What are you looking for here, and what have you found?

quietlylooking

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I'm curious about all of you here on Lit!

Specifically, did you join Lit with the intent of meeting "someone"? And if so, who were you seeking? A quick hook-up(s)? A life partner? Friends with benefits?

And having joined Lit, who have you met? Have you been surprised, charmed, shocked, educated, changed? Have you formed long-lasting relationships? Virtual marriages? People that are now part of your non-virtual life?

My initial reason to join Lit last summer was to try writing erotica, perhaps collaborative story writing. I ended up meeting someone here very early on who has become a very important part of my life, which is something I had not imagined would happen to me. It has been (to sound like a bad reality TV show) an amazing and wonderful journey that has brightened my world.

(And I've also met a number of other very interesting men with whom my Lit lover kindly allows me to interact).
 
I'm curious about all of you here on Lit!

Specifically, did you join Lit with the intent of meeting "someone"? And if so, who were you seeking? A quick hook-up(s)? A life partner? Friends with benefits?

And having joined Lit, who have you met? Have you been surprised, charmed, shocked, educated, changed? Have you formed long-lasting relationships? Virtual marriages? People that are now part of your non-virtual life?

My initial reason to join Lit last summer was to try writing erotica, perhaps collaborative story writing. I ended up meeting someone here very early on who has become a very important part of my life, which is something I had not imagined would happen to me. It has been (to sound like a bad reality TV show) an amazing and wonderful journey that has brightened my world.

(And I've also met a number of other very interesting men with whom my Lit lover kindly allows me to interact).

Hi there QL.

I guess I'll take the plunge first (gulp!).

I'm a very happily married man in all respects but one. For that I come here (no pun intended).

I first joined for the stories. And didn't even enter the forums for ages and ages. Then someone absolutely beautiful, sexy and stunning as a person and who used to post her photos elsewhere, moved here and so I followed her thread. After a while, curiosity got the better of me and I started looking around more and more, eventually even posting a message here or there.

So clearly I didn't join to meet anyone or to hook up with anyone in real life - and I never will - however I have virtually 'met' some really nice people, and made friends - some with benefits and some without, some with whom I have gone on to chat with on YM.

I have learned from some, I have been turned on by some and surprised, charmed, shocked, educated and probably changed by all of them.

I like to think of it as exploring; I don't know where I'm going or what !'ll find there - but I just hope to enjoy the journey.



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I'm looking for cake.


All I ever find is pie...........and some cookies...........the occasional Hersheys kisses and a few skittles.
 
I came here to explore and destress.

Sometimes I have serious relationships on here, other times I don't.

I have made a couple of wonderful friends and what a gift that is.

I have learned a lot about myself in various ways.

Lit has been way more good to me than it has been bad.
 
I entered the forums mostly to get information. My first few threads made it seem like I was writing a book but that is because I wanted (and still do) to learn from folks that have done things that I have never had the nerve to do. I have intentions of removing some of my outer layers but it has proven to be more difficult as the years have passed. Still, I enjoy chatting with people that enjoy themselves and have experiences I can learn from.
 
Some good writing, good group exc hange of opinions, a woman to chat with. Two down and the hard one to go.
 
I'm curious about all of you here on Lit!

Specifically, did you join Lit with the intent of meeting "someone"? And if so, who were you seeking? A quick hook-up(s)? A life partner? Friends with benefits?

And having joined Lit, who have you met? Have you been surprised, charmed, shocked, educated, changed? Have you formed long-lasting relationships? Virtual marriages? People that are now part of your non-virtual life?

My initial reason to join Lit last summer was to try writing erotica, perhaps collaborative story writing. I ended up meeting someone here very early on who has become a very important part of my life, which is something I had not imagined would happen to me. It has been (to sound like a bad reality TV show) an amazing and wonderful journey that has brightened my world.

(And I've also met a number of other very interesting men with whom my Lit lover kindly allows me to interact).

I first wandered to lit to read the stories, then to write, then I found the PG and have met people that are fantastic.
My reason for staying is these people, some I have met, some not, but I do enjoy meeting people and I tend to be a talkative old guy.
And playful.
 
I'm not looking for much, a few laughs, good conversation, nice pics. Anything more tends to bring in drama which is a PITA.
 
I originally came here looking for tips on writing erotica, then the shitstorm called life crept in and it became a nice place to escape to. Someplace where it was always fun and lighthearted. Now I come here to joke with my friends and pester people. [laughs]
 
It was so long ago that I forget...

