What do men mean when they say she has a tight pussy

[MrMikelobe1952]

This is something I have heard of for many decades, although I can't remember anyone actually saying. Praising a woman for having a tight pussy. This is something you see all over now on misogynist web pages.

I know its meant as some kind of praise. But from my experience, what it really means is that the man hasn't turned the woman on, or she didn't want his cock inside her at all. When a woman is aroused, her pussy fits nicely around my cock, providing me with the stimulation I want. If she cums or has exercised her kegel muscles, there may be a squeeze.

But, if it is tight when I'm going in, it means I need to stop. And engage in foreplay or cunnilingus or something to open it up. If I slide in, it means its time.

I don't want a tight one. I want a wet one.

(Is this the right forum for this rant?)

 

[Ghostee]

This is something I have heard of for many decades, although I can't remember anyone actually saying. Praising a woman for having a tight pussy. This is something you see all over now on misogynist web pages.

I know its meant as some kind of praise. But from my experience, what it really means is that the man hasn't turned the woman on, or she didn't want his cock inside her at all. When a woman is aroused, her pussy fits nicely around my cock, providing me with the stimulation I want. If she cums or has exercised her kegel muscles, there may be a squeeze.

But, if it is tight when I'm going in, it means I need to stop. And engage in foreplay or cunnilingus or something to open it up. If I slide in, it means its time.

I don't want a tight one. I want a wet one.

(Is this the right forum for this rant?)

Wet is a must!
Tight means during sex the pussy gets wet and grip around your cock,helps you cum.

Many females in porn or the sex industry get used up and wear their pussy out and you get the hot dog in a hallway thing going on.

My GF use kegal balls to keep her pussy in great working order.

 

[screwher]

It’s also an exciting idea. And fun to say when having an erotic chat!

 

[wildp]

I once was with a girl she told me I might hurt her with my size. When I took her panties off and saw her tiny pussy she was right. Was tiny and tight. I wore it out time after time for about a year

 

[pantalaimonlyra]

Many females in porn or the sex industry get used up and wear their pussy out and you get the hot dog in a hallway thing going on.

It would be funny, if it weren't so incredibly sad that people actually believe that.

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Pussies can be tight and wet simultaneously.

 

[BBCfan]

This is something I have heard of for many decades, although I can't remember anyone actually saying. Praising a woman for having a tight pussy. This is something you see all over now on misogynist web pages.

I know its meant as some kind of praise. But from my experience, what it really means is that the man hasn't turned the woman on, or she didn't want his cock inside her at all. When a woman is aroused, her pussy fits nicely around my cock, providing me with the stimulation I want. If she cums or has exercised her kegel muscles, there may be a squeeze.

But, if it is tight when I'm going in, it means I need to stop. And engage in foreplay or cunnilingus or something to open it up. If I slide in, it means its time.

I don't want a tight one. I want a wet one.

(Is this the right forum for this rant?)

With my life long personal study of vaginas, I would say it's fairly simple.
Cocks vary in size DRAMATICALLY , although most are within a certain range.

Same with pussy. But when you find a tight wet pussy that fits like a tight satiny velvet glove of ecstatic pleasure...magical.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

It would be funny, if it weren't so incredibly sad that people actually believe that.

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Pussies can be tight and wet simultaneously.

Yeah, I don't think my post is getting the message across.

 

[phil1955]

From my experience. an aroused woman feels tighter as well as better lubricated and so is a much more pleasurable fuck. If she is just letting you do it, the physical sensations are no where near as good.

 

[Asian_Flower]

Hopefully this is the dumbest thing I read today on Lit.

 

[FGB]

With my life long personal study of vaginas, I would say it's fairly simple.
Cocks vary in size DRAMATICALLY , although most are within a certain range.

Same with pussy. But when you find a tight wet pussy that fits like a tight satiny velvet glove of ecstatic pleasure...magical.

Oh I have SO found several of these in years past.

She said she was going to show me something in response to the fine job I did eating her pussy.

OMG! I had call for mercy! Hot tight and Wet She climbed on top of me and starting milking me like ...like a tight wet pussy that fits like a tight satiny velvet glove of ecstatic pleasure...magical!

My eyes actually crossed, after a couple minutes (I think) I felt light headed.
I had ask her to stop so we could change positions before I exploded!

