What can you tell about a woman by the way she eats?

[Mr. Mann]

I'm working on a hypothesis, here.

I've long felt that the way a woman eats generally tells you alot about that person sexually.

For instance, if they order what they want not what they "should" get; if they dive in and really enjoy thier food; if they go ahead and dig in instead of pecking like a little bird; if they like to try new foods or stick to the same stuff all the time; hot and spicy or bland and tasteless, etc.

Anyone?

 

[BeachGurl2]

Not sure what you're asking here. Are you interested in HOW the women here eat/choose their food? Or what people think about the WAY women order/eat?

Personally, I think the way women eat on dates tells a lot about how comfortable they are with themselves. I've never been the date-salad eater. I order what I'm hungry for and eat until I'm full. On my last dinner date with my bf, I asked the waitress for a suggestion and ordered what she suggested, never having eaten it before. Was excellent. I love trying new things. The dinner date prior to that, I ordered steamed crab claws. Not a very "neat" order. And since steamed crab is my absolute favorite meal, you can be sure that I ate every ounce of meat inside those claws! Sticky fingers clean up fairly easily.

 

[Mr. Mann]

I am wondering if any guys or gals here have noticed a correlation bewteen a woman's eating and sexual behavior.

If she likes to eat new things is she also sexually adventurous?

If she is the type not to eat too much in front of people, is she also sexually repressed?

If she doesn't allow herself to enjoy food, does she also deny repress sexual urges?

They are both a type of physical hunger and physical pleasure.

Does that clear up what I am looking for?

 

[vanelane]

Ok, I never thought about it before but for myself....

I order what I want and eat as much as I want of it, I like to try new things, and I am definitely *not* sexually repressed. Maybe it has to do with whether or not we worry about what others think of us? Because I really don't care much about that.

 

[BeachGurl2]

I am wondering if any guys or gals here have noticed a correlation bewteen a woman's eating and sexual behavior.

If she likes to eat new things is she also sexually adventurous?

If she is the type not to eat too much in front of people, is she also sexually repressed?

If she doesn't allow herself to enjoy food, does she also deny repress sexual urges?

They are both a type of physical hunger and physical pleasure.

Does that clear up what I am looking for?

Hmmmm. Yes, clears it up. Now to wonder about how my eating habits correlate to my sexual behavior. I'm pretty adventurous sexually, willing to try most anything that doesn't gross me out, as evidenced through many of my recent postings here. And I also tend to be pretty adventurous with food as well. So I guess for me, your theory that they may relate could be true.

 

[Marquis]

In my experience....

If she likes to eat new things is she also sexually adventurous?

Yes.

If she is the type not to eat too much in front of people, is she also sexually repressed?

Yes.

If she doesn't allow herself to enjoy food, does she also deny repress sexual urges?

Yes.

Does that clear up what I am looking for?

Yes.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

I am wondering if any guys or gals here have noticed a correlation bewteen a woman's eating and sexual behavior.

If she likes to eat new things is she also sexually adventurous?

If she is the type not to eat too much in front of people, is she also sexually repressed?

If she doesn't allow herself to enjoy food, does she also deny repress sexual urges?

They are both a type of physical hunger and physical pleasure.

Does that clear up what I am looking for?

We all know that woman and men are different, but I am not sure this is an area that it would show up. I think a woman would do the salad routine because she isn't comfortable with herself. I would love to answer more of your questions but I am not versed well enough in the ways of woman to make satisfy what your looking for, so I will take it from my side of things. If you were to eat the same thing day in and day out then the food would become bland, trust me as a truck driver I have vast knowledge of this effect.
But when I go out to eat I always get about the same thing, I would hate to try something new and hate it. What would you do in that case send it back and order something more to your liking and how does the resturant look at such behavior?? Back on topic just because when I go into a resturant and eat the same food everytime has no baring on if I am sexually repressed or how much I want to try new things. I just like what I like and until I am unsated by my choices why should I make radical changes??

 

[alice_underneath]

Mr. Mann -

Love the new av.

I have very eclectic taste in food, and am fortunate to live in an area with a wide variety of fine restaurants, offering cuisine from all over the world (which I enjoy).

Per the rules of good manners by which I was raised, my usual style in eating is to take small bites and eat slowly.

If you watched me eat, the primary thing you would notice is that I don't eat very much! I am a 45-year-old woman who works hard to maintain her figure. No, I am not skinny. I am slender, with curves.

