What’s your experience with Bi men and post nut guilt?

I guess. It sucks when you have been communicating for a while with a guy and there’s a big build up to what you’re going to do together. Then he blows a load in your mouth in the first five minutes then he’s pulling his pants up and heading out the door.
 
I've written the whole story here in other threads, so I won't go into details. But I had a friend. Didn't know he was bi-curious. I really wasn't then. He and his wife asked me to join them for some fun. MFM eventually moved to MMF and then MM. They showed me that sexual pleasure had no labels, that it was just people having fun and pleasing each other. But when we played alone, the second he came he was up, dressed and out the door with hardly a word, even if I still hadn't cum. After this happened a few times, it took a long talk to change things. But when the air was cleared and he came to realize that him cumming was only the start to fun times, it opened the doors to all kinds of fun and exploration...and the pleasure that comes with it.
 
I've written the whole story here in other threads, so I won't go into details. But I had a friend. Didn't know he was bi-curious. I really wasn't then. He and his wife asked me to join them for some fun. MFM eventually moved to MMF and then MM. They showed me that sexual pleasure had no labels, that it was just people having fun and pleasing each other. But when we played alone, the second he came he was up, dressed and out the door with hardly a word, even if I still hadn't cum. After this happened a few times, it took a long talk to change things. But when the air was cleared and he came to realize that him cumming was only the start to fun times, it opened the doors to all kinds of fun and exploration...and the pleasure that comes with it.
Thanks for sharing
 
Sometimes giving a blow and go can be hot.
Yes if that’s the agreement then it is but it actually takes a lot of time and effort to go from every day Joe to sexy Sissy slut (usually about 2 1/2 -3 hours) for only 5 minutes of fun. Just venting how frustrating that can be.
 
I was the victim of that very thing the last time I hooked up. The guy talked mutual oral and to be fair he did suck on my cock briefly to get things started. He was a good 50 pounds heavier than he said and also 3 inches of his cock went missing from what he described. Even so, I decided to go thru with it. Once I put my lips on his dick my cock got nothing more. Once he sprayed his cum on my face he was ready for me to leave. I did get the last jet or two in my mouth so I had a taste and enough to swallow. I won’t be back to blow him again (even though he tasted superb)
 
I had one guy talk such a big game about how he was going to rock my world and fuck me all night. So I went all out for him nails hair and new outfit. Paid $200 for a room. He came in dropped his pants put a condom on had me lie face down on the bed mounted me in one thrust pumped 3 or 4 times pulled out ripped off the condom dropped it on the floor and left. Then called me every day for two weeks professing how hot I was and how good he was when he “Fucked my brains out.” Thank you for sharing your experience.
 
I had one guy talk such a big game about how he was going to rock my world and fuck me all night. So I went all out for him nails hair and new outfit. Paid $200 for a room. He came in dropped his pants put a condom on had me lie face down on the bed mounted me in one thrust pumped 3 or 4 times pulled out ripped off the condom dropped it on the floor and left. Then called me every day for two weeks professing how hot I was and how good he was when he “Fucked my brains out.” Thank you for sharing your experience.
That isn't right. Basically, that guy lied to you. Be honest and find someone really compatible. That is REAL fun.
 
One of the things that people leave out is that sometimes the craving for cock/cum subsides once you have gotten off. I've felt this, and I've had a buddy who admitted to the same thing.

Once we've acknowledged it, we are still sure to make sure that the other one still gets off, but it might be a little bit different. before he gets off, he LOVES a mouth load of cum or a facial, but I know that if I get him off first, he may have lost his desire for a load, so I'm ok with him finishing me off manually, or sucking my cock but not having me finish in his mouth.

I think that when people are in the heights of arousal or feeling a crazy amount of lust, they may be more open to different things-could be the whole "more blood to the small head than the big head."


As long as there is an understanding and a willingness to make sure that both parties have fun, I think it's something that you can work with, even if it's not ideal.
 
That isn't right. Basically, that guy lied to you. Be honest and find someone really compatible. That is REAL fun.
I think he was more attracted to the concept of a man who dressed and acted like a submissive woman, but once he had cum he realized it was still another guy.
 
One of the things that people leave out is that sometimes the craving for cock/cum subsides once you have gotten off. I've felt this, and I've had a buddy who admitted to the same thing.

Once we've acknowledged it, we are still sure to make sure that the other one still gets off, but it might be a little bit different. before he gets off, he LOVES a mouth load of cum or a facial, but I know that if I get him off first, he may have lost his desire for a load, so I'm ok with him finishing me off manually, or sucking my cock but not having me finish in his mouth.

I think that when people are in the heights of arousal or feeling a crazy amount of lust, they may be more open to different things-could be the whole "more blood to the small head than the big head."


As long as there is an understanding and a willingness to make sure that both parties have fun, I think it's something that you can work with, even if it's not ideal.
Thank you for your insight.
 
For me it's the snapping back to reality of a "straight" life as fast as possible. Maybe it's a guilt reflex, but I don't find myself attracted to men at all, just the certain sex acts. So, once complete, I tend to lose interest for a few days at least. But for me, I always focus on giving first anyway. If I cum, it's not that important, but I have grown to accept the reciprocation and enjoy it too!
 
I guess. It sucks when you have been communicating for a while with a guy and there’s a big build up to what you’re going to do together. Then he blows a load in your mouth in the first five minutes then he’s pulling his pants up and heading out
Idk. I’d rather continue and enjoy. Why not try to cum again and pleasure your partner? 🤷‍♂️
 
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