What are ur turn ons and offs?

Kinkybytch

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ok guys i want to know what are your turn ons as well as turn offs?
my turn ons are i love a man with a nice body with a nice broad back and some nice pecs as well... that smells good has nice eyes and a nice smile as well as a nice sized package and is neatly shaved and trimmed where it counts and preferably circumsized;)
I dont like hairy guys who look like they dont know what a razor is used for or who have small ones that arent circumsized,also dont like a guy who doesnt take care of himself or keep his nails nice and neat and most of all i dont like it when a guy is too skinny or too over weight.And i dont like a guy who is not as aggresive as me or more than me.
 
turn ons.

good personality, large breast (natural), watching a woman shave, long hair, tatoos,


turn offs

fake breast, bad personality, perfume,


I don't like fake people, the ones that try to be everything everyone else want. just be yourself, if it isn't good enough fuck em
 
turn ons.

good personality, large breast (natural), watching a woman shave, long hair, tatoos,


turn offs

fake breast, bad personality, perfume,


I don't like fake people, the ones that try to be everything everyone else want. just be yourself, if it isn't good enough fuck em

well shit since u brought that up hell what are your turn ons with both sexs then..lol?

I already mentioned men for women i would have to say nice sized breasts not some pam anderson type but definantly not an ironing board chest either, a ass like jennifer lopez;) with a stomach like janet jackson and long legs with some stillettos and long curly hair smelling like they just climbed out of the shower ( oh so fresh and clean) prefered dark haired women and men with them brown eyes and turn offs as you said fake breasts :( poor hygeine & over weight.
 
Switch on...........

buff, tall (between 5'10" and 6'3"), great smile and teeth, a straight 8 or larger cut, funny, sarcastic, confident, a southern accent never hurts, very little hair below neck, strong hands with manicured nails, close in age to me within 4 yrs, and swagger or "IT" whatever you want to call it.

Switch off.........

over weight, not confident, girlyboys......................
 
she must be confident, witty and open sensual

turn offs, is haughty, smelly or just rude to others...
 
turn ons
smells great, either from cologne or just soap and shampoo, a nice tight round ass, a guys legs, long hair on a guy and facial hair, a guy in a slightly baggy sweater(dunno why lol), long and or thick fingers(cuz i imagine them sliding inside me, some hair, not gorilla but not mexican hairless either lol, a sexy intimate stare

turn offs
body odor and bad hygiene, being talked down to or ignored, violent, white spittle on a guy's lips ugh
 
turn ons:

fit body, long hair, great smile, lnows how to look after her body, has a brain, great legs and ass, breasts B - C, neatly trimmed pussy, not shy about sex, 5'2" - 5'8", will get me a beer when I'm thirsty ;)

all those meeting the above criteria may apply within :)

turn offs:

too much makeup, selfish, bitchy, uncaring about her own body, prudish, unkempt pussy, anal hair
 
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Turn ons: none necessary, I pretty much stay that way.

Turn offs: lots of them. Unfortunately, listing your turn-offs is a way to offend people, but you did ask. Here is an incomplete list of turn-offs:

1. People who smell bad. This ties in with #2.

2. Smokers. I don't care if they smoke, but the smell is distracting when I'm trying to fuck. Their cum tastes, different, too, especially girl cum.

3. Drug users. If I have to question someone's emotional stability, I'm not comfortable fucking them. If they'll use one drug, I wonder what else they'd use, and what unpleasantness might be lurking in their body fluids.

4. People who drink too much. See #3 above. Sex is the wonder drug for me, and I hate anything that gets in the way of my enjoyment of it with a clear head. I also don't like the thought of someone coming back later and saying they don't remember what happened, or that they regret doing what they wouldn't have done while sober.

5. Race. I have lots of friends of every racial and ethnic group out there, but that doesn't mean I want to fuck them. Only white guys interest me, and only white and asian girls interest me.

6. Gender identity. Guys who are bi, or gay, or straight but effeminite, or straight but passive in bed, are turn offs. Girls who are butch turn me off. I am definitely a lipstick lesbian when it comes to that.

