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By Ruth Smythers, wife of the Reverened L.D. Smythers, Pastor of the Methodist Church in the year 1894.
"To the sensitive young woman who has had the benefits of a proper upbringing, the wedding day is, ironically, both the happiest and the most terrifying day of her life. On the positive side, there is the wedding itself, in which the bride is the central attraction in a beautiful and inspiring ceremony, symbolizing her triumph in securing a male to provide for all her needs for the rest of her natural life. On the negative side there is the wedding night, during which the bride must pay the piper, so to speak, by facing for the first time, the terrible experience of sex.
At this point, Dear Reader, let me concede one shocking truth. Some young women actually anticipate the wedding night ordeal with curiosity and pleasure! Beware such an attitude. A selfish and sensual husband can easily take advantage of such a bride. One cardinal rule of marriage should never be forgotten: Give little, give seldom. And above all, give grudgingly. Otherwise, what could have been a proper marriage could become an orgy of sensual lust.
While sex is at best revolting and at worse rather painful, it has to be endured, and has been by women since the beginning of time and is compensated for by the monogamous home and by the children produced through it.
While the ideal husband would be one who would approach his bride only at her request and only for the purpose of begetting offspring, such nobility and unselfishness cannot be expected from the average man.
The wise bride will permit a maximum of two brief sexual experiences weekly during the first months of marriage. As time goes by she should make every effort to reduce this frequency.
Feigned illness, sleepiness and headaches are among the wife's best friends in this matter. Arguments, nagging, scolding and bickering also prove very effective is used in the late evening, about an hour before the husband would normally commence his seduction.
Clever wives are ever on the alert for new and better methods of denying and discouraging the amorous overtures of the husband. A good wife should expect to have reduced sexual contacts to once a week by the end of the first year of marriage and to once a month by the end of the fifth year. By their tenth anniversary, many wives have managed to complete their child bearing and have achieved the ultimate goal of terminating all sexual contacts with the husband.
Just as she should be ever alert to keep the quantity of sex as low as possible, the wise bride will pay equal attention to limiting the kind and degree of sexual contacts. Most men are by nature rather perverted, and if given half a chance, would engage in quite the variety of the most revolting practices. These practices include, among others, performing the normal sex act in abnormal positions, mouthing the female body, and offering their own vile bodies to be mouthed in turn.
Sex, when it cannot be prevented, should be practiced only in total darkness. "
Pretty funny. Thank god we live in different times now. There was more to the article but I got tired of typing it out.
"To the sensitive young woman who has had the benefits of a proper upbringing, the wedding day is, ironically, both the happiest and the most terrifying day of her life. On the positive side, there is the wedding itself, in which the bride is the central attraction in a beautiful and inspiring ceremony, symbolizing her triumph in securing a male to provide for all her needs for the rest of her natural life. On the negative side there is the wedding night, during which the bride must pay the piper, so to speak, by facing for the first time, the terrible experience of sex.
At this point, Dear Reader, let me concede one shocking truth. Some young women actually anticipate the wedding night ordeal with curiosity and pleasure! Beware such an attitude. A selfish and sensual husband can easily take advantage of such a bride. One cardinal rule of marriage should never be forgotten: Give little, give seldom. And above all, give grudgingly. Otherwise, what could have been a proper marriage could become an orgy of sensual lust.
While sex is at best revolting and at worse rather painful, it has to be endured, and has been by women since the beginning of time and is compensated for by the monogamous home and by the children produced through it.
While the ideal husband would be one who would approach his bride only at her request and only for the purpose of begetting offspring, such nobility and unselfishness cannot be expected from the average man.
The wise bride will permit a maximum of two brief sexual experiences weekly during the first months of marriage. As time goes by she should make every effort to reduce this frequency.
Feigned illness, sleepiness and headaches are among the wife's best friends in this matter. Arguments, nagging, scolding and bickering also prove very effective is used in the late evening, about an hour before the husband would normally commence his seduction.
Clever wives are ever on the alert for new and better methods of denying and discouraging the amorous overtures of the husband. A good wife should expect to have reduced sexual contacts to once a week by the end of the first year of marriage and to once a month by the end of the fifth year. By their tenth anniversary, many wives have managed to complete their child bearing and have achieved the ultimate goal of terminating all sexual contacts with the husband.
Just as she should be ever alert to keep the quantity of sex as low as possible, the wise bride will pay equal attention to limiting the kind and degree of sexual contacts. Most men are by nature rather perverted, and if given half a chance, would engage in quite the variety of the most revolting practices. These practices include, among others, performing the normal sex act in abnormal positions, mouthing the female body, and offering their own vile bodies to be mouthed in turn.
Sex, when it cannot be prevented, should be practiced only in total darkness. "
Pretty funny. Thank god we live in different times now. There was more to the article but I got tired of typing it out.
