What Are You Nosey About Today?? šŸ¦

I am nosey about why some people don't like me.
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and..NOOOOO I am not looking for a hug fest or anything. But really, I think most people who are here know the people who don't like them. Sometimes it's blatant. Just curious.

I know why some people don't like me, but I could never think of why anyone would not like you. All you do is have fun. No drama just fun. I know I like you.
 
I am nosey about why some people don't like me.
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and..NOOOOO I am not looking for a hug fest or anything. But really, I think most people who are here know the people who don't like them. Sometimes it's blatant. Just curious.
I can’t imagine why anybody wouldn’t like you but then there are some strange folk out there!

It might be that they don’t dislike you but can’t ā€œwarmā€ to you or they feel intimidated because you are a confident, big personality. You have a great sense of humour but it might not be everybody’s cup of tea. Anyway the more people that dislike you means the less people messaging you and the more time you can spend chatting with those who love ya ā¤ļø
 
aww shucks. thanks guys and gals.
that is so kind of you.

also, Sassy was right.
talking to them was a good idea. funny how we assume things. and i for one can confidently say my assumption made a right ass of myself.

2 thumbs up. highly recommend.
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Great suggestion!!
Communication would resolve a lot of problems in the world
And… I like you, but I get how one bad apple actually does ruin what is good about many others
 
I’m curious if whichever family member stopped by the house today heard me masturbating & that’s why they didn’t let me know they were there :eek:
 
Picking up a bit off Amy's...

I'm curious what you use to form an opinion about someone on Lit. How easily is that opinion changed?
 
Picking up a bit off Amy's...

I'm curious what you use to form an opinion about someone on Lit. How easily is that opinion changed?

I always think good (and sometimes naughty) things when I first meet someone here.
The usual trust is there, with safety in mind.
usually a friendly relationship of sorts can form. Sometimes I go deeper. (non-sexual of course)
the trust ends when it is broken.
And if there is no trust, well...


I do form characterizations in my head of others by their interactions in public, their posting, their conversations, their fun/playfulness/etc.
Its not an opinion per se. more of an image or persona of that litster.
It gives me a visual of their personality.
My opinion is usually formed after getting to know someone.
 
For me people are usually just in a neutral place until we interact in a positive way. Then I can say I like them. Or the opposite. But honestly there aren't really many people I don't like.

Summerstar , that’s a interesting lit she shed owner. Am I right
 
Picking up a bit off Amy's...

I'm curious what you use to form an opinion about someone on Lit. How easily is that opinion changed?

I go with my personal interactions with them. How they are with others is probably down to the relationship they have with them, so I don't base too much on that.

I do what Amy said and get a pic in my head of what I think they look and sound like. Then when I hear or see them I'm usually astounded by how crap I am at guessing!

My opinion can be changed to an extent. But I tend to also trust my gut.
 
Wondering what the fuck happened down the hallway from me today. Dude in another apartment was served a warrant, I was on a call when this kid started screaming. What did he do??

In the thread context that’s a Rad post dude. Now I’m curious to. By kid you mean the person getting served the warrant. A gen x or milli vanilli age
 
Picking up a bit off Amy's...

I'm curious what you use to form an opinion about someone on Lit. How easily is that opinion changed?

Their actions. What they say. If I am wrong...I will see it with time. But I am seldom ever wrong. Usually...they are worse than I initially thought.

I also look at who they interact with. Apples don't fall from the tree.
 
Posting history can give some idea about who you think it’d be nice to talk to, but you never really know about someone till you actually talk to them. That has gone both ways as to whether the person was what I expected. I will talk to pretty much anyone at least once
 
Posting history can give some idea about who you think it’d be nice to talk to, but you never really know about someone till you actually talk to them. That has gone both ways as to whether the person was what I expected. I will talk to pretty much anyone at least once

True that , sunshine , true that
 
Being that I am midlife/midseparation right now, I cannot tell that age/generation this individual fell under. However, based on his mommy-save-me-like cries I’m going with early 20s. Since I was in the middle of a work call I did not stick around to find out the deal. I’ll have to check with the building staff next week to see what happened. But if someone was being served I imagine he was a naughty boy. Was not expecting that here

That’s gross 🤮 the term naughty boy , unless that is a English term , here it means the word choice of birds. Woman use that word. To describe a Englishman in context.

A bloke would use that word like a naughty boy got caught stealing or something along those lines.

Here it means a creeper , sicko , flag and report. Unless I’m outta touch not woke about it as they say.

See what I mean , not trying to be rude at all. I’m glad I caught your post. Keep posting, there’s a lid for every pot , some bird might be right where you are at now.

You can’t win if you don’t play.
 
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I’m nosey if anyone’s up for a quick stupid Skype voicechat with a random stranger (me) while I run or walk? I’m up for it, why not, shoot me a PM.

Nothing saucy you perves.

Is it perves? Or pervs?
 
I’m nosey if anyone’s up for a quick stupid Skype voicechat with a random stranger (me) while I run or walk? I’m up for it, why not, shoot me a PM.

Nothing saucy you perves.

I'm nosey about how one might fain an invitation to talk to Rainshine. Maybe about good books. Or tea. Baked goods perhaps.
 
I’m cleaning my house now. But maybe we could make this Run with Rain. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜Ž. What a treat that would be, y’all get to hear me have a coronary as I pretend I’m made for land based exercise and attempt not to die in your ear holes on the daily.

If you breathe heavily, the results might be not what you expect. But Post it and they shall come.
 
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