Well Laid or Well Loved?

[TempWife]

If given only one choice for the rest of your life...Would you rather be "well loved" or "well laid"? Why?

 

[Ms_Lilith]

well loved.

I can pleasure myself, but the love of my special someone is irreplaceable.

 

[crazybbwgirl]

Well laid. I love myself plenty - but there are only so many things I can do with my own hands......

 

[Fuzzywumpus]

If your well loved, you will get well laid

 

[crazybbwgirl]

If your well loved, you will get well laid

Oh - but darling that is not true! There are many well loved, and loveable people out there who do not get laid - well or otherwise. Keep reading in this forum and you'll learn all about it.

 

[done_got_old]

well loved

 

[Raindear816]

well-loved


Well laid can be accomplished in a variety of ways.

 

[shell seeker2]

well loved, I'm pretty good to myself!

 

[charmed1]

well-loved

 

[ducky19]

Well loved

 

[Fuzzywumpus]

Oh - but darling that is not true! There are many well loved, and loveable people out there who do not get laid - well or otherwise. Keep reading in this forum and you'll learn all about it.

your right, was being a smart ass, hangs head

 

[mystic_maiden32]

well loved.

 

[spankableBelle]

At this point in time...I'll take well laid (it can always turn into well loved)

 

[slowndeep]

At this point in time...I'll take well laid (it can always turn into well loved)

A very practical statement Belle - nice one !!

 

[flywater]

Well laid. I love myself plenty - but there are only so many things I can do with my own hands......

I do have to agree with crazy on this one!

 

[crazybbwgirl]

I do have to agree with crazy on this one!

What's love got to do - got to do with it?

Sorry - been singing that song in my head since I first read this thread.........

 

[LustyLovers]

Well loved. I honestly can't be well laid until I feel well loved.

 

[bashfull]

Now how can I answer this one? hmmmm....

I have to say that both can and should coexist, darlin. Loving another enhances the physical intimacy, awakening further passions and longings within us. Fueling anew fires and throes of arousal and desire. And of course, being laid well increases the intimacy and depth of the loving.

And I have to vehemently aggree with what others have expressed...must be able to love thyself before one can truly love another.

Now in the absence of love, one can still be well laid...or so these innocent ears have heard spoken.



Bash

 

[bashfull]

Now how can I answer this one? hmmmm....

I have to say that both can and should coexist, darlin. Loving another enhances the physical intimacy, awakening further passions and longings within us. Fueling anew fires and throes of arousal and desire. And of course, being laid well increases the intimacy and depth of the loving.

And I have to vehemently aggree with what others have expressed...must be able to love thyself before one can truly love another.

Now in the absence of love, one can still be well laid...or so these innocent ears have heard spoken.



Bash

 

[TempWife]

Thanks for the interesting responses. Im always curious how men vs women answer this question. Maybe the answer depends on the state of the relationship you are currently in?