What do men love most?

[pinkcat]

Hello All,

I have been trying to come up with story ideas and asking the men I know what their fantasy sex acts where. The only answer I get is no response. I know I have tons of fantasy sex ideas myself. What is it guys want? I'd really like to know. Thanks in advance for your help.
Pinkcat

 

[P. B. Walker]

We want to be worshipped... lol... nah just kidding.

That's a real tough question. I think every guy is different. Might be better to ask the guy you are trying to turn on what he wants.

- PBW

 

[dreamer]

The love and respect of a good woman. Any and all sex then is far far superior to anything else I have ever experienced.

Isn't that what we all want??

The problem (or maybe the good thing) with stories is this is near impossible to capture. I say maybe the good thing because I for one am drawn to the simplicity of the stories. The lack of pain, emotionaly speaking. Sex without that is just sex...but the downside is often too 'real' for my fantasy enjoyment.

So my advice would be KISS (Keep is Simple Sistah) Fantasy is best left this way. Straightforward and clean (clean in storytelling NOT in content..hehe)

Write what YOU enjoy...there are MANY guys out here like me that are horribly turned on by female enjoyment. Good luck and I look forward to reading more of your stories.

 

[DuckLover]

If you want specifics, I'll give you two common ones:

1) Walker was pretty correct-- more specifically cock worshipping. Having a woman praise it, lavish it with attention, and then fuck it every way possible until it damn near fall off!

2) Two (or more) women

 

[Beginner Guy]

I would have to agree with dreamer most of all. I'm only a 21 year old man but I've already found that what turns me on most, and what I fantasize about the most is pleasuring a woman. The way they sound, the way they feel, the way they smell. When I was a single man, I fantasized about these things. I would draw upon the limited experience I had. Now that I am very much in love with an incredible woman, I have more to go on. Maybe I am in the minority, but aside from the odd porn here and there, I do not have any desire to be with two(or more) women. I would much rather be with one woman who loves me as much as I love her. I'm not sure if this helps any, but I thought I would throw in my two cents.

 

[bigjacknyc]

In terms of fantasies, PB is right - every guy is different. Whatever topic you write about, some guys wills dig it and others will skip to the next story. For me, story topics that catch my eye are 3some, older woman seducing younger guy, and hospital/massage situations that get "out of hand." And whatever the fantasy, I tend to prefer them where the women are quite confident and aware of their sexuality and eager in bed, which is how I prefer the reality too.

I won't look at a story that involves a guy getting off on watching his loved one having sex with another. That would hurt me, not excite me so I can't get off on that. But like I said, I'm sure some find that really exciting. It's all personal. And while we're at it, I am just plain repulsed by any story that is tagged as "Incest" - just sends shivers down my spine. Won't go anywhere near those.

In terms of the writing, the stories that really lock into my mind and "move" me are ones where: (1) there's some semblance of reality - not these things where every guy has an 11" schlong etc; (2) the sexual tension between the conspirators develops BEFORE the events. That means a little character development and giving enough time to build it up so that you can't wait for it to happen. There's one here somewhere called Truth or Dare that I think is a good example. Another one is Tempting Vacation (I think it's at another website), probably my alltime fave and as I have lamented here before, it remains incomplete.

 

[deyv]

super cuts

Not sure what you're looking for exactly but... a fantasy that I personally have that I know will NEVER happen is having sex at the hairdresser, while she's washing my hair with shampoo. I don't know why, probably because it is an intimate act, but the hot water, and the lather, combined with gentle hands massaging my scalp while lying w/ my head in the sink is a real turn on. Unfortunately though, it's rather inappropriate to expose one's erection to the hairdresser.... I afraid I might wind up with a mohawk if she's offended.

 

[Belilica]

Pinkcat,

I'm not a guy, and I don;t really knw what they like, but there's a story suggestion forum on here if you're looking for ideas. I've never checked it out myself, but it might just prove useful.

Good luck!

Bel

 

[sirhugs]

Re: super cuts

Not sure what you're looking for exactly but... a fantasy that I personally have that I know will NEVER happen is having sex at the hairdresser, while she's washing my hair with shampoo. I don't know why, probably because it is an intimate act, but the hot water, and the lather, combined with gentle hands massaging my scalp while lying w/ my head in the sink is a real turn on. Unfortunately though, it's rather inappropriate to expose one's erection to the hairdresser.... I afraid I might wind up with a mohawk if she's offended.

back in the Penthouse Forum days, pre-internet, they periodically ran stories where a haircut lead to sex- generally along the lines of " I was the last customer in the shop...". Penthouse bneing Penthouse, the manicurist often joined in as well...

