Fair Warning - Long Post Ahead 
So as the topic says, we actually met each other on Lit a little over 6 years ago. We are now happily married. Truth be told, we never thought we would want to add another person to our relationship, but a friend who recently came into our life caused us to re-think that. We figured that if we could find each other here, maybe we can find what we are looking for here.
We are a MWC in Birmingham, AL that is looking for a girl to be a friend...with benefits. Maybe that mythical unicorn you hear spoken of so much. We truly want the friend part. Someone to hang out with. Catch a movie. Have dinner. Play a game. Watch sports. Whatever. Someone to be an actual friend to us both. We also want to be able to do more on those nights that we are all in the mood. We are not looking for a one night thing. How far this goes is up to all of us, but we are looking for someone with at least an interest in something more serious.
US-
Her - 29 5'5 125ish, Slim but with medium breasts and a quite curvy ass for her size. Curly brownish-blonde hair and blue eyes. A bit on the submissive side. She has 13 tats. We don't mind if you have them, nor require them.
Him - 41 6'5 170ish. Brown hair with a decent bit of grey and dark brown eyes. Definitely more dominant.
Both are DD free and intend to stay that way. We understand a lot of people like 420 friendly, but we are past a point in our lives where thats something we feel the need to have around for a good time.
We expect exchanging pics/skype/voice.
You- (Hopefully?)
We understand that trying to find someone who ticks off every little box on a list of perfection is borderline insane. The trick in life is to find someone who you make such a connection with, that none of you care about the little imperfections that you each have (we have ours, we assume you do too). That being said, we have some things we like, but we are flexible. Personality trumps and balances a lot of other things.
Mid 20's to Early 40s. Obviously, we have an age gap, and therefore we know it is just a number. Maturity and the ability to handle a relationship are the key here. Communication and conflict resolution are important to us.
We are both slim people, and so we are hoping to find someone average built to a little curvy. Not too big, not too small. Again, personality is a big thing for us, and sometimes you find yourself attracted to something you didn't expect.
Intelligent. We are very interested in someone we can hold decent conversation with.
Unmarried. Our preference is someone not in a relationship at all, as we hope that this works into something, and you having someone already in your life makes that tougher.
Submissive tendencies are a plus. We aren't looking full on whips and chains, but someone who enjoys being told what to do, and is eager to please is a plus.
Distance is something we can work around up to a point. Obviously, the closer you are, the more "real" time that can be spent together. We were amazingly lucky to find each other living in the same state to start, we get how likely that lightning is to strike twice
If you are still reading at this point, we hope that you are interested in saying hello. This is something that we have invested a lot of time and thought into. We understand how difficult it may be to find what we want, but maybe this will catch the right eyes.
Please feel free to message us and we will get back to you ASAP.
We also understand that this is the first post made on this account. If you look, you'll see that it has been here for many years, just never found myself posting before. We are real, and very serious.
C & M
So as the topic says, we actually met each other on Lit a little over 6 years ago. We are now happily married. Truth be told, we never thought we would want to add another person to our relationship, but a friend who recently came into our life caused us to re-think that. We figured that if we could find each other here, maybe we can find what we are looking for here.
We are a MWC in Birmingham, AL that is looking for a girl to be a friend...with benefits. Maybe that mythical unicorn you hear spoken of so much. We truly want the friend part. Someone to hang out with. Catch a movie. Have dinner. Play a game. Watch sports. Whatever. Someone to be an actual friend to us both. We also want to be able to do more on those nights that we are all in the mood. We are not looking for a one night thing. How far this goes is up to all of us, but we are looking for someone with at least an interest in something more serious.
US-
Her - 29 5'5 125ish, Slim but with medium breasts and a quite curvy ass for her size. Curly brownish-blonde hair and blue eyes. A bit on the submissive side. She has 13 tats. We don't mind if you have them, nor require them.
Him - 41 6'5 170ish. Brown hair with a decent bit of grey and dark brown eyes. Definitely more dominant.
Both are DD free and intend to stay that way. We understand a lot of people like 420 friendly, but we are past a point in our lives where thats something we feel the need to have around for a good time.
We expect exchanging pics/skype/voice.
You- (Hopefully?)
We understand that trying to find someone who ticks off every little box on a list of perfection is borderline insane. The trick in life is to find someone who you make such a connection with, that none of you care about the little imperfections that you each have (we have ours, we assume you do too). That being said, we have some things we like, but we are flexible. Personality trumps and balances a lot of other things.
Mid 20's to Early 40s. Obviously, we have an age gap, and therefore we know it is just a number. Maturity and the ability to handle a relationship are the key here. Communication and conflict resolution are important to us.
We are both slim people, and so we are hoping to find someone average built to a little curvy. Not too big, not too small. Again, personality is a big thing for us, and sometimes you find yourself attracted to something you didn't expect.
Intelligent. We are very interested in someone we can hold decent conversation with.
Unmarried. Our preference is someone not in a relationship at all, as we hope that this works into something, and you having someone already in your life makes that tougher.
Submissive tendencies are a plus. We aren't looking full on whips and chains, but someone who enjoys being told what to do, and is eager to please is a plus.
Distance is something we can work around up to a point. Obviously, the closer you are, the more "real" time that can be spent together. We were amazingly lucky to find each other living in the same state to start, we get how likely that lightning is to strike twice
If you are still reading at this point, we hope that you are interested in saying hello. This is something that we have invested a lot of time and thought into. We understand how difficult it may be to find what we want, but maybe this will catch the right eyes.
Please feel free to message us and we will get back to you ASAP.
We also understand that this is the first post made on this account. If you look, you'll see that it has been here for many years, just never found myself posting before. We are real, and very serious.
C & M
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