I'm a 57 year old married man in Southeast Michigan who's been experimenting with my bi-tendencies for several years now. After years of denying my urges I finally took the plunge and hooked up with a gay guy who was looking for a "straight" man. While it wasn't entirely all I was hoping for, it kept me interested and I've had a handful of encounters over the years. My wife doesn't know and I aim to keep it that way. From time to time I tell myself I'm going to stop meeting guys and the demise of Craigslist has made it more difficult, but I still find myself with the urge to be with a man sexually. My marriage has been sexless for many years and I feel like as long as I don't cause her pain or embarrassment, I should be free to do what I need to do to find sexual gratification. I'm still looking for someone to be with on an ongoing, if not frequent, basis. Also looking to chat with anyone who has interests similar to mine.