Well, I did it

[kitty4ever]

I got asked out for my first quasi, but not really date since the breakup. I have no idea if he's into BDSM or a Vanilla, but it's just for coffee, joke, talk, etc.

I know that I barely post anymore, and read the boards only every couple of days, but you were all there at my darkest moment, when I felt shattered. The advice you gave me was priceless. I still cherish those that I met here. I'll never forget you.

Ever since I accepted, I've had nervous butterflies. But, I have to start somewhere. Now, to survive to Saturday, and get through it.

 

[Xelebes]

Someone please inform me what a quasi is? Otherwise, hooray for you!

 

[Aeroil]

Someone please inform me what a quasi is? Otherwise, hooray for you!

I was wondering the same thing. Congrats from me too .

 

[MastrJ]

Congrats Kitty! Good luck with it.


'Quasi' as in semi or almost. I'm going on a quasi-date.

See: Quasimodo - almost or half human.

 

[Liana26]

Good luck! Have lots of fun!

 

[jasonlf]

I know the feeling, me and my girlfriend (we had a discipline-style relationship, not really full BDSM... read my earlier post about it) recently broke up, mainly because she is incredibly unstable, but I've got my first date since then coming up Friday.

At one time, BDSM was just like icing on a relationship, now I find myself wondering if this chick is or not. I guess I wouldn't know how to function in a relationship where I couldn't spank my girl for being bad... or good

 

[LunarKitten]

I got asked out for my first quasi, but not really date since the breakup. I have no idea if he's into BDSM or a Vanilla, but it's just for coffee, joke, talk, etc.

I know that I barely post anymore, and read the boards only every couple of days, but you were all there at my darkest moment, when I felt shattered. The advice you gave me was priceless. I still cherish those that I met here. I'll never forget you.

Ever since I accepted, I've had nervous butterflies. But, I have to start somewhere. Now, to survive to Saturday, and get through it.

*huggles* You'll get through it just fine.

 

[Xelebes]

WGood going, Jasoneff.

Right now I'm trying to set a datewith this one gal.... we know what the date will consist of but just finding a day to do it on...

 

[catalina_francisco]

Congratulations.....it is good to see you are getting back in the saddle ...it's like riding a bicycle, you just have to get back into it and you will remember all you have learned.

Catalina

 

[kitty4ever]

Thanks That's one way to put it, Catalina.

No longer as nervous/jittery as yesterday. I guess the whole 'omg! what have I agreed to' feeling was just setting in. Coffee is a good way of dipping my toes back into the water.

 

[MastrJ]

Thanks That's one way to put it, Catalina.

No longer as nervous/jittery as yesterday. I guess the whole 'omg! what have I agreed to' feeling was just setting in. Coffee is a good way of dipping my toes back into the water.

Just watch out if he starts stirring his coffee with a spoon and then says: "I like my women like I like my coffee, black - with a spoon."