What do men really want in a blowjob?

[triciaNC]

What is it that men are looking for in a blowjob? Should it be slow and thorough? Should it be hot and fast? Does she take control or does he want to be in charge? Swallow or share?

 

[JustAnotherMD]

Yes, please.

 

[nyguy1980]

What is it that men are looking for in a blowjob? Should it be slow and thorough? Should it be hot and fast? Does she take control or does he want to be in charge? Swallow or share?

I think the answer is yes..
as long as there is no teeth I think most men are happy with getting a blowjobs no matter what the deal is..

 

[Lagsen]

I think it depends on what fits the mood and relationship. I like all the above determined by the circumstance, and slow and thorough rolling into hot and passionate or vice versa is appreciated as well. This feels a bit like a cop-out answer, considering it's in no way definitive.

Though additionally, eye contact, some groaning, ball attention, the smacking noise of a vacuum seal breaking is lovely as well.

Communicate and be creative!

 

[Quietpervert]

Enjoyment

I agree with the other guys on here that almost any blowjob is a good blowjob but what really sends it over the top is when I can tell the woman giving it is enjoying herself just as much as I am.

 

[Georgiadawgs48]

I agree that any blow job would be welcome and enjoyable but I think that if the lady really enjoys giving makes it so much hotter! It’s always been treated like a treat for me and hasn’t happened in a long time. Plus I’ve never been allowed to finish in her mouth so to be able to do that would be mind blowing to me. I like the idea of slow and thorough. Just to be able to enjoy it would be awesome!

 

[Rosencrantz1971]

Personally, I'm not crazy about blowjobs: I like them, of course, but it's not something "I look forward to". If it happens, good, if it doesn't, good. I prefer to be the one going oral...

That said, every man is different: there's who wants it rough, who wants the hands involved, who completely doesn't... hard to make a general rule.

The important thing is that the woman likes to do it, not only because it pleases the man she's with: nothing worse than a woman who hates making blowjobs and makes them anyway...

 

[Led_Astray]

Yup chalk me up for another in the "Its hotter if the woman is enjoying it" camp.

Though I've not had a variety of experiences, its not something that generally gets me off. maybe I've just been unlucky.

 

[Rosencrantz1971]

Yup chalk me up for another in the "Its hotter if the woman is enjoying it" camp.

Well, of course that applies to all sex, but I had a lot of female friends who complained about blowjobs, that they didn't like making it, they thought it was gross and yet "had" to make it because, you know, "men loves it".

 

[Solsurfer]

Enthusiasm and please tickle and press on my taint area while you are working down there. Luckily my wife is fantastic. I consider myself lucky. (When she’s in the mood, that is.)

 

[NorthenINDaddy]

My preference is her on top, 69, incontrol and me enjoying her pussy and ass!

 

[CravingBBWs]

blowjob style

I'm sure every guy is different, but I can tell you some things I enjoy personally.
- already mentioned here, but avoid teeth
- *anticipation is key
- I like to be on my back, but I want you to instruct me to be there because of the anticipation.*
- If I'm clothed, undress me as needed. Look me in the eyes while you do it.*
- Settle yourself, because moving or changing positions is a distraction.
- Guide my cock with a couple of gentle fingers to move it where you need it.
- Start gently, taking just the tip into your mouth, then release. Take in a little more of the head after each release.
- Don't move the fingers holding my cock too much. Your mouth should do most of the work. If you want to stroke something with your fingers, take your other hand and trace your finger under my scrotum or along the skin between it and my taint.
- If you want to switch up your mouth action, lick the underside from the base up to the tip in slow, long strokes.
- Noise is good. I'm not in the "the more noise, the better" camp, but no need to be silent. We're not in high school with your parents in the next room.
- At some point, I'm going to cum. Plan ahead where you want me to splash, because I don't want to think about it. In order of personal preference...
-- My personal favorite style is in your mouth. Swallowing is best. You are a gift from heaven.
-- Have a towel ready* if you need to spit me out, because I don't want you running back and forth to the bathroom until we're all done and everyone is happy.
-- Have a towel ready* to one side if you want me to splash on myself. Try to keep my cock pointed at a low angle on the towel side.
-- If you want me to splash your boobs or tummy, make sure I'm almost done and I'll get up to straddle you on your back.

I hope this is helpful for you. If so, glad this info can be useful at last. Practice makes perfect, and all that.