The second one I found was very wet, hot andf tight and I bottomed out with about a half inch left over...Juices leaked out on the down stroke! I only had her for the weekend but DAMN I hit it every time I could. I don't know about her but I was sore Monday morning!


The first one I found we gave up after a couple hours. It just was not going to work...

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

It would be funny, if it weren't so incredibly sad that people actually believe that.

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Pussies can be tight and wet simultaneously.

Pussy's can also be dry and loose

 

[OneFineYoungCannibal]

Every pussy seems loose with my needle dick.

 

[HampshireBoy]

In my experience pussy's do vary in size, same as penes do. Saying that, the vagina is obviously designed (or evolved) to stretch.

What I want is a woman that is totally into what we are doing and turned on - this wish for a tight, wet pussy is just so much porn BS IMO In the same was as in porn every woman wants a huge penis that "stretches them to the limits"

Saying all that I have made love to women that feel snugger than others, because in my experience people do vary in size. It doesn't mean that those that are "looser" are any less "sexy" or undesirable, just there is a different feel.

The Karma Sutra (from memory) talks about Rabbits, Deers and Elephants stating that a rabbit paired with an elephant neither are satisfied other combinations work perfectly well.

 

[Carnevil9]

In my experience, saying that a woman has a "tight pussy" is used as a colloquial way of saying that she is very pleasurable to have sex with. It doesn't mean that her pussy is literally tight, for good or bad. Just like when you say a woman is "smokin' hot!" it doesn't really mean that her temperature is elevated or that smoke is coming off of her body.

 

[lil_jenni]

Pre-Hubby, I had to be buzzed or drunk to have vaginal sex because otherwise I tensed up and it was not a pleasant experience for me. And judging by a few times I was when I was told I was too tight, it wasn't pleasant for some guys either. But alcohol was guaranteed to help me relax enough for it to be okay. So, in my case, I'd say tight was not so good.

It's never been an issue with Hubby, which is one reason he is Hubby. He gets me very hot, and I've always been able to relax around him. So... win/win. Oh, and he has no complaints about either me being too tight or not tight enough.

 

[DarkPleasures]

This is something I have heard of for many decades, although I can't remember anyone actually saying. Praising a woman for having a tight pussy. This is something you see all over now on misogynist web pages.

I know its meant as some kind of praise. But from my experience, what it really means is that the man hasn't turned the woman on, or she didn't want his cock inside her at all. When a woman is aroused, her pussy fits nicely around my cock, providing me with the stimulation I want. If she cums or has exercised her kegel muscles, there may be a squeeze.

But, if it is tight when I'm going in, it means I need to stop. And engage in foreplay or cunnilingus or something to open it up. If I slide in, it means its time.

I don't want a tight one. I want a wet one.

(Is this the right forum for this rant?)

I have been told in the past that my pussy is tight, or that "it's a tight fit", when I've been with someone who is more endowed. Case in point, my current boyfriend is thicker than the ex I had been with for ten years. It was a pleasant surprise for me, and a great fit. And trust me, arousal was not a problem!

 

[Kate_part2]

I have been told in the past that my pussy is tight, or that "it's a tight fit", when I've been with someone who is more endowed. Case in point, my current boyfriend is thicker than the ex I had been with for ten years. It was a pleasant surprise for me, and a great fit. And trust me, arousal was not a problem!

Experienced the same. Well-said! Or when it's been a while since I've been with a guy.

 

[Jada59]

To me, what that means is that she does her kegels, works out with weights or whatever to keep her muscles tight. I know women who will not do this and wound up having to have corrective surgery when things slipped out of place.

My Gynecologist had a hard time doing a test on me because I was instinctively tightening my muscles as he tried to put whatever he was putting inside of me. He told me he could tell that I'd been doing my kegels.

When I was younger, I used to do two pencil tests. One for breasts, one for pussy. Stand naked, put the pencil under your breasts and watch it drop to the floor. If it sticks there, it means your boobs are saggy.

The pussy test was to barely insert it, then work the muscles to work it all the way in, then back out again. Of course this is very easy to do with a pussy that isn't very wet. Back then I thought the wetness was a bad thing. Ha! The trick is to do it with a wet pussy.

These days I don't use the pencil. I use a dildo. When I get aroused enough, I'll suck that baby right into me!

I remember the first time I had sex with that man I married. And in thinking of it now, I think I should have walked off! He said to me, "Boy! You're really loose!"

