What are your love languages?

[FurryFury]

Take the test and post the results! Or not. As you wish.

My results are:

Quality Time 37%
Physical Touch 27%
Words of Affirmation 23%
Acts of Service 7%
Receiving Gifts 7%

 

[ImOnIt]

Give us the link to your test and I'll consider it.

 

[FurryFury]

Doh! I'm must be brain dead today.

Sorry. Here it is:

http://www.afo.net/hftw-lovetest.asp

 

[ImOnIt]

Quality Time 40%
Physical Touch 20%
Words of Affirmation 13%
Acts of Service 27%
Receiving Gifts 0%

I would swiftly get pissed with someone expecting constant gifts.

 

[FurryFury]

Do you think this accurately represents what you want or need to feel loved?

 

[sb2009]

I know without the test...physical touch and words of affirmation.

My PYLs - acts of service and quality time.

 

[wicked woman]

I didn't need the test either, but just to humour you....


17% Words of Affirmation
40% Quality Time
0% Receiving Gifts
13% Acts of Service
30% Physical Touch


Yes definitely quality time and physical touch has 'me' written all over it.

 

[ImOnIt]

Do you think this accurately represents what you want or need to feel loved?

Definitely. Gifts are fine and all, but they don't speak to me. L likes gifts... she is putting food in a big box for when I can stomach them. One each day. I like the text message or phonecall telling me what is in my box far more than soy milk or green thai curry ingredients.

I don't need to be touched constantly, and I prefer criticism to affirmation.

Time and service matter to me. We had japanese the other night, and I noticed every time that L filled my tea. It is a most endearing habit


Quality Time 40%
Physical Touch 20%
Words of Affirmation 13%
Acts of Service 27%
Receiving Gifts 0%

 

[FloggingMolly]

mine his

Physical Touch 33% 37
Acts of Service 23% 23
Quality Time 23% 23
Words of Affirmation 17% 17
Receiving Gifts 3% 0


That's pretty cool

 

[sereneone4u]

Percent Language Score
37%
Words of Affirmation 11
27%
Quality Time
8
0%
Receiving Gifts
23%
Acts of Service 7
13%
Physical Touch 4
How to Interpret Your Profile Score

 

[PrimoTat]

My results are:

Quality Time 33%
Physical Touch 27%
Words of Affirmation 27%
Acts of Service 10%
Receiving Gifts 3%

Do you think this accurately represents what you want or need to feel loved?

No, it is too general.

 

[sereneone4u]

Percent
Words of Affirmation 11
27%
Quality Time
8
0%
Receiving Gifts
23%
Acts of Service 7
13%
Physical Touch 4
How to Interpret Your Profile Score

I pretty much agree. Words of Affirmation is important to me. Acts of Service would be a close second, I want action to back up those words, lol. Thirdly, Physical Touch, I love to be touched

So those would be my top three

 

[Kitty_Schrödinger]

Physical Touch 37% 11
Acts of Service 23% 7
Quality Time 30% 9
Words of Affirmation 10% 3
Receiving Gifts 0% 0

It's interesting.

 

[WriterDom]

Your results:

I'm sorry but you didn't complete the test. If you are a guy this probably means you are not gay.

 

[ImOnIt]

Your results:

I'm sorry but you didn't complete the test. If you are a guy this probably means you are not gay.

Aren't we an abrasive old perv this evening.

The actual error message for incomplete fields is

Microsoft VBScript runtime error '800a0006'

Overflow line 64

 

[Bandit58]

Physical Touch 40% 12
Words of Affirmation 27% 8
Quality Time 23% 7
Acts of Service 10% 3
Receiving Gifts 0%

In my first marriage touch was often the prelude to unwanted sex, so I didn't do it. With Sir touch doesn't necessarily lead to sex, so I do it much more often I'm probably overdoing it although He would say not

For me gifts aren't necessary to show love. I'd rather have a kiss or cuddle! I'm surprised though by the low score for acts of service, but the questions seemed more aligned to Him showing acts of service to ME, which just seems so wrong....

 

[wicked woman]

Physical Touch 40% 12
Words of Affirmation 27% 8
Quality Time 23% 7
Acts of Service 10% 3
Receiving Gifts 0%

In my first marriage touch was often the prelude to unwanted sex, so I didn't do it. With Sir touch doesn't necessarily lead to sex, so I do it much more often I'm probably overdoing it although He would say not

For me gifts aren't necessary to show love. I'd rather have a kiss or cuddle! I'm surprised though by the low score for acts of service, but the questions seemed more aligned to Him showing acts of service to ME, which just seems so wrong....

Bandit your last comment (that I've bolded) is an important part of the love languages in that they can be different for different people. The test was testing what your love language is...so the ways you like to be shown that you're loved, hence why the questions are geared to what you like to receive.

The book makes a point that the person we love may not have the same love language so if we show our love in our love language, the person we love may not feel loved if it's not their love language. Kind of like you speak English only and he speaks Russian only....how do you communicate? We need to show our love in their love language.

 

[KoPilot]

Hmm!

27% Quality Time
20% Words of Affirmation
23% Acts of Service
17% Receiving Gifts
13% Physical Touch

I wonder how much of this is skewed because I'm in an LDR? I should take the test again after moving in with him..

 

[FurryFury]

I'd sort of expect PYL's to have more acts of service in general?

Also, I'd sort of expect more males to find touch to be very important?

Maybe we should start some polls!

 

[NomadLady]

13% Words of Affirmation
27% Quality Time
3% Receiving Gifts
33% Acts of Service
23% Physical Touch

I think these results may be a little "skewed" because of my situation being a caregiver for an elderly parent and I'm much more attuned to someones "acts of service" in helping me do things right now....no matter how small the task.
Not getting much help from siblings is a bitch!!!!

 

[the captians wench]

Test Results:

Percent Language Score
23%
Words of Affirmation 7
30%
Quality Time 9
3%
Receiving Gifts 1
7%
Acts of Service 2
37%
Physical Touch 11

I think I "speak" a different language when I give than when I recieve. I knew recieving would be touch and quality time (attention whore), but I show my love with acts of service and giving gifts. It's interesting to see that those are the two lowest scores for recieving.

 

[midwestyankee]

Putting in a word for the not-gay men:

Quality time - 33%
Physical touch - 30%
Acts of service - 20%
Words of affirmation - 13%
Receiving gifts - 3%

I was familiar with the book but found the results of this, taken a year or more after reading the book, to be pretty accurate. In other words, to love me, spend lots of time with me, preferably fucking and sucking.

 

[FurryFury]

13% Words of Affirmation
27% Quality Time
3% Receiving Gifts
33% Acts of Service
23% Physical Touch

I think these results may be a little "skewed" because of my situation being a caregiver for an elderly parent and I'm much more attuned to someones "acts of service" in helping me do things right now....no matter how small the task.
Not getting much help from siblings is a bitch!!!!

That makes perfect sense to me.

*HUG*

FF

 

[CutieMouse]

Words of Affirmation 23%
Quality Time 30%
Receiving Gifts 3%
Acts of Service 13%
Physical Touch 30%

So I'm apparently "bi-lingual" in that I need quality time as much as touch.

 

[midwestyankee]

Words of Affirmation 23%
Quality Time 30%
Receiving Gifts 3%
Acts of Service 13%
Physical Touch 30%

So I'm apparently "bi-lingual" in that I need quality time as much as touch.

I know whereof you speak.