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We where so horny in the beginning
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Bert Notorius
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suckonsimon
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Welcome to posting, mate.
Here's my take on what you've said:
Most women's 'frequency' desire changes a lot through a lifetime, with typically a dip during parenting years. If a man is in any way signalling disappointment about that, her desire might dip even further. In the big picture, men need to appreciate that a woman's desire for sex can escalate through the roof when she gets further into maturity.
Horniness for a couple in relationship is 'fed' much more by non-sexual aspects of what they are for each other, than by any plans about kinkiness. The whole range of what they enjoy together, the quality of the 'company' of the SO, the manner in which responsibilities and chores are shared, the degree to which esteem of the other is shown. A woman will fuck the man who makes her feel supremely good.
You 23? OK you've had a shedload of great sex; but don't think that you have 'got there' as a fabulous lover. You have more to find within yourself that will give her levels of bliss you have not yet seen. Extremely, exhaustingly, shockingly excellent orgasms and the long and fabulous build towards them are addictive!
Here's my take on what you've said:
Most women's 'frequency' desire changes a lot through a lifetime, with typically a dip during parenting years. If a man is in any way signalling disappointment about that, her desire might dip even further. In the big picture, men need to appreciate that a woman's desire for sex can escalate through the roof when she gets further into maturity.
Horniness for a couple in relationship is 'fed' much more by non-sexual aspects of what they are for each other, than by any plans about kinkiness. The whole range of what they enjoy together, the quality of the 'company' of the SO, the manner in which responsibilities and chores are shared, the degree to which esteem of the other is shown. A woman will fuck the man who makes her feel supremely good.
You 23? OK you've had a shedload of great sex; but don't think that you have 'got there' as a fabulous lover. You have more to find within yourself that will give her levels of bliss you have not yet seen. Extremely, exhaustingly, shockingly excellent orgasms and the long and fabulous build towards them are addictive!
Saint Peter
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Sorry to break it to you like this.
She is sleeping with the mailman.
Sorry.
Best.
She is sleeping with the mailman.
Sorry.
Best.
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That was an extremely rude and thoughtless thing to say, and I think you should be ashamed of yourself for making such a mean spirited and ignorant remark.
They like to be called "postal carriers".
Saint Peter
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They do not.
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It sounds as if you need to make the effort and put in the ground work to rekindle both your passions.
Seek out a common kinky interest together and explore each
Others sensuality and inner animals again. It can be a wonderful rebonding process to share as a couple.
Great places to start:
A couple of golf clubs,100 balls, a secluded rooftop above a busy shopping mall carpark and an 8ball of The finest marching powder (lay out a picnic, do a few lines or pipes,hit a few balls into the busy carpark and then fuck like jacked up maniac rabbits.)
Or:
Somthing else... Either way. Good luck.
Seek out a common kinky interest together and explore each
Others sensuality and inner animals again. It can be a wonderful rebonding process to share as a couple.
Great places to start:
A couple of golf clubs,100 balls, a secluded rooftop above a busy shopping mall carpark and an 8ball of The finest marching powder (lay out a picnic, do a few lines or pipes,hit a few balls into the busy carpark and then fuck like jacked up maniac rabbits.)
Or:
Somthing else... Either way. Good luck.
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Youngtxcpl
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lol I was so tired last night when I was writing this I left out so many details, I appreciate a good laugh and also appreciate some of you really trying to give advice. I realize I made it sound like if we are not having any sex at all. We still have great sex multiple times a week but we definitely want to Just get some ideas or have other couples share stories about when they started taking there fetishes a bit further.
EternalFantasies
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You're young, 4 years younger, and she a single parent of two kids.
You've had great times for 3 years, things mellowed down, you're looking to spice things up.
Conclusion: you are a moron, who is wasting his life, instead of moving on with job growth, making contacts in life, and meeting more fresh, truly single and promising life partners.
A complete one.
You've had great times for 3 years, things mellowed down, you're looking to spice things up.
Conclusion: you are a moron, who is wasting his life, instead of moving on with job growth, making contacts in life, and meeting more fresh, truly single and promising life partners.
A complete one.
Rightguide
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My advice, stop conjuring up fanciful girlfriends while in the throes of a cum slinging frenzy of masturbation in dark lonely hotel rooms. Get out and find a real woman.
MGurkus
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Fucking a 5 foot hoagie isn't considered real sex.
Fuck the mail person, make him watch you.
Don't invite Luk over, he will try to steal your husband.
Rebound shit and all that stuff.