I wanted to smack him as I knew I wasn't loose. But... He had only been with two women prior to me and both had babies. After you have a baby, the Dr. might put extra stitches in. That might make the opening tighter. Dunno.

I had 17 stitches after I had a baby. Didn't look down there to see where exactly they went. And never had sex with my husband again, so couldn't get a comparison from him.

I don't think I feel any different though. I've heard of women having scar tissue. I don't think I have that.

 

[LupusDei]

This is something I have heard of for many decades, although I can't remember anyone actually saying. Praising a woman for having a tight pussy. This is something you see all over now on misogynist web pages.

I know its meant as some kind of praise. But from my experience, what it really means is that the man hasn't turned the woman on, or she didn't want his cock inside her at all. When a woman is aroused, her pussy fits nicely around my cock, providing me with the stimulation I want. If she cums or has exercised her kegel muscles, there may be a squeeze.

But, if it is tight when I'm going in, it means I need to stop. And engage in foreplay or cunnilingus or something to open it up. If I slide in, it means its time.

I don't want a tight one. I want a wet one.

(Is this the right forum for this rant?)

With my life long personal study of vaginas, I would say it's fairly simple.
Cocks vary in size DRAMATICALLY , although most are within a certain range.

Same with pussy. But when you find a tight wet pussy that fits like a tight satiny velvet glove of ecstatic pleasure...magical.

Once... I'm not that small and she wasn't a "worn out slut" by any measure (not perfect virgin either; ostensibly I was her second), but I barely felt anything. To the point I had to do mental work to stay hard in her. Now, anything opposite of that experience, an actually enjoyable sex is the "tight pussy" in my understanding.

 

[DarkPleasures]

Or when it's been a while since I've been with a guy.

Exactly! My boyfriend is a truck driver and he is gone for about 5 1/2 days out of the week. I typically see him Fri by the afternoon until Sat around 8 or 9 pm. The first time he sticks it in, again, is heaven!!

 

[IsItBad]

lifelong observation

having loved, appreciated, and somewhat studied pussy for going on 50 years now......i truly thought i fairly well understood the nature of a pussy......having experienced ones of various dimensions, various shapes, various kinds of lips, and a wide variety of lubrication that a woman can provide.....and i truly thought that it was largely a matter of genetics .....as well as arousal.....chemistry.....foreplay....etc......

and then

i met a woman....a beautiful, amazing, red headed woman......and we fell in love....and i learned .....that it is possible for a woman....to train her pussy....and her body.....that it is possible for a woman to learn seemingly impossible skills....controlling her muscles....controlling her contractions.....it is near impossible to remotely describe and my best efforts can not do her justice.....but....every lovemaking session with her.....was as if it was the last chance ever.....as if she was determined to apply 100% of the entire sum of her being into making love.....and focusing ALL of that energy into her pussy.....the very first time...i felt sure it was just a one off....an anomaly.....surely could not be repeated....the way that she sensed every single stage of my being along the way.....the way that the intensity of her effort ebbed and flowed perfectly with the continued build up of my own arousal....the way that her body.....every ounce of her energy focused....her looking completely into my soul with her eyes.....as her body ....her muscles....her pussy.....communicated.....translated.....her intentions....her feelings.....her desires.....straight through from the inner walls of her amazing womanhood through my cock in its entirety.....

after that first time.....of course i was hooked....of course i was amazed.....of course i wanted more.....but most of all...i wondered....did that really happen? was that as intense, as enduring, as mind blowing as it seemed to be?

it was not long after when we had our second chance .....and in ways it was completely different....different positions....different touches.....etc....but.....all the while....it was clear....that she was in complete control of her body.....of her legs....her arms.....of her mouth....even her eyes......but most of all and especially her sweet pussy.....the second time....she made it last even longer....watching her.....riding....grinding....watching her muscles contract....feeling the look on her mouth and eyes on my head deep inside her.....and by the time we had collapsed into one another's arms that time.....i was positive.....i had never......and wondered if there was another like her on earth......

and for some years....we remained together.....and i never once engaged in intercourse with her.....that it was not the same......

never before.....and never since

as a related an aside.....this darling....angel.....had never had an orgasm from having her pussy eaten....in fact, in the beginning she would question....why do you want to waste time on that....i will never cum that way.....i want you inside me.......but i was privileged....to have given her her first of many oral orgasms.....having changed her perspective entirely about oral sex.....her sweet beautiful.....exceedingly pink.....amazing pussy.......that tasted as sweet as could possibly be imagined.......

