What Are You Thinking? Continued 4

[JerseyJade]

ShyNaughtyGirl I’m gonna jump on in here and ask you what it is I’ve ever done to you, if anything, or do you just enjoy being rude to me for no apparent reason? OR am I just reading into something incorrectly?
The other day you posted after me and typed, “hard no.” Is that just because I’m a chick or is it because you actually don’t like me?

...inquiring minds want to know

AND if I did read into that incorrectly I will offer up a sincere apology.

For what it's worth, Shi... I like you.

 

[JennyNo1]

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[Shi_One81]

It was just my response to the question of the thread. Nothing personal

I’ve answered similarly for men on the thread as well, it was just a pass


But since today seems to be let’s all read way too much into everything SNG postS day, I’m sure it’s not going to be believed no matter what I say

I honestly wanted to know if it was because I’d done something to you. I apologize for reading into it.

 

[Shi_One81]

For what it's worth, Shi... I like you.

Thanks, I like you too.

 

[mnbreastluver]

Why is that everyone just can’t get along?

 

[LurkingLazarus]

Pmann,

I said what I said because this isn't the first instance of you personally attacking someone for no better reason than your own entertainment/amusement/personal brand of fuckery. The fact that this time it's someone I happen to like is just an irritant...it does not change my opinion of your bullshit.

And that "harem" crack is another example of my original point. Everything with you has to contain a personal jibe.

So find a bridge big enough for your inflated sense-of-self to fit under, and sit under it until it rots and falls on your damned head, troll.

 

[TongueLust]

That I need to reconsider moving back to NY... damn heat.

 

[Lord Pmann]

SNG made an observational comment which had nothing to do with anyone here on Lit. Turning that into a PC takedown was you slapping her for commenting on what she was thinking.

So because it was no one here, the comment about leather skin and a wig was cool? Is that the argument you’re making?

And did someone really call me PC?

For what it’s worth, I recall you giving me shit for posting what I was thinking about two weeks back.

I’m really concerned that you may have some mental deficiency because I don’t know how many times it’s been said that the word/label “little” does NOT equate to age regression

Seriously, why is this one thing so hard for you to grasp in your pea sized brain?

Why is it hard to grasp? Because every time you explained what being a little is, you just explained acting like a child. It is why no one else understood it either.

Pmann,

I said what I said because this isn't the first instance of you personally attacking someone for no better reason than your own entertainment/amusement/personal brand of fuckery. The fact that this time it's someone I happen to like is just an irritant...it does not change my opinion of your bullshit.

And that "harem" crack is another example of my original point. Everything with you has to contain a personal jibe.

So find a bridge big enough for your inflated sense-of-self to fit under, and sit under it until it rots and falls on your damned head, troll.

She posted something about someone wearing a wig and having leather skin. Literally making fun of a woman for her looks. Now, do I really give a blue fuck about that? Not really. She can make fun of whomever she chooses. I think people have thin skin here.

But a couple of things... one, you have to be daft to believe her explanation. Two, her explanation makes me laugh even harder, given the previous debate we have had.

The truth is, SNG does this often. She posts passive aggressive comments. Then when someone calls her on it, as Fara did, she’s like, “Oh it’s fine, I just vocalized my bitchiness this time.” Or “Move along, nothing to see here.” Yet when other people make observations about her, she can’t handle it, throws her victim card down and waits for her white knights to come hither.

I do remember you now. You’re a bright and well-written guy. But the likelihood of you being remotely objective about her is pretty slim, yo. Boobs are a hell of a drug. You’re sharp and I’ve actually had a nice discussion with you before. I can respect your disdain for my approach. I realize not everyone likes my style. But based on the PMs I have gotten saying “thanks for saying something to her”, you’re not in an overwhelming majority.

This one actually hit home to me because a personal friend of mine has lost hair to having chemo. And wearing a wig is an option for them.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Eighteen years ago, 3000 people were spending their last night with their families.

Saw this on FB...think about it.

 

[SassySheDevil]

This place has been so hostile lately. I think everyone needs some good angry sex in their life!!

Shy is not wrong. Everyone judges. Even if we know it's cruel and don't want to be judged ourselves. It is often when we are feeling low, insecure or envious. (or just an asshole)

Fara is not without judgement- She judges like we all do. We just used to do it silently together because we were feeling insecure, or envious (like stated above) She, like many has done it publicly also. Women can be especially cruel at times.

WE ALL FUCKING DO IT! Does it make us assholes. Yes! Insecure, assholes!!