Why do I deny myself food, when I enjoy it so much? One reason, really. Throughout my life, most of the men I have known have preferred slender women to heavy ones. Not all men share that preference of course, but it is true for many - including my Husband.

So..... do I restrict my eating, just for Him? The answer to that question is - yes and no.

It makes me happy to offer Him the most pleasing body that I possibly can. But the effect is somewhat circular, if you know what I mean. The more aroused He is.... well, you get the idea.

As for what all of that says about me - hypothesize away, Mr. Mann.

I hope I have answered your questions.

Alice

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

..............puts down hotdog a moment to answer question


Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo how can the way you eat reflect your sexual tenacity . If I could even consider the idea then we might as well go with a mans performance sexually is influenced by the sort of car he drives.

sheeeeeeeeeeesh.....laughs


.............calls out " Hun wheres the keys to the stretch Limo , I am sooooooo craving a banana split now..............."

 

[Quint]

I have never thought of this before. How delightful.

I came to T with an adventurous palate. I've aspired to amateur chefdom for a long time and I love creating new meals. I'm notoriously indecisive at restaurants because almost everything sounds delicious to me, and I will usually end up playing a "T, pick A or B" without telling him what meal corresponds to A and B, and going with that. I often find myself absolutely delighted by new meals that I try to make and I have a special "happy food dance" that I do.

T grew up with one of the most boring and limited tastes in food I've ever seen. He seriously used to go to Taco Bell and order bean and cheese tacos without the beans. Yes, that means he had cheese in a tortilla. Since I've been with him (not to brag...oh, who am I kidding?), his taste has expanded drastically and he enjoys almost everything that I create now. Although he still always gets the Tour of Italy at Olive Garden.

R, our female friend that I'm occasionally lucky enough to play with, is a fun one. When she goes to a restaurant, she will tell the waitress to pick something for her. It's a regular thing for her and I think she has always enjoyed what they brought--but I think she enjoys the surprise and having the waitress do her bidding more.

So tell me, Mr. Mann...what does it mean? What does it mean?

 

[Marquis]

I almost always customize whatever I order.

I tend to order the most exotic thing on the menu, the dish which I think takes the most expertise to make or contains the most unique ingredients. If I can afford it. I prefer not going out to eat unless I can afford to do something special, otherwise I feel like I can have a more satisfying experience at home.

I have fairly good table manners, but I'm not above ordering something I'll have to eat with my hands or get a bit messy with.

 

[Quint]

Oh, and I'm an absolute horror when it comes to table manners. T always laughs at me because I grip my fork like I'm going to kill someone with it, and I snarf down my food frantically. I find it hard to keep my dining libido under control. That may honestly just be a by-product of being used to only having 30 minutes to eat...

 

[Quint]

I almost always customize whatever I order.

I tend to order the most exotic thing on the menu, the dish which I think takes the most expertise to make or contains the most unique ingredients. If I can afford it. I prefer not going out to eat unless I can afford to do something special, otherwise I feel like I can have a more satisfying experience at home.

I have fairly good table manners, but I'm not above ordering something I'll have to eat with my hands or get a bit messy with.

I definitely find a direct correlation between this and your flavor of dominance. How absolutely fascinating. And while eating, do you tend to pay more attention to your food or your dining companion?

 

[Marquis]

I definitely find a direct correlation between this and your flavor of dominance. How absolutely fascinating. And while eating, do you tend to pay more attention to your food or your dining companion?

Hmmm, you'd have to ask Voyeur.

 

[Mr. Mann]

Mr. Mann -

Love the new av.

I have very eclectic taste in food, and am fortunate to live in an area with a wide variety of fine restaurants, offering cuisine from all over the world (which I enjoy).

Per the rules of good manners by which I was raised, my usual style in eating is to take small bites and eat slowly.

If you watched me eat, the primary thing you would notice is that I don't eat very much! I am a 45-year-old woman who works hard to maintain her figure. No, I am not skinny. I am slender, with curves.

Why do I deny myself food, when I enjoy it so much? One reason, really. Throughout my life, most of the men I have known have preferred slender women to heavy ones. Not all men share that preference of course, but it is true for many - including my Husband.

So..... do I restrict my eating, just for Him? The answer to that question is - yes and no.

It makes me happy to offer Him the most pleasing body that I possibly can. But the effect is somewhat circular, if you know what I mean. The more aroused He is.... well, you get the idea.

