What Do Sex, Men and Love Have In Common?

[Suzi]

They all suck BIG TIME when they are not all in combination together...with ME!

I have had it people! Had it with trying! I try to be sexy, that doesn't work. I try to be smart, that doesn't work. I try to be myself, that sure as HELL doesn't work. I give UP trying to get a man to notice the special kind of woman I am and how great things would be with me. I give UP trying to open my heart, cuz all that happens is it gets trampled on, torn to pieces. I give UP trying to get a man into my bed, cuz no matter how good you are, if a man does not like the fact you are "large", there is no way you will even get to kiss him, let alone blow him or fuck him.

I am soo discouraged. I have just had it!

Sorry...had to blow off some steam.

 

[Private Vasquez]

Is the answer Penis?

 

[Tantanah]

Don't ever give up on being you. Spend time rediscovering yourself. Rediscovering the things you love about yourself, the things you like, dislike, hobbies, interests etc.

The right man will love you for who you are, unconditionally. Anyone else isn't worth it.

 

[Nora]

I'm in more or less the same boat as you, Suzi. Well, except I haven't tried that "being sexy" thing. If you find the answer clue me in, k?

But yeah, Tantanah's got a point. Being yourself is way better, even if it means missing out on the holy trinity of men, sex and love. Besides, if you're not yourself it just gets all confusing.

 

[SweetNSassy]

Suzi,

I am BBW...and I have no problems finding and keeping wonderful, sexy, smart men.....Finding the right man has nothing to do with how you look, it is a matter of WHO you know you are, how you carry yourself, and knowing that YOU are a beautiful person inside and out....Men can see how you feel about yourself even if you try to hide it.....I suggest you work on your self esteem before a relationship and stop trying to fill your needs with cock. IF you have yourself and TRULY love yourself you dont NEED anyone to make you happy...and just when this happens for you...MR. WONDERFUL will waltz through your door...

sassy

 

[MissTaken]

Patience is something you have forgetton, Suzi.


Be patient.

It never happens quickly and works.
It never happens easily.


The right one will come along and sweep you off your passionate little feet!

 

[#1tankcomander]

Suzi.......

if they can't take you as you are, then fuck 'em. You obviously have a lot to give and the type of guys that you're hanging around can't see it!! Just when you stop looking for MR. GOODBAR, Mr. Sexuaility will fall into your lap, so don't fret, sweety.