Pmann can be a douche. He's the only one who doesn't like to admit that, Or fails to see it. Maybe I have a soft spot for him because he reminds me of the best friend I had w o wont talk to me any longer. Loud, obnoxious, has no filter and never sugar coats anything. He said things I often wished I could (maybe only with a nicer filter)

But.. He's also not wrong though. when you filter the fuck out of your pics (and yes, I've done it too, and am trying not to, besides silly snapchats) you can't get upset when people call you out for not being real. He's direct and forward and says things we know others have thought. Or we have thought. I just don't say shit, cause I'm that sensitive flower that would cry if he attacked me.


That being said. We all have faults. We all have flaws. We're all assholes at times. Putting others down to make yourself feel better, is only a temp fix. In the end it doesn't work.

 

[hairball18]

This place has been so hostile lately. I think everyone needs some good angry sex in their life!!

Shy is not wrong. Everyone judges. Even if we know it's cruel and don't want to be judged ourselves. It is often when we are feeling low, insecure or envious. (or just an asshole)

Fara is not without judgement- She judges like we all do. We just used to do it silently together because we were feeling insecure, or envious (like stated above) She, like many has done it publicly also. Women can be especially cruel at times.

WE ALL FUCKING DO IT! Does it make us assholes. Yes! Insecure, assholes!!

Pmann can be a douche. He's the only one who doesn't like to admit that, Or fails to see it. Maybe I have a soft spot for him because he reminds me of the best friend I had w o wont talk to me any longer. Loud, obnoxious, has no filter and never sugar coats anything. He said things I often wished I could (maybe only with a nicer filter)

But.. He's also not wrong though. when you filter the fuck out of your pics (and yes, I've done it too, and am trying not to, besides silly snapchats) you can't get upset when people call you out for not being real. He's direct and forward and says things we know others have thought. Or we have thought. I just don't say shit, cause I'm that sensitive flower that would cry if he attacked me.


That being said. We all have faults. We all have flaws. We're all assholes at times. Putting others down to make yourself feel better, is only a temp fix. In the end it doesn't work.

Now you are assuming I have a fault, which we all know is not true. I never saw the appeal of putting someone down.

 

[JennyNo1]

Eighteen years ago, 3000 people were spending their last night with their families.

Saw this on FB...think about it.

That is a stunning realization, profoundly sad.

Kind of puts all this other shit in perspective.

 

[AlwaysFara]

^^^ Hey now! You guys keep your mean girl shit in PMs please.
I’m calling Fara to regulate shit, and if she’s busy - boy oh boy, I’m gonna get ugly on your asses. You’re gonna beg for Fara.

Ha. I love you.

I’m not going to regulate anyone.

I started this. I called out SNG for being bitchy about that woman’s looks, which is the lowest common denominator, in my book.
If you don’t like someone because of their personality, humor, approach, ethics, I get that.
But... for another woman to PUBLICLY call out a woman on her looks?
Yech.

I’ve been vocal about this in the past. It grinds my gears, and when I read that, being mad/sad about it was truly “what I was thinking...”

SNG took exception to my response, and admitted she was bitchy, to which I replied, “Noted.”
I agree with her.

Hold onto your hooters and balls, I also agree with Pmann.
It doesn’t matter if the woman wasn’t here, on Lit. I, too, think she is, but if SNG says she’s not, who am I to argue?

Bashing women’s looks and making judgments on each other based on that is a huge pet peeve of mine. Always has been, always will. If you want the unfiltered truth, we women are our own worst enemies.
I will make judgements on your personalities, though, and you can judge all you want on mine.
Ask me if I care.

So, Far will be doing no smack downs.
But, Naughty Wife can smack my ass anytime she wants.

 

[Lord Pmann]

This place has been so hostile lately. I think everyone needs some good angry sex in their life!!

Shy is not wrong. Everyone judges. Even if we know it's cruel and don't want to be judged ourselves. It is often when we are feeling low, insecure or envious. (or just an asshole)

Fara is not without judgement- She judges like we all do. We just used to do it silently together because we were feeling insecure, or envious (like stated above) She, like many has done it publicly also. Women can be especially cruel at times.

WE ALL FUCKING DO IT! Does it make us assholes. Yes! Insecure, assholes!!