As for what all of that says about me - hypothesize away, Mr. Mann.

I hope I have answered your questions.

Alice

Thanks on the AV. The tie matches the forum (and my eyes). No jacket and collar is button down, so it is casual, but still nice.

From your description, and not knowing you well enough to know how you are in bed, of course... I'd theorize that you tend to be adventurous and submissive.

You enjoy food a great deal enjoying new and exotic things. You eat what you like for the enjoyment of it. However, you moderate the amount in order to please the person whose opinion matters the most to you. This is no sacrifice. You do this because pleasing him pleases you more than food.

So.... you let yourself enjoy sex. You like to try new things and varry your sexual experience. You are open to new things. However, you are also submissive. It is ironic that doing things to please him actually brings you the greatest pleasure of all.

Am I close? You tell me.

 

[Recidiva]

Uh...

I like food from all sorts of places and ethnicities and traditions.

I will eat anything once in the spirit of adventure (well, barring smell or obviously something very wrong)

Does this help?

 

[Mr. Mann]

I have never thought of this before. How delightful.

I came to T with an adventurous palate. I've aspired to amateur chefdom for a long time and I love creating new meals. I'm notoriously indecisive at restaurants because almost everything sounds delicious to me, and I will usually end up playing a "T, pick A or B" without telling him what meal corresponds to A and B, and going with that. I often find myself absolutely delighted by new meals that I try to make and I have a special "happy food dance" that I do.

T grew up with one of the most boring and limited tastes in food I've ever seen. He seriously used to go to Taco Bell and order bean and cheese tacos without the beans. Yes, that means he had cheese in a tortilla. Since I've been with him (not to brag...oh, who am I kidding?), his taste has expanded drastically and he enjoys almost everything that I create now. Although he still always gets the Tour of Italy at Olive Garden.

R, our female friend that I'm occasionally lucky enough to play with, is a fun one. When she goes to a restaurant, she will tell the waitress to pick something for her. It's a regular thing for her and I think she has always enjoyed what they brought--but I think she enjoys the surprise and having the waitress do her bidding more.

So tell me, Mr. Mann...what does it mean? What does it mean?

Again... just sort of guessing here...

You are sexually adventurous. You want to try a little bit of everything and try alot of the things you like best. Sometimes you like surprises. You aren't picky and will find fun and joy in just about anything sexual as you truly appreciate the wide range of experiences as being unique and special. You are expressive with your enjoyment and desire and are very confident in who you are. You are somewhat submisive and enjoy it when someone you trust takes charge within certain limits, but you also like be in charge yourself sometimes.

So... am I close? You tell me.

Again... this is all mostly theory here, and I don't think it is a 100% thing.

 

[Mr. Mann]

Uh...

I like food from all sorts of places and ethnicities and traditions.

I will eat anything once in the spirit of adventure (well, barring smell or obviously something very wrong)

Does this help?

I don't know.

Is this close to how you are sexually?

Do you like a little bit of everything? Different men? Different women? Are you sexually adventurous?

 

[Recidiva]

I don't know.

Is this close to how you are sexually?

Do you like a little bit of everything? Different men? Different women? Are you sexually adventurous?

I am a very good cook, I have things I love and that I do well. I'm sexually adventurous but a bit of a purist in that I do best with monogamy, if only because jealousy and the stuff that goes with it is a buzzkill, a person's whole energy is off if they're jealous. I really only like people who are there to have a meal, not there for junk food.

I'm (to my dismay) completely straight. I feel like I would manage to be bisexual if only more women were as aggressive about it as guys. Usually I'm just going about my daily thing ignoring people or messing with them until one of them hits me over the head with their emotional commitment and then I say "Well, sure!"

I usually never see this coming. We were almost always "friends" or "opponents" to begin with, and then...tah dah! Lovers.

It's one of those questions that you can ask such as "Would you eat a meal alone in a restaurant or go out to a movie alone, or does that make you nervous or feel socially awkward?"

I enjoy my own company, sexually and socially, but love having other people around for the ride, but they're not absolutely necessary. I'd rather be fasting than be with a poisonous person. And many of the bright and shiny people...just like in nature...are venomous, and I steer clear.

 

[Hisbabydoll26]

I'm working on a hypothesis, here.

I've long felt that the way a woman eats generally tells you alot about that person sexually.

