes he is my Daddy" and let them figure out what that means.

 

[graceanne]

Me and K are 9 years apart in age. Most people are surprised when they find out, the ususally figure I'm his age. It suprises most people to find out I'm only 27. lol Once again, he's younger in body and everything. My body is like 60 years old, I think. He's more energetic, in better shape, etc. He's also skinnier - the asshole.

 

[Red Sonja]

Thanks all who gave good even if dangerous ideas...I'm gonna get him a bell. Or a set of walkie talkies. I'm also bringing him his cell phone and getting out of here today.

Yes, I can work from home, but I think yesterday taught me that I really don't want to...

 

[graceanne]

Thanks all who gave good even if dangerous ideas...I'm gonna get him a bell. Or a set of walkie talkies. I'm also bringing him his cell phone and getting out of here today.

Yes, I can work from home, but I think yesterday taught me that I really don't want to...

FOR GODS SAKE, DON'T GET HIM A BELL!

Unless you want to go mad and have endless nightmares of bells ringing. Get him something quieter.

 

[DVS]

There are days, when because of my health, I cannot get out of bed, my little girl leaves a small bell by my bed, when I need her, she is there.

Maybe in that way he can still feel in control, and summon you when he needs you.

Oh, better than a bell, there are remote control butt plugs that have shock features. Give him one of those, and he can um...call you whenever he wants. Even if he doesn't need you, he can have some fun. It just might perk up his attitude.

The interesting thing with one of these little jewels is it isn't the bell that makes any noise, it's you that makes the noise, and then he can tell what room you are in and how long it will take for you to come hither.

And, if you are asleep? No matter. It works quite well in that case, too.

 

[Red Sonja]

Oh, better than a bell, there are remote control butt plugs that have shock features. Give him one of those, and he can um...call you whenever he wants. Even if he doesn't need you, he can have some fun. It just might perk up his attitude.

The interesting thing with one of these little jewels is it isn't the bell that makes any noise, it's you that makes the noise, and then he can tell what room you are in and how long it will take for you to come hither.

And, if you are asleep? No matter. It works quite well in that case, too.

I will keep friends with you sir. (and hide this message at all costs) These devices don't work past a couple of city blocks, do they? Another reason to go into work today...

 

[graceanne]

Oh, better than a bell, there are remote control butt plugs that have shock features. Give him one of those, and he can um...call you whenever he wants. Even if he doesn't need you, he can have some fun. It just might perk up his attitude.

The interesting thing with one of these little jewels is it isn't the bell that makes any noise, it's you that makes the noise, and then he can tell what room you are in and how long it will take for you to come hither.

And, if you are asleep? No matter. It works quite well in that case, too.

You're a brat. I'm so glad K doesn't check this site too often. lol

 

[Bandit58]

Oh, better than a bell, there are remote control butt plugs that have shock features. Give him one of those, and he can um...call you whenever he wants. Even if he doesn't need you, he can have some fun. It just might perk up his attitude.

The interesting thing with one of these little jewels is it isn't the bell that makes any noise, it's you that makes the noise, and then he can tell what room you are in and how long it will take for you to come hither.

And, if you are asleep? No matter. It works quite well in that case, too.

*Desperately hoping Master Gil doesn't see this post*

 

[Milambus]

Oh, better than a bell, there are remote control butt plugs that have shock features. Give him one of those, and he can um...call you whenever he wants. Even if he doesn't need you, he can have some fun. It just might perk up his attitude.

The interesting thing with one of these little jewels is it isn't the bell that makes any noise, it's you that makes the noise, and then he can tell what room you are in and how long it will take for you to come hither.

And, if you are asleep? No matter. It works quite well in that case, too.

What a great idea, I'll have to remember this one.

 

[FurryFury]

LOL!

Remote control, I love that DVS!

I don't have a Dom. I have a husband who is willing to try though. He is sick too. What I do is stay the hell out of his way. He does not like being nurtured and that's a shame cause I'm damned good at it.

Get this, it's a hacking upper respiratory thing that he has and I can't afford to have it because I have six gigs next week. So last night our first chance for a scene since Friday. That is so sad isn't it. It's like a year or forever to me. Anyway, he asked if I wanted to skip it. I said no way, do what you want, fuck me, torture me but just please don't kiss me. What a horrible partner he has huh?

