What do women fantasize about?

[rustable]

We men make no secret about what we fantasize about but I want to hear about what women fantasize about. Be descriptive. Are you married or single? Are there fantasies you tell your husband or boyfriend about? Are there those that you keep secret to yourself? What do you think about when you masterbate?

 

[rustable]

Come on, nobody? Hard to believe.

 

[Goldenfinger]

We men make no secret about what we fantasize about but I want to hear about what women fantasize about. Be descriptive. Are you married or single? Are there fantasies you tell your husband or boyfriend about? Are there those that you keep secret to yourself? What do you think about when you masterbate?

I’ve asked before and the answer was nothing. That they just get off by touching themselves and aren’t really thinking about anything. Now this could of been because they did not want to say because they were embarrassed, but I got the same answer from a couple different women.

Why did I ask? Because we engaged in mutual masterbation. I looked at her, she had her eyes closed or a blank stare up.

 

[screwher]

I’ve asked before and the answer was nothing. That they just get off by touching themselves and aren’t really thinking about anything. Now this could of been because they did not want to say because they were embarrassed, but I got the same answer from a couple different women.

Why did I ask? Because we engaged in mutual masterbation. I looked at her, she had her eyes closed or a blank stare up.

Yes it’s my experience that women are coy when it comes to intimate stuff like this. I know for sure that other men go through my wife’s mind when she’s masturbating. She just won’t come out and admit it. Even though she knows it turns me on!

 

[Islander55]

Yes it’s my experience that women are coy when it comes to intimate stuff like this. I know for sure that other men go through my wife’s mind when she’s masturbating. She just won’t come out and admit it. Even though she knows it turns me on!

A woman does need a few secrets. From my personal experience, it is half and half. Sometimes you just want an orgasm and focus on that. When you have a lot of time, you might indulge in a fantasy which could be all sorts of things. I have thought of things such as a past lover, a friend that interested me or something kinky like sex with a stranger.

 

[Lady2020]

I've lost count of men who were afraid to say what they fantasized about.

 

[KatieDoes]

Competence.

 

[JohnCash123]

Money

And sleep.

That's it.

 

[NaughtyPartyGirl]

Great big huge giant dicks of course. After all, size is the only thing that matters, right?

 

[PapaRomantic]

Great big huge giant dicks of course. After all, size is the only thing that matters, right?

Makes sense to me - doesn't the size of our cocks determine the amount of "currency" we have when we are looking to get lucky?

 

[Dankaitlyn]

Love this pillow talk always makes the sex better

 

[Nylonian]

Competence.

Hear, hear.

 

[rustable]

I’ve asked before and the answer was nothing. That they just get off by touching themselves and aren’t really thinking about anything. Now this could of been because they did not want to say because they were embarrassed, but I got the same answer from a couple different women.

Why did I ask? Because we engaged in mutual masterbation. I looked at her, she had her eyes closed or a blank stare up.

My wife has said something very similar when I asked her in the past. I figure that women must have to have some kind of erotic thought while masterbating just like we men do.

 

[rustable]

Yes it’s my experience that women are coy when it comes to intimate stuff like this. I know for sure that other men go through my wife’s mind when she’s masturbating. She just won’t come out and admit it. Even though she knows it turns me on!

This is why I was hoping for more responses from women. Hopefully they would be forthright given their responses would anonymous.

 

[rustable]

Great big huge giant dicks of course. After all, size is the only thing that matters, right?

Well if you say so. The situation is what would make it really hot I would think.

 

[rustable]

Of course we do fantasise. Masturbation and fantasising are the most intimate acts, and that's why many are hesitant to admit we do.

I am married with two grown up children. My current favourite fantasy it to be taken standing, sandwiched by two university students, at a public library, but in a secluded spot. Yes, my husband knows about it, and we excite one another with pillow talk about fantasies.

In therapy, we encourage husband and wife to openly pillow talk.

I wish my wife would initiate this kind of talk. I always initiate it and I can get her quite revved up. Just wish she would take the reins more.