I joined to read the erotica, I think. Erotica has always been more arousing for me than pictures and porn (there are exceptions, but for the most part it's too staged). Along the way, I realised that there were other people on here that thought about sex the same way I did, and I've enjoyed getting to know a few.

I've had some interesting on-line exchanges, even a couple that lasted for months. It's a nice release, and there are many, many intelligent, witty and sensual people in the membership.

I love the place.
 
My story..ahem..WARNING: sexy content below ;)


I first came to lit back in December of 2002 . I came here as a place to post my stories. My first story Punishing and Pleasing your bad girl..which you can read here.. http://www.literotica.com/s/punshing-and-pleasing-your-bad-girl got so many views I decided to write more.

I have stuck around since then because I truly love this site. I can be my sexy self and express my dirty thoughts without conviction. I have met some AWESOME people on here. It is truly my home away from home. Plus I love that I can post sexy pics and get rave reviews.

Ah how it makes a girl feel so beautiful :kiss:
 
I am not really looking for anything.. Tough to be disappointed if you expect nothing..

I am however enjoying the interactions I have been having
 
I'm here to express my thoughts, read some wonderful stories and that's about it. Not trying to meet or interact with anyone. I'm sure there are awesome people there, if they cross my path, than I'm lucky indeed. :)
 
Hrmm.. what am I looking for? Friends- friends who don't mind talking about the weather and plants to movies to the naughty things that go on behind closed doors. It's nice to be able to talk about things openly and not have someone looking at you say "Oh, my god.. you want what?! Shh.. someone might hear. Don't say that again." :p

How did I end up here? The honest story- I was drunk after a bad breakup in college and found my way to Lit- read some stories, got excited, drank some more, found the forums, drank some more, made a misspelled name, and logged in. :p
 
Hrmm.. what am I looking for? Friends- friends who don't mind talking about the weather and plants to movies to the naughty things that go on behind closed doors. It's nice to be able to talk about things openly and not have someone looking at you say "Oh, my god.. you want what?! Shh.. someone might hear. Don't say that again." :p

How did I end up here? The honest story- I was drunk after a bad breakup in college and found my way to Lit- read some stories, got excited, drank some more, found the forums, drank some more, made a misspelled name, and logged in. :p

I never noticed your name was spelled wrong until now, that's why you don't point it out.
 
i first came here to read, then i found the forums and decided to join. im horridly shy and im hoping this might help to get over that.
 
I always look for connection.

Also I like people who don't mind that I use the work "fuck" alot.

I've found it.
 
I'm curious about all of you here on Lit!

Specifically, did you join Lit with the intent of meeting "someone"? And if so, who were you seeking? A quick hook-up(s)? A life partner? Friends with benefits?

And having joined Lit, who have you met? Have you been surprised, charmed, shocked, educated, changed? Have you formed long-lasting relationships? Virtual marriages? People that are now part of your non-virtual life?

My initial reason to join Lit last summer was to try writing erotica, perhaps collaborative story writing. I ended up meeting someone here very early on who has become a very important part of my life, which is something I had not imagined would happen to me. It has been (to sound like a bad reality TV show) an amazing and wonderful journey that has brightened my world.

(And I've also met a number of other very interesting men with whom my Lit lover kindly allows me to interact).
Originally accidentally happened across the site. Read some stories that got me a little hooked on the site. I would visit once in a while and read some new stuff.

About a year ago began to interact with some of the writers, but most of the ones I talked to only wanted to write, some to even sell their writing. Checked out the bulletin boards not sure what I would find, and changed my name to protect my innocence....yeah right.

I've met a couple people here and am still wondering about doing some writing with another person. Also like to interact, and this has been a good starting point since my marriage ended. Not sure what to expect from the future, so for now, my only real writing is for my children - and that's definitely NOT lit material....
 
I'm looking for my lost shaker of salt ...

Has anyone found it?
 
I didn't have much of an agenda, just fun, I suppose. But I got much more than that! :-D
 
It was hinted that along with a few likeminded friends, i was lowering the tone of Sexinfo101 lol

It's an essentially factual site (very good btw) but in the social area our smutty/flirty conversations were getting out of hand.

So several of us moved to pixies place.

And now here.

Ta da!
 
I found the stories several years ago, and enjoyed them immensely. Then I located the audio section and I still devour what I can in there.

I decided to write a few things to get them off my chest, so to speak, and somehow wound up in the forums. I've met several people here I would love to meet. A few of them would be in danger of complete physical depletion if I ever got close enough.. :devil:, and a few others might get strangled.. :D

Have I found what I'm looking for? No..but the forum is a soothing salve on the never healing wound that is my void...
 
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