what about me?

[bilter]

Not sure if this is the proper place to ask this ? but I am New to the board but I have a question for the memebers. I have a very sexy wife married for 1 yr now (have been together for 11 yrs total). We have great sex together. My question is, I always have fantisized about seeing my wife with another man, usually sucking his cock or getting fucked from behind while she sucks my cock. I have come close to selling her this but don't want her to think I am a devient. I have had here tell her storiesin the past of her sexual encounters and it really turns me on but I haven't the nerve to tell her more. She knows her stories turn me on but always seems reluctant to tell them. OK, especially to the ladies out there, should I tell my wife about this?

Thanks all,

Bilter

 

[knightostars]

I am not a lady. But, Tell the woman already. After 11 years you should be telling her anything. And who knows what it may lead to.

 

[Nebraskaman]

My two cents worth:

Tell her of your fantasy as exactly that, a fantasy, perhaps a little roleplaying in the bedroom, getting her used to the idea that you are someone else, in the roleplaying. If she is agreable to that much, then take the next step in asking if she wants to invite a third party into that part of both your lives.

If she dosn't like the roleplaying idea, just let it go, and you have lost nothing.

Again, just my two cents worth, good luck to you!



Old Wolf

 

[Goodnaturedguy]

I've talked to several women that have done MMF threesomes. The best and cutest story was of the husband who took her out along with a friend. She said she knew something was up lol. They were pushing the wine on her and were REALLy happy and the friend was touching her a little. When they got home they got her drunker and it just evolved naturally.

The point was that he let the thing go along spontaeously, not all planned out like a tax audit. And she knew the whole time anyway, women have sense for this stuff. I think your wife knows you want to do this already.

She loved the attention she got that whole night. Loved the sex, was a positive experience for all. They never did it again though, so I'm guessing he didn't like it as much as he thought he would, but hey' he gave it a try eh?

Trust and spontanaity is the key to her...um...heart.

Now can I apply for friendship? I'm experienced and a VERY sweet guy with women. PM me and we can talk about it.