7. Excessive body hair. I don't enjoy eating furry twats. I don't like hair on the shaft of a cock. I don't like fucking a man who looks and feels like a bear. There is only one exception to this rule, and even I don't fully understand why, but a girl with a little hair in her armpits can make my crotch like melted butter, as long as she doesn't smell.

8. Obesity. Being a little chubby, or even pregnant, is no problem, but obesity is a turn-off.

9. Guys who cuss a lot. Dirty-mouthed girls get me hot, but I want a man to treat my like a gentleman should and then fuck me like a real man.

That will have to do for now.
 
Turn on:

Petite
Small breasts (small B at most)
Confident
Ability to laugh
Knows what she likes and isn't afraid to say as much

Turn offs:

Tattoos (just can't stand them, sorry)
Fake breasts (same as tattoos)
Smoker
Obese (don't mined some junk in the trunk but obese is beyond my comfort zone)

Those are the main items but the total package is what makes the lady.
 
hi

A moderate or stiff caning on bare bottom is a good turn on for me.
 
Turn Ons:

Sense of humor, clean (no bad smells), nice hands, strength under control, someone who makes me feel sexy. Someone who is willing to lead.

Turn OFFs:

Body odor, dirty hands/finger nails, snobbery/boastfulness
 
turn ons:

1. men who can handle themselves in situations that involve violent confrontations.
2. men who open doors
3. men who allow me to be the focus of their attention without being obvious
4. men who know how to have intelligent conversations


turn offs:
1. men with hairy backs
2. men who smell
3. men who believe foreplay is saying, 'you wanna fuck?'
4. men in speedos
5. men who can't say their sorry
6. wimps
 
On:
-She's sexually open to trying new things and then embracing them or casting them off.
-She's not willing to budge on things she doesn't want to do... ie she shouldn't give in to me just because I want her to
-She's not afraid to be sexual and ask for what she wants
.....plus small breasts, good hygiene, and a wicked sexy grin

Off:
-She doesn't care about herslef
-She is a starfish in bed (just lies there)
-She is obsessed with how others perceive her
...plus fake boobs, bad hygiene, and childish attitude
 
Turned on with ladies who keep good eye contact, show calm and confidence, share the conversation, have open mind, and..... courage to say what they truly wish to say.

Turned off with ladies who lack respect and kindness, and those with the attitude that they have already learned everything.
 
turn on- long hair

Turn off- see below

Turn ons: none necessary, I pretty much stay that way.

Turn offs: lots of them. Unfortunately, listing your turn-offs is a way to offend people, but you did ask. Here is an incomplete list of turn-offs:

1. People who smell bad. This ties in with #2.

2. Smokers. I don't care if they smoke, but the smell is distracting when I'm trying to fuck. Their cum tastes, different, too, especially girl cum.

3. Drug users. If I have to question someone's emotional stability, I'm not comfortable fucking them. If they'll use one drug, I wonder what else they'd use, and what unpleasantness might be lurking in their body fluids.

4. People who drink too much. See #3 above. Sex is the wonder drug for me, and I hate anything that gets in the way of my enjoyment of it with a clear head. I also don't like the thought of someone coming back later and saying they don't remember what happened, or that they regret doing what they wouldn't have done while sober.

5. Race. I have lots of friends of every racial and ethnic group out there, but that doesn't mean I want to fuck them. Only white guys interest me, and only white and asian girls interest me.

6. Gender identity. Guys who are bi, or gay, or straight but effeminite, or straight but passive in bed, are turn offs. Girls who are butch turn me off. I am definitely a lipstick lesbian when it comes to that.

7. Excessive body hair. I don't enjoy eating furry twats. I don't like hair on the shaft of a cock. I don't like fucking a man who looks and feels like a bear. There is only one exception to this rule, and even I don't fully understand why, but a girl with a little hair in her armpits can make my crotch like melted butter, as long as she doesn't smell.