 

[IsItBad]

nice

To me, what that means is that she does her kegels, works out with weights or whatever to keep her muscles tight. I know women who will not do this and wound up having to have corrective surgery when things slipped out of place.

My Gynecologist had a hard time doing a test on me because I was instinctively tightening my muscles as he tried to put whatever he was putting inside of me. He told me he could tell that I'd been doing my kegels.

When I was younger, I used to do two pencil tests. One for breasts, one for pussy. Stand naked, put the pencil under your breasts and watch it drop to the floor. If it sticks there, it means your boobs are saggy.

The pussy test was to barely insert it, then work the muscles to work it all the way in, then back out again. Of course this is very easy to do with a pussy that isn't very wet. Back then I thought the wetness was a bad thing. Ha! The trick is to do it with a wet pussy.

These days I don't use the pencil. I use a dildo. When I get aroused enough, I'll suck that baby right into me!

I remember the first time I had sex with that man I married. And in thinking of it now, I think I should have walked off! He said to me, "Boy! You're really loose!"

I wanted to smack him as I knew I wasn't loose. But... He had only been with two women prior to me and both had babies. After you have a baby, the Dr. might put extra stitches in. That might make the opening tighter. Dunno.

I had 17 stitches after I had a baby. Didn't look down there to see where exactly they went. And never had sex with my husband again, so couldn't get a comparison from him.

I don't think I feel any different though. I've heard of women having scar tissue. I don't think I have that.

love the idea of the pencil test......once had a girlfriend who liked to make a game of slowly sucking a very long dildo completely inside her with just her muscles and trying her best not to cum before she had all the way inside.....i love to watch her do it.....it was so amazing....and such a good display and example of her muscles and control over them.....its a shame things like that aren't taught

i enjoyed hearing about it though and will think on it for some time

 

[HampshireBoy]

To me, what that means is that she does her kegels, works out with weights or whatever to keep her muscles tight. I know women who will not do this and wound up having to have corrective surgery when things slipped out of place.

My Gynecologist had a hard time doing a test on me because I was instinctively tightening my muscles as he tried to put whatever he was putting inside of me. He told me he could tell that I'd been doing my kegels.

When I was younger, I used to do two pencil tests. One for breasts, one for pussy. Stand naked, put the pencil under your breasts and watch it drop to the floor. If it sticks there, it means your boobs are saggy.

The pussy test was to barely insert it, then work the muscles to work it all the way in, then back out again. Of course this is very easy to do with a pussy that isn't very wet. Back then I thought the wetness was a bad thing. Ha! The trick is to do it with a wet pussy.

These days I don't use the pencil. I use a dildo. When I get aroused enough, I'll suck that baby right into me!

I remember the first time I had sex with that man I married. And in thinking of it now, I think I should have walked off! He said to me, "Boy! You're really loose!"

I wanted to smack him as I knew I wasn't loose. But... He had only been with two women prior to me and both had babies. After you have a baby, the Dr. might put extra stitches in. That might make the opening tighter. Dunno.

I had 17 stitches after I had a baby. Didn't look down there to see where exactly they went. And never had sex with my husband again, so couldn't get a comparison from him.

I don't think I feel any different though. I've heard of women having scar tissue. I don't think I have that.

I'm never sure about the effect of children, one gf had several kids but felt really tight.

Our kids were pretty large, 9lb 11 and 10lb 6, my ex-wife was really proud that she didn't need stiches - really funny what people are competitive over lol I did notice a difference but I'm never sure how much of that was psychological.

 

[Hans101]

It means that the woman is aroused enough that her vagina is engorged, creating the ideal amount of friction to achieve maximum stimulation for the man.

It has nothing to do with tightness in the sense of constriction.

A woman who is "tight" is the opposite of a woman who is NOT aroused.

 

[jumbuck50]

how tight is tight

During my mid life after leaving a relationship My dating involved quite a few great female friends who loved to have sex regular.
My experience was many women loved oral sex as well as intercourse Most vaginas were really firm and clasping as well as wet . I did find some that were little on the large side (no kids) My penis is average length but very thick (Ive been told) so a vagina that is not tight is less stimulating for a time..