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what do WOMEN who swing, are shared, are hot wives or who cuckold like it?
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I'm not involved in that kind of thing, but I would think they enjoy the sex, which is guilt free since they are doing it with their SO's approval. And they are getting their husband off in the process.
Not trying to speak for women or anything, just what I've observed.
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I love the life style as does he we had a bull for almost 5 years before he moved to the southwest. currently searching for a replacement at this time. but we have enjoyed this lifestlye for years
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littlecordelera
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My husband and I have been in the cuckold lifestyle since before we got married, which was 18 years ago. I like the control. I like the variety. I like seducing other guys while my husband watches and assists. I like the dating and the friendships and the romance. I like the stability of a beta male at home, and yet still have the option for a merciless pounding from an alpha male whenever I want. I like knowing that I can cause my husband such intense arousal, and then decide if he gets to cum or not - which only arouses him more and can linger for days. I like the opportunities it provides for me to keep three people in a state of heightened arousal for days at a time. I like making a guy cum so hard he thinks he just blew a fuse.
There is so much to like about it, but I understand it's not for everyone.
There is so much to like about it, but I understand it's not for everyone.
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Why do you like to fuck?
The answer to the question seems so obvious. Sex is the most intense natural pleasure know to humans. If you are a guy and like to fuck then you know the reason we like to fuck. Sex is not just fun for the boys.
The only reason that most women don't do it is their husband would be too wimpy and jealous or they have been brainwashed into thinking that it is wrong for a woman to enjoy cock as much as guys enjoy pussy. It is a sickening double standard.
The reality is that most women can have multiple orgasms and can fuck much longer than most guys. When my husband figured that out he realized that my sexual fulfillment was limited to his sexual capacity. He is a good lover but he noticed that after a good fuck he was tired and I would often keep masturbating for 30 to 60 minutes.
We have been married for 21 year and he started sharing me 5 years ago. We both love it. As others have indicated this doesn't mean I fuck any guy that wants me. I am very selective. We both agree before I seduce him and what I am after is long term FWB not one-time events.
The areas of concern that should be weighted are: Male jealousy, STDs and pregnancy. I had my tubes tided after my son was born. New guys have to us condoms until we are sure they are STD free and my husband is secure and not the jealous wimp type.
I also find it to be a sickening double standard when shared wives will not let their husband enjoy sex with other females. The same rules should work both ways.
The answer to the question seems so obvious. Sex is the most intense natural pleasure know to humans. If you are a guy and like to fuck then you know the reason we like to fuck. Sex is not just fun for the boys.
The only reason that most women don't do it is their husband would be too wimpy and jealous or they have been brainwashed into thinking that it is wrong for a woman to enjoy cock as much as guys enjoy pussy. It is a sickening double standard.
The reality is that most women can have multiple orgasms and can fuck much longer than most guys. When my husband figured that out he realized that my sexual fulfillment was limited to his sexual capacity. He is a good lover but he noticed that after a good fuck he was tired and I would often keep masturbating for 30 to 60 minutes.
We have been married for 21 year and he started sharing me 5 years ago. We both love it. As others have indicated this doesn't mean I fuck any guy that wants me. I am very selective. We both agree before I seduce him and what I am after is long term FWB not one-time events.
The areas of concern that should be weighted are: Male jealousy, STDs and pregnancy. I had my tubes tided after my son was born. New guys have to us condoms until we are sure they are STD free and my husband is secure and not the jealous wimp type.
I also find it to be a sickening double standard when shared wives will not let their husband enjoy sex with other females. The same rules should work both ways.
It sounds like you are pretty dominant over your husband in your joint sex life. Does that extend into the other elements. Of your relationship?
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Yes, it extends into all parts of our relationship.
Would you say you respect him as an equal?
The perception,at least, of a lack of respect is where the appeal of that lifestyle gets questionable for some people,my self included, when considered outside the realm of fantasy.
