What are you searching for

[MidnightDesire]

Another thread for people to post their asl? No no no, not on this thread.
Admittedly this thread is inspired by another post, but it is something I feel is lacking in Lit forum. Throughout the site I have seen many posts from people searching for someone, but really only specifying that they are looking for the opposite sex in a vague age range. I admit that I have been guilty of this as well, but this is not what this thread is for.
What I was hoping for is that people will use this space to specify exactly the kind of person they are looking for.
So here's what I have in mind. Give us a brief description of yourself, then specify five things you are looking for.
Not looking for any one line responses, and I was thinking as punishment to this we could have the exact opposite of whatever they are looking for only respond. We then the risk of guys saying they are looking for old, ugly men and are punished with young, hot girls. So that plan has its flaws.
I can't promise you won't still be hounded by the same old types, or that you wont be plauged by pm's from people who loosely meet one criteria and assume you are the one, but it may slightly increase your odds of meeting someone that makes you happy, and isn't that what we are looking for.

 

[MidnightDesire]

So I should probably get the ball rolling myself.

My name is Tyler and I am 24 from Australia. I work as graphic designer but am considering a change is needed. I'm not overly dom or sub, I prefer to have fun with both.
What I am searching for:

Detail. I am not a hit it and quit it kind of guy. I prefer the slow build, building the tension so that the final payoff is all the more gratifying. I don't really want a partner who responds to everything with "mmm fuk me".

Imagination. Keep us guessing what will come next. Fuck routines, there is nothing exciting about the same scene, the same build up, the same moves every time.

Variety. Closely related to the last point, but some times I want to seduce, some times I want to be a sub, some times I need a quiet type, other times I want the exact opposite to all of this. I have few limits, and I want to explore them all.

Openness. I don't really have a prerequisite with age or looks, they don't matter to much to me, especially on here. On here the mind matters most. In saying that, I want someone who is confident in themselves. Be who you are and own it, I am not wanting someone that holds back.

Give me something other than sex. Can we talk about things other than sex every now and then?

A few other loose things I'm into that aren't needed at all, but would be appreciated: ink and art, I keep fit and would like someone who could keep up, an understanding that I won't be around 24/7, real world gets in that way.

Thanks for reading everyone

 

[MidnightDesire]

Well this crashed before it even left the runway

 

[barefootgirl69]

Crashing

That's too bad, too. I was enjoying what you were saying, especially

"Give me something other than sex. Can we talk about things other than sex every now and then?"

It's not too much to ask. Nothing is more boring than routine. Intelligent conversation is always welcome.

 

[Conager]

That's too bad, too. I was enjoying what you were saying, especially

"Give me something other than sex. Can we talk about things other than sex every now and then?"

It's not too much to ask. Nothing is more boring than routine. Intelligent conversation is always welcome.

The problem is intelligent conversation is only available from intelligent people. People get disappointed with conversations (which around here, by design, touch on sexual themes) and assume that the boorishly applied sexual content is the problem.

Conversations tinged with, or wholly about sex, between intelligent people can still be intelligent conversations.

If one (or heaven forfend both) of the parties is of average to less than average intelligence, removing sex from the conversation will not raise the caliber of the discussion. You can't discuss making a silk purse out of a sow's ear with a dullard.

As for me:

"You will have to come back later; we don't open for the 'no sexos' until 9:00am." Jack Nicholson in "As Good as it Gets"