What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

I went down a Reddit hole figuring that one out, I didn’t see any super expensive one and if it brings you joy then that’s what really matters 😄
It wasn't particularly expensive, it's more that I'm thinking ahead to future purchases adding up with that rationale. No one can talk me into stupid choices quite like me lol.
...looking left and right...

Fine. I'll do it.

Thank you for stepping up 🫡
 
It really just depends on the person I guess, all silly jokes aside on my part.

I work pretty closely with an engineer who is 91. He does micro-circuit design in Cad and Visio. He shows up every day at 7, leaves at 3 and is sharp as a tac. He's brilliant.

He runs a farm alone, hunts alone.
His wife passed 20 years back and he's nothing else to do.

Dude's my fucking hero.


You just drew the short straw, Auntie.
He sounds awesome! But I would surely not like to be around when he’s hunting.
 
Why is it after a horrible nights sleep and feeling like trash all day I now cannot sleep?
 
I don't know how to fix me. I feel like I try my best but somehow it isn't enough.

What is the fucking point?
Sometimes the problem is that you don't need to fix yourself, you just need to change the people around you and let in someone new to help you change your perspective, to help you feel as special as you truly are.
 
I’m thinking I’m not connecting with enough quality communicators. LOL. I know it’s the wild west here and we all have to kind of weed through messages and just hope you click with someone. But I get discouraged easily. Not trying to be thirsty for messages, this is not that. Just a little frustrated. I try to be clear in my first reply what I am looking for, my boundaries, and what I am willing to do within a role play scenario. I would say 90% of the people I get a positive response to that end up crossing lines (nothing egregious) within the first 20 minutes of horny chatting. And I get it, I know it’s a numbers game. I am just wondering if there’s anything more I can do in order to get that 90% to just like 70% lol. Thanks for reading. I just needed to vent a little.
 
You know when you don't know what you need, but you know you need something? Or like, you know you are feeling things strongly, but you don't know what triggered it nor can you put into words what those feelings are exactly? Or like, you want to be doing something productive because you know you will feel that much better by getting something done, but you freeze up at deciding what to do and nothing gets done?

That's all. Not important. Just rambling.
 
You know when you don't know what you need, but you know you need something? Or like, you know you are feeling things strongly, but you don't know what triggered it nor can you put into words what those feelings are exactly? Or like, you want to be doing something productive because you know you will feel that much better by getting something done, but you freeze up at deciding what to do and nothing gets done?

That's all. Not important. Just rambling.
Ya know how pulling the trigger decides the argument about what to aim at? The decision to sink or swim is more clear after jumping into the water?
 
Ya know how pulling the trigger decides the argument about what to aim at? The decision to sink or swim is more clear after jumping into the water?
Bringing logic to my ramble *grumbles* yes, those are very good points... just jump in and start swimming...
 
Is being told you’re book pretty (pretty in a bookish way) a compliment or a back handed compliment? (No one said this to me it’s a description of a girl in a book).
 
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Is being told you’re pretty a compliment or a back handed compliment? (No one said this to me it’s a description of a girl in a book).
I can only speak for myself and the times when I have offered it.

From me, it's always been meant as a compliment.

If I've said it, I meant it ...just as I said it.

With no ulterior motive, other than to try to show some appreciation of perceived beauty in face or person.

Can't speak for what you are reading though.

👍
 
Only backhanded if qualified by something else like....
Ex
Pretty for her age
She may be fat/skinny/tall/short but she's pretty
Or she's pretty but _____
I can only speak for myself and the times when I have offered it.

From me, it's always been meant as a compliment.

If I've said it, I meant it ...just as I said it.

With no ulterior motive, other than to try to show some appreciation of perceived beauty in face or person.

Can't speak for what you are reading though.

👍
Apologies guys I was in a hurry and in my rush I left out some important words. I have edited my post to correct it.
 
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