Pmann can be a douche. He's the only one who doesn't like to admit that, Or fails to see it. Maybe I have a soft spot for him because he reminds me of the best friend I had w o wont talk to me any longer. Loud, obnoxious, has no filter and never sugar coats anything. He said things I often wished I could (maybe only with a nicer filter)

But.. He's also not wrong though. when you filter the fuck out of your pics (and yes, I've done it too, and am trying not to, besides silly snapchats) you can't get upset when people call you out for not being real. He's direct and forward and says things we know others have thought. Or we have thought. I just don't say shit, cause I'm that sensitive flower that would cry if he attacked me.


That being said. We all have faults. We all have flaws. We're all assholes at times. Putting others down to make yourself feel better, is only a temp fix. In the end it doesn't work.

I’ve never denied I can be a douche. Not at all. Do you think I really don’t know that I can be an ass? Of course. I’m not loud though. I’m actually quite refined, like a fine wine. And I am self aware, despite what many would think.

But what I’ll say is this... while I am an ass, you at least know where I stand. I don’t sugar coat shit. I don’t pretend to be your friend to your face then talk shit about you elsewhere. And I can’t tell you how many times I’ve gotten messages from people who say, “I wish I had the balls to say that.” Well, I have big balls. Thanks elephantiasis.

The list of people I “attack” is pretty small. I don’t pick on defenseless kittens. I don’t ever pick on people for how they look. Maybe if someone were wearing Crocs. But that’s just begging for it, no? If I’m going to make fun of someone, it’s going to be for them acting like an idiot. I mean, I’m ugly as hell. I could make a buzzard fall off a shit wagon.

I am not making fun of SNG’s appearance. At all. But she’s bagging on someone for being a leather face. Well, pretty easy to say when you filter the hell out of your pics. The tit pics probably have nipples that look like pink dolphin skin. Smooth as glass. But fuck me... I’m also not naive enough to believe her bullshit story. Nor are any of you- excluding those who aren’t e-fucking her.

Can I be an asshole? Yes. Should I be less of one? Probably. But Sassy is one of only a few who is actually brave enough to admit you’ve all said the same shit.

Now you are assuming I have a fault, which we all know is not true.

I like the cut of your jig.

 

[Sexybritches69]

Eighteen years ago, 3000 people were spending their last night with their families.

Saw this on FB...think about it.

This knocked the wind out of me. Someone close to me.

It really does put so much into perspective.

 

[barefootgirl69]

That is a stunning realization, profoundly sad.

Kind of puts all this other shit in perspective.

This knocked the wind out of me. Someone close to me.

It really does put so much into perspective.

I've spent the last week knowing this day is coming, knowing I'll fall apart as I do every year. Remembering that morning call. But, this is the first time I saw it from THAT perspective.

 

[Sexybritches69]

I've spent the last week knowing this day is coming, knowing I'll fall apart as I do every year. Remembering that morning call. But, this is the first time I saw it from THAT perspective.

Sending you a hug. . I remember like it was yesterday.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Sending you a hug. . I remember like it was yesterday.

Me too.

 

[beachbaby179]

Me three. Too many damn funerals. That whole next month was a blur. But the 12th... the 12th is what I try to focus on. People lining up to give blood. Feeding the first responders. Flying flags. Helping. Like Mr. Rogers used to say...look for the helpers.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Me three. Too many damn funerals. That whole next month was a blur. But the 12th... the 12th is what I try to focus on. People lining up to give blood. Feeding the first responders. Flying flags. Helping. Like Mr. Rogers used to say...look for the helpers.

Thank you for that reminder

 

[neverno1]

Me three. Too many damn funerals. That whole next month was a blur. But the 12th... the 12th is what I try to focus on. People lining up to give blood. Feeding the first responders. Flying flags. Helping. Like Mr. Rogers used to say...look for the helpers.

I remember it all... how can we ever forget? Bless all of those souls who were lost and first responders who ran toward the burning buildings. The nation came together forgetting about our trivial complaints and BS and focused on humanity and community. Yes, I knew people in the Towers. I’ll never forget the two sided coin of tragic hate and unselfish love.

 

[JerseyJade]

I have a feeling that once Cyberpunk 2077 comes out, I won't be able to get my Boo away from his PlayStation.

 

[cole4258]

Thinking I have no clue what Cyberpunk is. Sure thats not the name of a band???

 

[PlNKbits]

A new guy opened up a shop in town. (My town is tiny, this is big news!)

It's a tattoo studio, barber shop,hair salon and beauty salon in one.
I think he's on to a winner already booked myself in!

 

[smtst5]

Full moon on Friday the 13th. That explains a lot!