What attracts you?

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To an amateur pic thread?

What piques your interest and keeps you going back?

Are you there just for the pics, or the personality of the poster as well?

Does personality outweigh the pics or vice versa or is it 50/50?

Do you ever take one look and never go back because you don't like the pics and are not interested in taking to the poster because the pics have put you off?

Have you ever lost interest in a thread because there weren't enough pics?

For me, I find confidence (not arrogance) very attractive, that might have something to do with the fact that I like to be dominated. :p
Humour is also a big thing for me.
Posting cock pics straight away is a bit of a turn off for me.

Other things will probably pop in to my head but that's all I can think of for the moment.

Feel free to add your own questions.

It would be great to hear what others are attracted to.
 
Something real

I'm a world of photoshop and digital fakery it is refreshing to see a real person. Young, old, thin, thick it really doesn't matter as much as being real. THAT is what I find the sexiest thing about the AMPIC thread.

One other thing. There is a vulnerability of the "average person" laying it all out there for all of Litland to see. There is a courage there that I admire.
 
I'm a world of photoshop and digital fakery it is refreshing to see a real person. Young, old, thin, thick it really doesn't matter as much as being real. THAT is what I find the sexiest thing about the AMPIC thread.

One other thing. There is a vulnerability of the "average person" laying it all out there for all of Litland to see. There is a courage there that I admire.

I'd like to be able to do some digital fakery on my pics! :D

I agree though, especially the "average person" comment. It is a bit scary putting yourself out there. :)
 
I'd like to be able to do some digital fakery on my pics! :D

I agree though, especially the "average person" comment. It is a bit scary putting yourself out there. :)

I posted three pics in here. (Happy hunting :) ) It was very exciting to hit that send button knowing it was "out there" and it was never coming back. It generated next to no reaction though. I thought I'd get a few PMs...nada!

Such is life.
 
I'd like to be able to do some digital fakery on my pics! :D

I agree though, especially the "average person" comment. It is a bit scary putting yourself out there. :)

You don't need to do any photoshopping to your pictures.

I find the natural look just as attractive as the makeup look, actually the natural look can be a lot more attractive, because you get to see the real person then.
 
I must agree, you have nothing to worry about. Great pics. The pic with hand prints on your ass! Love it! Looks like fun!!! hahaha
 
I posted three pics in here. (Happy hunting :) ) It was very exciting to hit that send button knowing it was "out there" and it was never coming back. It generated next to no reaction though. I thought I'd get a few PMs...nada!

Such is life.

Aww......Post them here. ;)

Men's threads very often get little interest. :( I wouldn't take it personally. :)

You don't need to do any photoshopping to your pictures.

I find the natural look just as attractive as the makeup look, actually the natural look can be a lot more attractive, because you get to see the real person then.

Aww thanks!

I can't really pose as such, what you see is what you yet.

I must agree, you have nothing to worry about. Great pics. The pic with hand prints on your ass! Love it! Looks like fun!!! hahaha

Thanks. :)
 
I like when a man is clearly having fun with his thread. I'm not a fan of cock pics, but when a hint or tease of it is given, I love it.

If it's straight dick pics, I don't go back.

I do admire the men here for having a go at a thread, as its really tough to do with seemingly little reward. So, thank you boys. :)
 
That's a lot of questions, but I'll see if I have an answer for them all.

What attracts you to an amateur pic thread? Usually it's from seeing a person's post on another thread. Whether it is their avi or words that catch my attention. If I see they had a thread, I'll check it out.

What piques your interest and keeps you going back? A persons creativity in their pics definitely draws my attention. That being said, I just enjoy seeing more of people.

Are you there just for the pics, or the personality of the poster as well? Usually a bit of both. I don't often visit a thread just for the pics, I try to at least connect with the poster. That makes things all the more hot.

Does personality outweigh the pics or vice versa or is it 50/50? I think it should be even, I've rarely came across a situation on here where I felt one outweighed the other.

Do you ever take one look and never go back because you don't like the pics and are not interested in taking to the poster because the pics have put you off? I don't know that I've ever been put off by a pic, but I'm a pretty open guy. That being said if I find that a persons pics are not to my taste, I'd probably not go back.

