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Forgive this for sounding kind of pathetic.
I have not "fingered" or caressed a woman in her frontal errogenous zone before. I have recently aquired a lovely girlfriend, and due to my inexperience and issues she's had in the past that have led her into a kind of 'fear' of being touched down there, it has taken us a while to get to this stage.
We've been very physical in bed, both half naked, passionate, sweaty, eager. It's all very erotic, so tonight I did it for the first time, she let me, like she said she would try (but warned me it would be a learning process). So anyway, we're both very hot and sweaty and I'm taking it really slow (running my finger along her vagina and back for a while and just resting it there etc.) but eventually I put it in a little way, it feels hot and WET there, kind of slimey... This is great and all, but I'm wondering is this kind of wetness (baring in mind we are hot, the room is hot, we're under covers, we've been messing around for a few hours) just there naturally, or does it mean she's aroused. I mean she's acting aroused but she is so inexperienced, and due to a bad experience (her only) in the past, I feel she doesn't experiment much down there.
I realise the terrible sentence structuring. I always do this. I need to clear my thoughts before I type. Basically, Would she get wet and aroused down there, if she doesn't even know how to orgasm, or please herself, or be pleased and actually has a hefty load of psychological problems ATTACHED to it, or is that unlikely and it's just natural.
Bare in mind it's not like her whole vagina area is wet, just the actual entrance (the surrounding area is reasonably lubricated though). Also bare in mind these questions will sound stupid. I'm as inexperienced as her... Tum te tum.
Any advice appreciated.
I have not "fingered" or caressed a woman in her frontal errogenous zone before. I have recently aquired a lovely girlfriend, and due to my inexperience and issues she's had in the past that have led her into a kind of 'fear' of being touched down there, it has taken us a while to get to this stage.
We've been very physical in bed, both half naked, passionate, sweaty, eager. It's all very erotic, so tonight I did it for the first time, she let me, like she said she would try (but warned me it would be a learning process). So anyway, we're both very hot and sweaty and I'm taking it really slow (running my finger along her vagina and back for a while and just resting it there etc.) but eventually I put it in a little way, it feels hot and WET there, kind of slimey... This is great and all, but I'm wondering is this kind of wetness (baring in mind we are hot, the room is hot, we're under covers, we've been messing around for a few hours) just there naturally, or does it mean she's aroused. I mean she's acting aroused but she is so inexperienced, and due to a bad experience (her only) in the past, I feel she doesn't experiment much down there.
I realise the terrible sentence structuring. I always do this. I need to clear my thoughts before I type. Basically, Would she get wet and aroused down there, if she doesn't even know how to orgasm, or please herself, or be pleased and actually has a hefty load of psychological problems ATTACHED to it, or is that unlikely and it's just natural.
Bare in mind it's not like her whole vagina area is wet, just the actual entrance (the surrounding area is reasonably lubricated though). Also bare in mind these questions will sound stupid. I'm as inexperienced as her... Tum te tum.
Any advice appreciated.