I find this statement especially shocking, coming from YOU of all people. Not that I disagree with it, quite the contrary in fact. It's just that, judging from some of the other stuff you post on the boards, I had pictured you as ardently anti-sex in pretty much any form whatsoever- ESPECIALLY outside of marriage. That is actually cool that you are into this- surprising what you learn about people.
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I don't ever consider myself superior to others when it comes to basic human dignity.
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Easy to misread each other
It is easy to misread each other and especially in a format like this. I have noticed that a lot of people assume that my husband and I are Right wing. That is not the case. We are not Left wing either. We think that politics has turned into a swamp on both sides.
Society has suffered from fake news and fake religion and fake political crap. We think that the world is a mess and that people need to bust out of the social mold that they are pressed into. That includes but is not limited to suffocating and unnatural views of sex.
So yes, we both love to fuck. It is natural and wonderful.
It is easy to misread each other and especially in a format like this. I have noticed that a lot of people assume that my husband and I are Right wing. That is not the case. We are not Left wing either. We think that politics has turned into a swamp on both sides.
Society has suffered from fake news and fake religion and fake political crap. We think that the world is a mess and that people need to bust out of the social mold that they are pressed into. That includes but is not limited to suffocating and unnatural views of sex.
So yes, we both love to fuck. It is natural and wonderful.
It starts with allowing your wife too enjoy herself. Allowing your wife to have a different sexual partner some night involves giving herself to another man for his pleasure. My wife try to give her partner the best sex I ever had. And in return she received the same, makes love to them allowed young black man weather Montrose Co come in her fertile pussy. After the sex is done she does not have anything to do with them
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We both enjoy that lifestyle and we are more experienced now, I wasn't sure at first if it would work. He enjoys watching me with other guys and occasionally women. I also enjoy watching him with other women and sometimes guys. We always tell each other if we are going to do something if the other isn't there. It started with me letting him have sex with my friend as at the time I had a low sex drive.
It grew from that and also the fact that I had a brief affair at work which made me realise I should be having sex with my husband. Somehow I started to enjoy it more and we decided to experiment with other singles and couples at first then took it from there.
It grew from that and also the fact that I had a brief affair at work which made me realise I should be having sex with my husband. Somehow I started to enjoy it more and we decided to experiment with other singles and couples at first then took it from there.
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Yes we enjoy the openness of it and if one of us didn't like something then we wouldn't do it.
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My wife was sexually active with several men in college while I was away at another university, so being a little bit "unfaithful" was nothing new for her. Once we became engaged, she stopped outside sex. After we had been married a few years, she was being subjected to lots of flirtation from younger men who called on the medical office where she worked. She told me about it, and I told her that she was free to do whatever she wanted, as long as it was just sex with no secrets. She had a few (less than five) one-time fucks over a year's time, then decided she didn't want to do it again. That was over 20 years ago and she has done nothing with another man or woman since then. So it was something she wanted to do. She did it. She was satisfied. She quit.
Totally agree with you, I wish more women would open up about their sexuality. I like chatting with ladies that are open and honest about it.
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Exactly!
I much prefer the term "wife pleasuring" rather than "sharing".
Giving her pleasure gives me pleasure. That pleasure is intensified and prolonged with another male or two.
Our very close friend was the FWB every 2-3 months for about seven years.
Exactly!
I much prefer the term "wife pleasuring" rather than "sharing".
Giving her pleasure gives me pleasure. That pleasure is intensified and prolonged with another male or two.
Our very close friend was the FWB every 2-3 months for about seven years.
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Ive been in the swinging lifestyle off and on for many years.It was not planned on my part,my husband would pursade me to wear revealing clothes and flash my body which i enjoyed but he wanted more and it was something he would always bring up so in the end i agreed both because i loved him and wanted to be please and i was curious about it myself. We had been married around 4/5 years before i slept with the first man.Im glad i did do it but it has changed our marriage
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This is exactly the way I look at it. I focus on pleasing my mate. I would love to share her with others and for her to be as open as many of the posters on this board. Sex and orgasms are a powerful and wonderful gift to share. My love for her would never change, so long as she was happy.
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