Have you ever lost interest in a thread because there weren't enough pics? Only if I never really hit it off with the poster or we didn't chat much. It's not about the quantity of pics, its about the quality and interactions.
 
I'd say 50/50.


doesn't really matter in the end anyways

Why do you say it doesn't matter? :confused:

Originality and creativity

I agree with that, as an am pic poster though sometimes it's hard to be creative. :D

I like when a man is clearly having fun with his thread. I'm not a fan of cock pics, but when a hint or tease of it is given, I love it.

If it's straight dick pics, I don't go back.

I do admire the men here for having a go at a thread, as its really tough to do with seemingly little reward. So, thank you boys. :)

Totally agree with all that, Sam. :)

That's a lot of questions, but I'll see if I have an answer for them all.

What attracts you to an amateur pic thread? Usually it's from seeing a person's post on another thread. Whether it is their avi or words that catch my attention. If I see they had a thread, I'll check it out.

What piques your interest and keeps you going back? A persons creativity in their pics definitely draws my attention. That being said, I just enjoy seeing more of people.

Are you there just for the pics, or the personality of the poster as well? Usually a bit of both. I don't often visit a thread just for the pics, I try to at least connect with the poster. That makes things all the more hot.

Does personality outweigh the pics or vice versa or is it 50/50? I think it should be even, I've rarely came across a situation on here where I felt one outweighed the other.

Do you ever take one look and never go back because you don't like the pics and are not interested in taking to the poster because the pics have put you off? I don't know that I've ever been put off by a pic, but I'm a pretty open guy. That being said if I find that a persons pics are not to my taste, I'd probably not go back.

Have you ever lost interest in a thread because there weren't enough pics? Only if I never really hit it off with the poster or we didn't chat much. It's not about the quantity of pics, its about the quality and interactions.

Sorry, it was just thoughts that I've had over the years, I'm interested to know others thoughts. :)

Thanks for taking the time to reply, nice to hear your views. :)
 
What attracts you to an amateur pic thread?


Hey me_ (you know what I mean!)

I saw this the other day, and haven't had a chance to post.


What piques your interest and keeps you going back? It's not that much different to real life, but modified to the internet. Physical attraction is the obvious (pic) but a funny post, someone with some sass, or a point of view I agree with or hate will all pique my interest

Are you there just for the pics, or the personality of the poster as well? Again, pics will get me there, but they won't keep me. I like all kinds of different personalities, but not ALL personalities. If you can make me laugh, I'm in. If you're interested in me as much as I'm interested in you, I'm in. If I find you intriguing, I'll generally hang around, but probably lurk.

If you're gorgeous, funny, into me, have a filthy mind and amazing eyes, I have probably already booked a room.


If you're mean, or vain, or needy, I have better ways to spend my time.


Does personality outweigh the pics or vice versa or is it 50/50? Personality wins. I'm happy to hang out with great people who's pics don't do much for me, but not vice versa

Do you ever take one look and never go back because you don't like the pics and are not interested in taking to the poster because the pics have put you off? Yep.

Have you ever lost interest in a thread because there weren't enough pics? I've hung out in lots of threads with few pics for a long time, provided the OP was still posting. Some of them have been great fun. Pics add to that.

Posting cock pics straight away is a bit of a turn off for me. Me too! Just for research purposes, at what stage should I introduce these? :rolleyes:
 
Hey me_ (you know what I mean!)

I saw this the other day, and haven't had a chance to post.


What piques your interest and keeps you going back? It's not that much different to real life, but modified to the internet. Physical attraction is the obvious (pic) but a funny post, someone with some sass, or a point of view I agree with or hate will all pique my interest

Are you there just for the pics, or the personality of the poster as well? Again, pics will get me there, but they won't keep me. I like all kinds of different personalities, but not ALL personalities. If you can make me laugh, I'm in. If you're interested in me as much as I'm interested in you, I'm in. If I find you intriguing, I'll generally hang around, but probably lurk.

If you're gorgeous, funny, into me, have a filthy mind and amazing eyes, I have probably already booked a room.


If you're mean, or vain, or needy, I have better ways to spend my time.


Does personality outweigh the pics or vice versa or is it 50/50? Personality wins. I'm happy to hang out with great people who's pics don't do much for me, but not vice versa

Do you ever take one look and never go back because you don't like the pics and are not interested in taking to the poster because the pics have put you off? Yep.