Fury

 

[graceanne]

I said no way, do what you want, fuck me, torture me but just please don't kiss me. What a horrible partner he has huh?

Fury

LOL I've said this to K before. I'm on auto immune supprestants, I gotta be careful. When he's sick and he's making it obvious we're gonna have sex that night, I'm always like "JUST DON'T KISS ME!"

 

[FurryFury]

LOL I've said this to K before. I'm on auto immune supprestants, I gotta be careful. When he's sick and he's making it obvious we're gonna have sex that night, I'm always like "JUST DON'T KISS ME!"

We have so much in common beautiful Graceanne!

Then during the time we did have last night I nearly forgot about the no kissing part myself many times. It was niiiiice!

Fury

 

[graceanne]

We have so much in common beautiful Graceanne!

Then during the time we did have last night I nearly forgot about the no kissing part myself many times. It was niiiiice!

Fury

That little turd (my hubby) says, 'Ok, honey', then when I'm so 'into' it, then he kisses me. At that point I don't give a damn if I get sick. lol

I normally get whatever it is.

 

[DVS]

That little turd (my hubby) says, 'Ok, honey', then when I'm so 'into' it, then he kisses me. At that point I don't give a damn if I get sick. lol

I normally get whatever it is.

I think that's mean of your hubby. I hate getting someone else's germs. I think it's rude for someone to give them to me, too.

If it were me, I'd just tie you down and fuck your eyes out. I might use your mouth for other things, but I wouldn't kiss you. It just woudn't be a nice thing to do. Oh, I'd keep my cum to myself, too, if it would infect you. See how mice I am?

 

[graceanne]

I think that's mean of your hubby. I hate getting someone else's germs. I think it's rude for someone to give them to me, too.

If it were me, I'd just tie you down and fuck your eyes out. I might use your mouth for other things, but I wouldn't kiss you. It just woudn't be a nice thing to do. Oh, I'd keep my cum to myself, too, if it would infect you. See how mice I am?

K's a kisser. He's been known to just not have sex, just cause he can't kiss me. He's got to be pretty horny before he'll agree to sex without kissing. To tell the truth I don't think he thinks it out, he just does.

 

[FurryFury]

I think that's mean of your hubby. I hate getting someone else's germs. I think it's rude for someone to give them to me, too.

If it were me, I'd just tie you down and fuck your eyes out. I might use your mouth for other things, but I wouldn't kiss you. It just woudn't be a nice thing to do. Oh, I'd keep my cum to myself, too, if it would infect you. See how mice I am?

Um, would your or his, come infect someone? Cause it doesn't seem like it to me. Or maybe I just don't want to believe that it will.

He kissed me alright but not on the mouth. Lots of other places though. *smiles*

Fury

 

[Red Sonja]

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Get this, it's a hacking upper respiratory thing that he has and I can't afford to have it because I have six gigs next week. So last night our first chance for a scene since Friday. That is so sad isn't it. It's like a year or forever to me. Anyway, he asked if I wanted to skip it. I said no way, do what you want, fuck me, torture me but just please don't kiss me. What a horrible partner he has huh?

Fury

Yeah... the upper respiratory hacking thing is a disaster. Dh gets this bout with bronchitis annually. It's nasty.

He won't kiss me because well, I can't afford to be sick. You lose some credibility with judges when you whisper your case cuz you got laryngitis... or you cough all the way through the plea bargain. Although, maybe the DA would be willing to give a better deal if they thought they'd get whatever it was... you never know...

I don't think you're a horrible partner... I think he's pretty darn lucky.

 

[FurryFury]

Yeah... the upper respiratory hacking thing is a disaster. Dh gets this bout with bronchitis annually. It's nasty.

He won't kiss me because well, I can't afford to be sick. You lose some credibility with judges when you whisper your case cuz you got laryngitis... or you cough all the way through the plea bargain. Although, maybe the DA would be willing to give a better deal if they thought they'd get whatever it was... you never know...

I don't think you're a horrible partner... I think he's pretty darn lucky.

Thanks!

*hugs*

Yesterday the kids voices seemed to be in peril and one started hacking. Eek! I'm surrounded.

Fury