 

[Gracie13]

I'm sure every guy is different, but I can tell you some things I enjoy personally.
- already mentioned here, but avoid teeth
- *anticipation is key
- I like to be on my back, but I want you to instruct me to be there because of the anticipation.*
- If I'm clothed, undress me as needed. Look me in the eyes while you do it.*
- Settle yourself, because moving or changing positions is a distraction.
- Guide my cock with a couple of gentle fingers to move it where you need it.
- Start gently, taking just the tip into your mouth, then release. Take in a little more of the head after each release.
- Don't move the fingers holding my cock too much. Your mouth should do most of the work. If you want to stroke something with your fingers, take your other hand and trace your finger under my scrotum or along the skin between it and my taint.
- If you want to switch up your mouth action, lick the underside from the base up to the tip in slow, long strokes.
- Noise is good. I'm not in the "the more noise, the better" camp, but no need to be silent. We're not in high school with your parents in the next room.
- At some point, I'm going to cum. Plan ahead where you want me to splash, because I don't want to think about it. In order of personal preference...
-- My personal favorite style is in your mouth. Swallowing is best. You are a gift from heaven.
-- Have a towel ready* if you need to spit me out, because I don't want you running back and forth to the bathroom until we're all done and everyone is happy.
-- Have a towel ready* to one side if you want me to splash on myself. Try to keep my cock pointed at a low angle on the towel side.
-- If you want me to splash your boobs or tummy, make sure I'm almost done and I'll get up to straddle you on your back.

I hope this is helpful for you. If so, glad this info can be useful at last. Practice makes perfect, and all that.

Wow. I just don’t even know. I would need flash cards to study for that experience.

 

[Jordan90]

The two things that do it for me are 1.) she's into it...already been harped on, so no explanation needed 2.) good pressure on the base of my cock. I don't know if that's a personal thing or not, but I find it very difficult to cum if she's only sucking the tip of me. I need hand or lip pressure, right where the topside of my cock merges with my hip bone.
Those two combined - enthusiasm and pressure - are mind blowing!

 

[Uneklensane]

Dark fantasy

My ex wife loved blow jobs. She said it turned her on knowing she had so much control over my pleasure. And she has been the only woman who could SOOO easily make me explode. All of her motions, sounds, and the way her tits ground on my inner thighs*** Priceless. And she always swallowed.

 

[CravingBBWs]

Wow. I just don’t even know. I would need flash cards to study for that experience.

Now that you mention it, I was thinking the OP might be a writer and want things to consider from that angle. For the record, if a woman offers a BJ, the answer is YES.
Nobody’s getting a letter grade, and I will reciprocate however she likes. I may crave BBWs and older women, but that doesn’t mean others are unwelcome.

 

[Uneklensane]

Wow. I just don’t even know. I would need flash cards to study for that experience.

The option would be ask him to go down on you first. Any man who wants a blow job but won't lick pussy(and swallow) isn't worth your time, or worthy of your lips.

 

[cjcurious]

An enthusiastic and willing partner. I'll echo everyone else and say that her (or his) enjoyment of giving the blowjob is paramount. Beyond that it depends on the mood, situation, timing, place, etc.

But I'll share a different perspective on the teeth thing. Scraping teeth is never a good thing, obviously, but I once had a friend who was going down on me, had me as hard as ever after 5 or 10 minutes and was licking up and down the shaft of my cock from the side, like playing a harmonica. Then she stopped, and without biting, she very gently squeezed the shaft of my cock with her teeth. The electricity that pulsed through my entire body from that was amazing. She did it a couple more times, slowly increasing the pressure and watching my reaction to it, and it was perfect. My head was spinning like I had already cum, and it made the slow and sensual part that came next 100x better.

I'm not saying everyone would enjoy this, but don't rule it out from the get go just because omg teeth.

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

What is it that men are looking for in a blowjob? Should it be slow and thorough? Should it be hot and fast? Does she take control or does he want to be in charge? Swallow or share?

I want it to start off slow and thorough. I want her to go with her emotions when deciding to speed up. if she wants it, she should do it. But overall, I prefer slow and thorough. When I get closer to cumming, I'll typically grip her hair and demonstrate the exact speed and depth I want when I cum. I want her to swallow every drop.

Then I want her to use her mouth to get me hard a second time.

 

[DDBustyBrit]

Me

Hands down my fave thing to do, so I have studied hard, practiced endlessly and could apparently make a living!!

 

[Uneklensane]

Me

Hands down my fave thing to do, so I have studied hard, practiced endlessly and could apparently make a living!!

Diligence to mastering a skill is a wonderful work ethic...
I commend you.

 

[triciaNC]

Thanks for the input

I appreciate all the input. I thoroughly enjoy giving blowjobs. It isn’t about control for me, but the pleasure I get in knowing he is being pleasured. It is important to me to find those “just right” spots, the ones that make his cock harden and throb, and focusing on them. I like to take my time, explore, enjoy. And there is nothing better than feeling him tense right before he explodes in my mouth and I get to taste and swallow his hot cum.

 

[77706guy]

Just a genuine desire to do and enjoy it. With the proper attitude and desire a bj is fantastic

 

[topip]

I would just like to get any kinda blow job!! Lol I am not picky!

 

[PG13]

Enthusiasm