What do women think about ?

[Taboohubby]

Hi I’m a married guy and was wondering what women think about when they masturbate. My wife tells me she doesn’t think about anything she just focuses on getting off . I find that very hard to believe . It would turn me on so much if I knew she had dirty fantasies she thought about

 

[blinds]

wife

She probably thinks about having 2 big cocks to play with, now that's a thought is it not.

 

[KristaK]

It would be different for every woman, I suppose. So no one here is going to be able to guess, not knowing her.

I can promise you that she’s thinking about something or someone, though. She’s absolutely not getting off with a blank mind.

She’d have to feel like it was safe to tell you before she would, though. So if you want to know, focus on that. Make her feel like she can tell you.

 

[seeshelly]

Great question

That is a great question. Of course to assume that there is a singular answer would be absurd.

I used to feel guilty about having sex fantasies about specific other men so I used to avoid that. We have since changed the terms of our marriage so I no longer restrict my fantasy realm. But I have never kept my masturbation fantasies categories a secret from my husband. He has always known that I enjoy multiple guy fantasies.

For the most part we have the same fantasies as you guys do. But society brainwashes females into thinking it is trashy or slutty if girls like sex. If you take the social manipulation factor out of it both men and women crave the same things. A craving for sexual variety is natural for all humans... male and female.

 

[theslutbunny]

I think about how easy it is to make most men and a lot of women utterly subservient to my whims, even though I'm on the face of it an unpleasant person. Strength of personality plus a rockin' body gets me what I want, and I get off on that fact quite a bit.

 

[StarGazer58]

Maybe she is thinking about a guy at her workplace or maybe some guy she flirted with in the grocery store. Maybe she is remembering an encounter she had with some guy she met on a business trip. Those are thoughts she would not necessarily share with hubby but would definitely be arousing memories.

 

[HoneyBrunette]

More often than not I'm not thinking about anything other than the sensations I'm giving myself when i masturbate and cum. So i can relate to having a blank mind and not actually fantasising

 

[Jada59]

Most of the time, I don't think of anything either.

 

[toshiskitten]

Sometimes I fantasized about my husband, my boyfriend, or my celebrity crush. Other times, I'm just trying to focus on getting myself off.

 

[noego]

Last night she was getting off to her liaison with a girl date she has today

 

[ElenaVF]

That is a great question. Of course to assume that there is a singular answer would be absurd.

I used to feel guilty about having sex fantasies about specific other men so I used to avoid that. We have since changed the terms of our marriage so I no longer restrict my fantasy realm. But I have never kept my masturbation fantasies categories a secret from my husband. He has always known that I enjoy multiple guy fantasies.

For the most part we have the same fantasies as you guys do. But society brainwashes females into thinking it is trashy or slutty if girls like sex. If you take the social manipulation factor out of it both men and women crave the same things. A craving for sexual variety is natural for all humans... male and female.

Agreed and very well said, Seeshelly!

 

[StarGazer58]

This makes me think of a CMNF scenario where the woman can lay back. blank her mind and just enjoy the sensations she is feeling as I masturbate her to an orgasm.

 

[nashvillegal]

Hi I’m a married guy and was wondering what women think about when they masturbate. My wife tells me she doesn’t think about anything she just focuses on getting off . I find that very hard to believe . It would turn me on so much if I knew she had dirty fantasies she thought about

I’m actually with your wife on this one. I very rarely think about anything but how good I’m feeling. Believe her!

 

[HayleyLuvsSex]

i think about fucking hot dudes

 

[Anesthetist50]

There is something exceptionally hot about an assertive woman.

 

[StarGazer58]

i think about fucking hot dudes

Find anyone this weekend to bring home?

 

[HayleyLuvsSex]

Find anyone this weekend to bring home?

eh, kind of.

 

[quietlylooking]

My mind is always very active when I'm masturbating, and it sometimes goes in surprising directions.

 

[DeadlyDream]

I can actually turn off my mind and think of nothing also. Now beforehand, that's a different story. But during, I usually just focus on the orgasm.

 

[Chris_Michael]

Me

Next question

 

[Stacysmith287]

Hi

I think about my past. Mainly when I was younger

 

[StarGazer58]

eh, kind of.

That does not sound like you were fully satisfied from your encounter? Might need a second try.