Have you ever lost interest in a thread because there weren't enough pics? I've hung out in lots of threads with few pics for a long time, provided the OP was still posting. Some of them have been great fun. Pics add to that.

Posting cock pics straight away is a bit of a turn off for me. Me too! Just for research purposes, at what stage should I introduce these? :rolleyes:

I like your honesty. ;)

In answer to the last comment, that depends whether it's on my thread or in my box (pm). :p :cool:
 
i'm talking about years of failed threads.


and other forums where I've been lead on to the extreme and then cast aside.
 
To an amateur pic thread?

What piques your interest and keeps you going back?

Are you there just for the pics, or the personality of the poster as well?

Does personality outweigh the pics or vice versa or is it 50/50?

Do you ever take one look and never go back because you don't like the pics and are not interested in taking to the poster because the pics have put you off?

Have you ever lost interest in a thread because there weren't enough pics?

For me, I find confidence (not arrogance) very attractive, that might have something to do with the fact that I like to be dominated. :p
Humour is also a big thing for me.
Posting cock pics straight away is a bit of a turn off for me.

Other things will probably pop in to my head but that's all I can think of for the moment.

Feel free to add your own questions.

It would be great to hear what others are attracted to.

You had me at "piques." :rose: So many people don't know that word but think they do.

I'm probably not your target demographic, so to speak, as I am not a regular in the AmPics forum. However, I'm glad to answer your questions based on my experience.

I think that generosity is the best answer to your first few questions. It's pretty easy to spot threads that are really more about teasing out compliments than they are about sharing oneself through pictures. I don't mind at all when a woman chooses to not show her face - after all, most of us here maintain a certain amount of anonymity and pictures leave one very vulnerable - but that's just a realistic and probably honest response to a desire for some degree of anonymity blended with a desire to be on exhibition.

If there's a second characteristic that causes me to click back out of a pic thread quickly, it's when the thread starter shows none of her personality in non-picture posts. I do enjoy humor, so any decent (or indecent) attempt at humor gets some of my votes. I much prefer people who can laugh at themselves.

ETA: I should add that while I appreciate beauty, youth and good looks are not an expectation for me.
 
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Hey Me!

Newbie Alert!!..... been lurking initially but I find I'm drawn to the am pics where the lady has a bit of personality in her posts ,

Enjoys and comments returned on feedback , also helps when pleasing on the eye and the beauty of humans are that we're all attracted to different types so its all good.

:devil:
 
i'm talking about years of failed threads.


and other forums where I've been lead on to the extreme and then cast aside.

Men's threads are really hard to keep going, you're not the first to make that comment.

Sorry, that's not nice. :(

You had me at "piques." :rose: So many people don't know that word but think they do.

I'm probably not your target demographic, so to speak, as I am not a regular in the AmPics forum. However, I'm glad to answer your questions based on my experience.

I think that generosity is the best answer to your first few questions. It's pretty easy to spot threads that are really more about teasing out compliments than they are about sharing oneself through pictures. I don't mind at all when a woman chooses to not show her face - after all, most of us here maintain a certain amount of anonymity and pictures leave one very vulnerable - but that's just a realistic and probably honest response to a desire for some degree of anonymity blended with a desire to be on exhibition.

If there's a second characteristic that causes me to click back out of a pic thread quickly, it's when the thread starter shows none of her personality in non-picture posts. I do enjoy humor, so any decent (or indecent) attempt at humor gets some of my votes. I much prefer people who can laugh at themselves.

ETA: I should add that while I appreciate beauty, youth and good looks are not an expectation for me.

Well thank you. :)

I'm probably guilty of that then as I tend to spread my pictures out. :eek:

I love humour, when the comments are in the right context.
 
Hey Me!

Newbie Alert!!..... been lurking initially but I find I'm drawn to the am pics where the lady has a bit of personality in her posts ,

Enjoys and comments returned on feedback , also helps when pleasing on the eye and the beauty of humans are that we're all attracted to different types so its all good.

:devil:

Hello, newbie. :D

I agree with all that.
 
its all in the mind for me....the personality of the poster
 
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