 

[jehoram]

I refer you to this book and its sequels:

https://www.nancyfriday.com/my-secret-garden-by-nancy-friday

Even though it was published almost fifty years ago, it is as valid today as it was then.

 

[Sundayschild]

I refer you to this book and its sequels:

https://www.nancyfriday.com/my-secret-garden-by-nancy-friday

Even though it was published almost fifty years ago, it is as valid today as it was then.

I'd forgotten about that book. As a young man that was a great help.

 

[davion2308]

It's different

I think a majority of women are wired different from guys.

After 20 years being married to my wife, I can acknowledge that she doesn't have specific fantasies or things she wants to try that we haven't. We're outgoing, we have a fun sex life, we're not anything out of the ordinary and where I have fantasies, she simply doesn't.

We're American and our culture demands so much from women who are wives, mothers, career women, and so on, that perhaps sex doesn't have the same appeal or focused compared to just having time for herself.

My wife would pick, if she could, a quiet evening where everyone had a good day, our kids are minding themselves and are trending toward sleep, and she, my wife, is able to spend time on her own without demands from others. That includes an orgasm which isn't as important in this stage of life as peace and the ability to pick what she gets to do the next hour.

Guys have the time and the sexuality to come up with all kinds of fun and fantasies to think about. I think the demands on women and some basic wiring just mean a smaller percentage of them really have fantasies the way we think of fantasies.

 

[IslandKate91]

A woman does need a few secrets. From my personal experience, it is half and half. Sometimes you just want an orgasm and focus on that. When you have a lot of time, you might indulge in a fantasy which could be all sorts of things. I have thought of things such as a past lover, a friend that interested me or something kinky like sex with a stranger.

Yes, I agree. I do keep most of what I fantasize about to myself. And you are right, sometimes I just want to get myself off pretty quick and other times, I want to lay there and enjoy the journey to pleasure. I have woken up from some sexy dream and I try to remember or place myself back in the dream as I rub myself to orgasm. I have told my husband about a few of my fantasies but not all of them, nor will I. Some, I just want to keep to myself.

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

If a woman says "nothing" it means, "something I don't want to tell you."

THIS… so much this. It’s absurd to claim that women don’t fantasize. Just because we don’t tell you about them that doesn’t mean we don’t have them. I’m a happpily married woman and there are LOTS of things I fantasize about that I’ve never told my husband. For example, I sometimes fantasize about being milked like a cow. I also fantasize about being forcibly bred by a bunch of strange men.

I do think about cocks. Not specifically big ones. But pretty ones. Some guys have really PRETTY cocks—nicely proportioned with an elegant curve and the right mix of veins and girth. Sometimes when I’m touching myself I form my mouth in a little “o” and pretend I’m sucking on a really pretty cock. Or I think about playing with his big heavy balls in their sack. I love thinking about all the creamy white sperm inside a nice pair of balls. And imagining how good it would feel to have him unload all that cum deep inside my fertile little cunt. The images and sensations are very vivid. It’s like I can actuallly feel his hands holding my hips tight as he thrusts into me. Sometimes I’ll mutter stuff like “ Oh fuck that’s it! Plow me, baby. Pound me until I can’t walk!”

So, yes, women definitely fantasize!

 

[curvyjae]

Of course we do. How else would we orgasm? I fantasize about being used by three nice cocks. About having a passionate long term partner where the passion doesn’t die. About taking load after load of fertile cum inside me and being bred and having milk filled tits sucked while I’m pumped full of more cum. The list goes on and on.

 

[HayleyLuvsSex]

I fantasize more about situations than specific sex acts.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Well this is weird: I don't really fantasize, ever. I also can't visualize things inside my brain nor do I have an internal monologue.

I've thought about this a lot because I know what I like and I know how to get off, but I definitely don't have imagery in my head when that's happening.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I fantasize more about situations than specific sex acts.

I feel like I have to have a really feasible scenario to get into that space, which is hilarious in the fact that I kill my poor husband off for a mental grief fuck.