What am I Supposed to do as a Pet for my Miss?

[bisouthernbelle]

Hello! Recently I became a Pet for a Miss, not a Mistress, to an older woman author on Literotica. We had just been chatting for about three weeks. Somehow the topic came up, and it sounded interesting. My Miss is aware of proclivities and my boundaries. She has given me a couple of tasks, completed for her happily. As a Pet, do I just wait for her to tell me what to do, or what? Interestingly, our communication has decreased much since I became her pet. Does this mean anything? I am very new and haven't been able to find information online. Any advice is welcome, please.

 

[seela]

Hello! Recently I became a Pet for a Miss, not a Mistress, to an older woman author on Literotica. We had just been chatting for about three weeks. Somehow the topic came up, and it sounded interesting. My Miss is aware of proclivities and my boundaries. She has given me a couple of tasks, completed for her happily. As a Pet, do I just wait for her to tell me what to do, or what? Interestingly, our communication has decreased much since I became her pet. Does this mean anything? I am very new and haven't been able to find information online. Any advice is welcome, please.

There are no hard set rules that all people doing BDSM follows. Each couple/triad/etc. make up their own rules and find their own path. You two should have a talk about your expectations for this dynamic you have started.

The decreased communication doesn't necessarily have to be anything else than her being busy, but it just as well could be a sign of the connection to fading a little. Did you talk about it being a regular, long term thing or was it supposed to be a one off thing for the entertainment of you both?

There's really no way around the talking with her rather than trying to find answers elsewhere.

Good luck and welcome to our corner of Lit!

 

[cookiecat]

Are you a pet pet - like a puppy or is pet your name for submissive?

If your communication has been fun and playful and you are a puppy/kitty type pet, be creative. Go to party warehouse and buy a little kitty-ear headband and send her some cute face pictures (only if you are at that point of sending her pictures, I never recommend sending anyone sexual pictures unless you know and trust them) .. look for fun pet play pics on the web and do something like a top 10 list of things you want to try.

Online relationships, especially new ones, are fun, exciting, the messages fly back and forth. And sometimes, after the newness wears off, the level of messaging decreases.

Hopefully, you'll find more than a few weeks of fun with your Miss. You mention you are very new.... treat online relationships as you would any face-to-face relationship. Good luck! Have fun.