weird things in bdsm

[merlin1996]

I'm 20 years old male and interest in bdsm and femdom.what are the weirdest things that you dominant demands you to d

 

[Farawyn]

I'm 20 years old male and interest in bdsm and femdom.i know what are the weirdest things that you dominant demands you to do?

You first.

 

[merlin1996]

You first.

I don't have any experience.that's why I asked

 

[Farawyn]

Goodbye luck with that.
You may think things are "weird" that we don't.
It's subjective.

 

[Miles Long]

Goodbye luck with that.
You may think things are "weird" that we don't.
It's subjective.

I think you're weird.

 

[gracie920101]

First, welcome to Lit. I'm glad you are interested and curious enough to ask a question.

Your question might be better received if you were to explain your status up front and also word it in a method less...judgemental, shall we say? No one will blow up over someone asking a question who is genuinely interested if they are respectful.

And another suggestion? Fill out a full profile. If you're worried about anonymity, get creative but tell us something about you.

 

[KimGordon67]

First, welcome to Lit. I'm glad you are interested and curious enough to ask a question.

Your question might be better received it you were to explain your status up front and also word it in a method less...judgemental, shall we say? No one will blow up over someone asking a question who is genuinely interested if they are respectful.

And another suggestion? Fill out a full profile. If you're worried about anonymity, get creative but tell us something about you.

I think the profile thing is broken at the moment (and has been for a while) ... that's why there's a steady of trickle of new people with no profiles.

 

[chame1eon]

I think the profile thing is broken at the moment (and has been for a while) ... that's why there's a steady of trickle of new people with no profiles.

I had a picture in mine and I have no idea what happened to it.

When I click on edit profile it just brings up the change password screen.

 

[MeekMe]

I used to think being told not to cut my hair was weird. I don't really see it like that now so I guess my idea of what is weird has changed. It happens I guess. People are most likely not going to share much in this thread because of the wording you've used.

Here's some threads you might be interested in:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1119955

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1458558

 

[chame1eon]

At least you didn't put your question on the general board like I did.

 

[Blue]

I had a picture in mine and I have no idea what happened to it.

When I click on edit profile it just brings up the change password screen.

Yeah that's been happening to everybody for a while, just have to wait till Lit fixes it.

 

[merlin1996]

hi

I used to think being told not to cut my hair was weird. I don't really see it like that now so I guess my idea of what is weird has changed. It happens I guess. People are most likely not going to share much in this thread because of the wording you've used.

Here's some threads you might be interested in:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1119955

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1458558

Thank you meekme

 

[merlin1996]

Yeah that's been happening to everybody for a while, just have to wait till Lit fixes it.

It's been 3 day but still not solved

 

[KimGordon67]

It's been 3 day but still not solved

Actually, well over a month.

 

[merlin1996]

First, welcome to Lit. I'm glad you are interested and curious enough to ask a question.

Your question might be better received it you were to explain your status up front and also word it in a method less...judgemental, shall we say? No one will blow up over someone asking a question who is genuinely interested if they are respectful.

And another suggestion? Fill out a full profile. If you're worried about anonymity, get creative but tell us something about you.

I tried to complete my profile but something wrong with it

 

[merlin1996]

Actually, well over a month.

I made this account 3 days ago

 

[Miles Long]

They fixed Chat though, right?

 

[Farawyn]

I think you're weird.

I know you are, you sick fuck.

 

[Miles Long]

I know you are, you sick fuck.

I actually El OH EL'ed at that.

 

[___john___]

Yes ... I joined earlier today and can't set a profile

 

[KimGordon67]

Yes ... I joined earlier today and can't set a profile

You might find this comment would be more usefully placed in the various threads about that actual problem. We're weird bdsm folk, not tech support.

 

[Miles Long]

Yes ... I joined earlier today and can't set a profile

Don’t worry about it, dude. Women like a mysterious man.

 

[KimGordon67]

Don’t worry about it, dude. Women like a mysterious man.

You forgot to mention how much we also love random unsolicited dick pics.

 

[Nezhul]

BDSM can be very different from pair to pair. That's because generally there are a lot of small fetishes that may or may not be involved. Some people will not think anything of them, to others they will be weird.

Those thigns can be as mild or as extreme as your fantasy allows. There are people who will play with piss, poo or even blood in their bed, for one. (OK, maybe not in bed, but you get it ) This is on the extreme side.

Then there are people who will dress up in outfits to roleplay. There are people who will crossdress - for example a mistress may want you dress up as a girl, shave your legs, wear frilly underwear and a wig + makeup.

There are people who will play only in bed. There are those who play "lifestyle", submitting 24/7 into a master-slave relationship. The more hardcore examples will include total control over all things - food, clothes, sleep, toilet, social life. They will be severely (and unpleasantly) punished for any missteps.

But this is all irrelevant. Because you know what's the best thing about BDSM? You make it up for yourself. Even if you are submissive, I encourage you to insist on taking part in defining the shape of your games. Just this one time, be in control of your life. I encourage you to always start small, with only one or two activities involved (in-bed submission + light bondage with cuffs is a great way to start). Don't try to pile up everything that excites you, because you will not be able to concentrate on and appreciate anything.

Here you go:
http://www.mappery.com/map-of/Fetish-map