I agree that story, although perhaps cliche is appealing. What guy doesn't get at least a bit enticed by sense of the stylist's breasts by his ear? A good writer could rise beyond the cliche.

 

[pinkcat]

Thanks for all the great ideas and research info. Who would have thought research would be so much fun. I can't wait to read all the suggested stories.
Pinkcat

 

[sirhugs]

thought you might write em pinkcat...

 

[sirhugs]

certainly, I won't use the hairstylist plot, so anyone else feel free

 

[bondage_philosopher]

I'll answer straight up of what really gets me going. When a woman assumes control w/o me having to give her any signs. Sometimes I just want to be dominated without having to initiate it. Hope I helped ya and good luck with your stories. Also, if you have a lot of ideas write'em all down. That's why we're writers.

 

[Lust Engine]

A woman that knows her own sexuality is a huge turn on. Any woman that knows how to pleasure herself and her partner is a major turn on. Granted this might seem very vague but I believe everyone is different and while I'm not trying to duck the question, I think each woman brings to the relationship a different sense of sexual confidence. Certain women might give wonderful head, other women have beautiful hands, etc..

Each woman has their own sexual technique and I think confidence in their OWN techniques makes them sexy as all get out!

 

[Dj_Maximus]

My excitement grows...

from watching a woman pleasure herself.

I'm not saying that I can't do the job, but watching a woman touch herself and bring herself nearer to climax has a profound effect on me.

Not only does it turn me on, it also teaches me what she likes, how she likes to be touched, and exactly where she wants to be touched (or caresses, or licked, or such)

There are always ways in finding out what she wants, or needs simply by watching.

I know a lot of men would just move in for the "kill", but I prefer to be patient and pay attention to the needs of a woman.

 

[MidnightShadow]

hmmmmm.....

watching a woman masturbate with a vibrator or dildo.....and of course (looks down in shame) MFF with my wife........

 

[Screenwriter]

Personally, I love to eat pussy. Secondly, 2 women in the bed with me is absoultely incredible!

 

[lovechild27]

Men are simple creatures. They like sex of almost any kind. If you write something kinky, they will like it. Stories are always better though if it is YOUR fantasy....you have it played out in every detail. So I say screw their ideas...write what makes you hot! and the men will read it no matter what!

 

[licka]

i love it when a girl stands with her back to you and pulls her thong down while bending over to reveal the lips of her pussy. Or when she pants into your ear during sex to fuck her in the ass. pretty simple i guess.

 

[spankableBelle]

i am not a man...

...but i do write and so my thoughts and advice are that while finding out a guys fantasy is all well and good and a source for sparking fires in your creative juices, your writing is going to come off as exceptional if you write what is inside your head...whatever it is that fuels your imagination and just begs to be told is what will ultimately get the reaction...and there are plenty of guys into plenty of things, so whatever your own fantasies are, i'm sure it'll hit the spot with some of them...tell your story how you see it...they'll appreciate it...~smile~...though i have at times accepted the challenge of writing another's fantasy, it's not always as easy as it seems...so, really to each his or her own...just tell the story you see...

just my two cents worth...

belle

 

[knightstalker]

A women to open his beer ...To always know where my remote is and never ever talk during sports center or hockey games..To be a lady in public and a whore in bed...know how to cook and clean...Never talk back and to know I am always right..to work and make more money than me...then give it to me ...

 

[Guest]

to work and make more money than me...then give it to me ...

Guess that this confirms what was said about you previously. : p

 

[cycleman]

A woman who is not afraid to ask for what she wants.......how she wants it.....how she likes it..........how she needs it......how good it feels

 

[Trainerman]

To echo an earlier writer.........

The more turned on my lady is.........the more turned on I am !

HER pleasure and arousal is the greatest aphrodisiac in the world !

 

[zach79]

Personally I could never, ever get tired of watching a girl playing with herself and I'm not talking where she might be reserved because you are watching.

I'm talking about where you might come home early one day and see just exactly what she likes to do with no one watching.