For instance, if they order what they want not what they "should" get; if they dive in and really enjoy thier food; if they go ahead and dig in instead of pecking like a little bird; if they like to try new foods or stick to the same stuff all the time; hot and spicy or bland and tasteless, etc.

Anyone?

Okay not to confuse the situation any but what about those people that add condiments to their meal....eat small bites.....like many courses....gourge themselves etc?

I read this to my husband and he asked if this meant I was messy sexually..*giggling*

I enjoy a salad but to be honest with people I don't know in an eating situation I tend to go with something I won't have to worry about hanging out of my mouth such as a large piece of lettuce or sliming my face with dressing. I would also stay away from spagetti. Of course once I get to know you...I will eat anything in front of you...and as typical as it is..will most likely accidently spill some of it on myself. I'm not a messy eater as much as a klutz in general.

With that said....in the bedroom....only ever been with my husband from first kiss on....I was shy...but now will do anything he asks....as will he for me. So...does that give you any insight? And on his end of things...he adds ranch dressing to everything.....I can't think of anything we always do in the bedroom though that would be similar like that.....we tend to do different things as does everyone I would think.

 

[FurryFury]

Eating, hmm, I have always had a love hate thing going on with food. I was raised with strict dietary restrictions.

I have always be stubborn refusing to eat anything I didn't want to.

When I was a preteen through my early 20's I saw eating as a waste of my time. I found if I didn't bother I wasn't hungry after a while.

Later food became comforting in a horrible marriage and life. I began to enjoy food so much it was almost embarrassing to eat in public with me ala When Harry Met Sally. If I didn't eat I got the shakes. I was also drinking a lot then. I was just so empty. I went up to 145 lbs.

Now I don't care that much to eat. I don't get the shakes when I skip eating. I enjoy certain dishes a lot but will eat things that don't thrill me if it is put before me.

Mostly I eat what I want when I want, but if it's any trouble at all, I don't bother.

When out with friends, I order precisely what I want. In most restaurants I go to, and I don't usually bother with fast food, I have beloved dishes I crave and don't cook myself that I order each time.

I do love to try new restaurants particularly if they have a cuisine I am unfamiliar with. I love to study up on recipes and dishes from other cultures. Since I am a veggie though, I am still very particular about what I eat.

With friends I might pick or even order a salad because I adore salads. When I eat with another person, my mind is usually focused on them more than on food. I love having left overs so that's not a bad thing.

At the recent munch, I know I closed my eyes and savored parts of the meal I ordered more than once but I tried to keep the moaning to a minimum. I ordered off menu, which is not uncommon for me, the were eager to make me what I wanted. They usually are. *smiles*

I also share my food with others, even these strangers because everyone should enjoy and experience good things that I know about. I LOVE sharing.

I currently weigh somewhere between 110-120 lbs and at 5'10" I feel pretty damned good about my body. I have been blessed with the kind of body most think is thin even when I feel heavy, which is most of the time. LOL! I never diet.

Am I adventurous in food and bed? Yes, but as previously noted I do not always order new things or go to new restaurants.

Am I repressed? Yes, but less now than I've ever been.

My table manners are very good, of course.

I don't restrict how much I eat in front of others but as I said my attention is generally on them and rarely on the food. When I am with someone I give them 100%. I love doing that.

Fury

 

[cati]

Hehe what a great thread! MM.

Some say there may be a co-relation between sex and food, how one eats and what. I remember reading something to that effect while researching possible "aphrodisiacs".

I have the worst eating habits. I'm a "grazer". I hate sitting down to a full meal.
I also like to try new dishes when eating in a restaurant.

I don't like eating with people that I don't know well as I can't seem to relax and really enjoy my food and savour each bite.

At one time I cooked professionally, as a result I tend to critique dishes a little too much... how it should/could have been prepared, what side dishes would go well with it etc. I can become rather disappointed with a meal that lacks real flavour.

I also believe that I have an oral fixation.

 

[raven2]

Hehe what a great thread! MM.

I also believe that I have an oral fixation.

What a great thing to be fixated on.

 

[cati]

Raven you're so cute...

 

[im_a_voyeur]

I definitely find a direct correlation between this and your flavor of dominance. How absolutely fascinating. And while eating, do you tend to pay more attention to your food or your dining companion?

Hmmm, you'd have to ask Voyeur.

He pays more attention to his food... unless the waitress is hot.