What do you call it when….

[MrQuiet314]

What do you call it when you want your partner to take control sexually and tell you exactly what to do and how, but without the humiliation or physical pain of BDSM? Is there a term for that?

 

[Treeview]

I call it PlaySub

I'm with you...its a play mode not a lifestyle

 

[Escierto]

That exactly describes the sex life of me and my girlfriend. I think it's fairly common where one partner is completely in charge of the sex.

 

[drobert44]

What do you call it when you want your partner to take control sexually and tell you exactly what to do and how, but without the humiliation or physical pain of BDSM? Is there a term for that?

My gay top called me his boytoy.

 

[easyoff]

My gay top called me his boytoy.

Mind if I fluff him up for you?

 

[drobert44]

Mind if I fluff him up for you?

Sure, I am not jealous. Get him hard to fuck me again.

 

[Sienna62]

What do you call it when you want your partner to take control sexually and tell you exactly what to do and how, but without the humiliation or physical pain of BDSM? Is there a term for that?

Fun

 

[SPARTAN047]

Dominant top?

 

[Escierto]

Dominant top?

Yes that's how I describe my girl.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Yes that's how I describe my girl.

Sounds about right.

 

[Britva415]

What do you call it when you want your partner to take control sexually and tell you exactly what to do and how, but without the humiliation or physical pain of BDSM? Is there a term for that?

“Pillow princess”

 

[Lucien_Al]

What do you call it when you want your partner to take control sexually and tell you exactly what to do and how, but without the humiliation or physical pain of BDSM? Is there a term for that?

We do that as one of the forms of play where on that particular occasion she is in charge and I am restrained, blind folded and she can do what she likes to me. We do some light whipping (do encourage her to be a little firmer with it), face sitting, panty play and sometimes some pegging.

Its one of our favourites as neither of us are into humiliation or hard core bondage and pain but love the feeling of control. As the one who is being restrained I absolutely love the fact that during my day to day life I have to make decisions etc but for those few hours someone else has complete control of the situation.