8. Obesity. Being a little chubby, or even pregnant, is no problem, but obesity is a turn-off.

9. Guys who cuss a lot. Dirty-mouthed girls get me hot, but I want a man to treat my like a gentleman should and then fuck me like a real man.

That will have to do for now.
 
turns on:

open minded, intelligence, sarcasm, independent nature, doesn't mind some teasing, likes to tease back, has a bit of fight and likes to argue, quick witted, laughs at my jokes, soft skin, nice smile, physically I tend to like all sorts of women I can't really say who I will fall for though it is nice when a women has a big bum, hips and thighs not overly fat just big if you know what I mean,

turn off:

ignorance, unwilling to try new things, clingy/attached at the hip, poor oral and personal hygeine, vanity, shallow as it may seem a poor taste in music can be a real killer for me I don't mind watching movies or tv shows that I may not necessarily like but I couldn't stand living with someone who insisted on listening to awful music
 
turn ons:
I like a man who is intelligent (seduction starts with the mind), funny, kind, caring, not afraid to take charge, who smells nice and is neat and clean.

turn offs:
20 somethings who say "you're sexy, do you cam, do you have naked pics, do you want to cum with someone?"
 
i have a huge list of the turn ons, but i prefer the turn offs (cause its straight forward)

turn offs
1. a guy who doesnt take care of himself. I hate (make that despise) a slob and one with a beer belly is even worse. The physical is just as important. I dunt expect the guy to look like a marble staue, just not be a lazy, fat slob.
2. Pretty, emo boys
3. Wannnbes...just be urself!
4. Racists
5. Superficial guys who think i dunt have an opinion and the only reason im with them is to serve them. Get ur own fucking beer!
 
Turn on: A guy who is well spoken.
A guy with a good sense of humor.
A guy who keeps himself well groom.

Turn off: A guy who talk talk talks so much that he doesn't even seem to notice that he's holding a conversation with himself.
A guy who constantly talks about sex and how well he puts it down.
A guy who is so arrogant that he thinks he looks better than everyone.
A who is rude, lazy, and doesn't know the meaning of soap and water is a complete and utter turn off.
 
turn-ons:
a man who is forceful
a man who has a bigger build and big arms
a man who is great at debates and discussions

turn-offs:
a cocky man
a man that thinks he knows everything
a man with tons of body hair
a man with no intelligence
 
TURN OFFS: tattoos, smokers, poor personal hygiene, morbid obesity, excessive facial makeup, bikinis on ladies who shouldn't, druggies/alcoholics, shaved bushes, excessive perfume, excessive jewelry, bad teeth, poor grammar, ankle bracelets, use of foul language, excessive cellphone use, illiteracy, TV addicts, married, erratic employment history, criminal record, hung up on family, poor credit history, financially unstable....

TURN ONS: short rather than long head hair, flawless personal hygiene, full bushes, weight proportionate to height, large natural breasts, eyeglasses, a nice smile, modest dress in public, good credit history, financially stable, friendly manner, polite, good etiquette, unmarried, reasonably well educated, capable of being faithful, sexually mature....
 
A woman can really turn me on by dressing professional but slutty. Dresses, any length, short skirts, knee high stockings, high heels, silk blouses with cleavage showing sexy bra, white see through silk blouse, eyeglasses, garter belts. I like women with huge tits, big hips and thighs and a really skinny waist. I really love long nipples (Farrah Fawcett style). This type of dress leads to awesome roleplaying. Shopping with my wife at the mall, having her try on sexy outfits, and then giving dirty looks to the salesgirls. This usually leads to hot sex in the car in the mall parking lot.
 
Mine

Turn ons

Gentleman stuff (door opening, helping carry heavy things, letting me go first)
Good Clean Smell
Wants to hold me on his lap.
Sense of Humor
Animal Lover (even me)
Wants to kiss me whole entire body...

Turn Offs

The smell of alchohol
Indifference
Rude
Overly Political
No imagination
Doesn't respect women
 
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