What am I doing wrong?

[captainlazlo]

Why is it so hard to find a female to share fantasies online?
Are woman not into this as much as men, or are the ones who are interested already involved with someone else?
What makes a good personal ad and is there such a thing as to kinky when stating what turns you on?
Any advice would be appreciated.

CL

 

[LoveYou2111]

Why is it so hard to find a female to share fantasies online?
Are woman not into this as much as men, or are the ones who are interested already involved with someone else?
What makes a good personal ad and is there such a thing as to kinky when stating what turns you on?
Any advice would be appreciated.

CL

What is it your looking for Honey?


Jess

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

Why is it so hard to find a female to share fantasies online?
Are woman not into this as much as men, or are the ones who are interested already involved with someone else?
What makes a good personal ad and is there such a thing as to kinky when stating what turns you on?
Any advice would be appreciated.

CL

Eh, you may be nothing wrong at all. But even dommes who dom purely online get swamped. I get contacted almost evey day. I hate to think of how many messages Shadowdream gets in one day.

My advice would be to keep trying. Think of how a sub would have to present herself to get your attention if you had several applicants. Don't be afraid to talk about what you're interested in (kinks? LTR online or a few scenes? and so on), but be sincere and respectful. Ask what you should do to please and serve her. And keep in mind how a sub should behave towards a dom/me - it's pretty much the same for both sexes, although every domme has her own preferences.

Good luck.

 

[human_male]

The problem is the same problem on any singles or personals web sites, that men outnumber women by about 100 to one.

 

[Peregrinator]

Cap, I had almost no contact with anybody until I started posting on the General Board, just being myself, chiming in here and there. The GB is like a giant cocktail party instead of a newspaper column. C'mon over and shoot the shit, flirt, hang out. Start a thread about martial arts. There was one a while ago and like, a million people posted on it.