We All Know How to Die, But Do We Know How to Live?

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Randy Pausch, a Carnegie Mellon University professor, died at age 47 of pancreatic cancer. Before he died, he left some last words to live by. Below is an excerpt from a CNN article:

(CNN) -- Randy Pausch, the professor whose "last lecture" became a runaway phenomenon on the Internet and was turned into a best-selling book, died Friday of pancreatic cancer, Carnegie Mellon University announced on its Web site.

Randy Pausch emphasized the joy of life in his "last lecture," originally given in September 2007.

Pausch, 47, a computer science professor, delivered the lecture, "Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams," at Carnegie Mellon in September 2007, a month after being told he had three to six months to live because his cancer had returned.

The lanky, energetic Pausch talked about goals he had accomplished, like experiencing zero gravity and creating Disney attractions, and those he had not, including becoming a professional football player.

He used rejections he was handed when he applied for jobs at Disney to comment on the importance of persistence.

"The brick walls are there for a reason ... to show us how badly we want something," he said. "Because the brick walls are there to stop the people who don't want it badly enough. They're there to stop the other people."
 
Some do, some don't, I'm trying like hell.

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I don't know how to die. When it's time I'm just gonna ad lib.
 
I saw him lecture a few months ago..and it changed my life! I have a tumor behind my eye and it bummed me out until I saw his lecture! Now i live for me and not what may happen!
 
What a great idea!

Let's squeeze this day for all it's worth, then wait for tomorrow to show up so we can kick its ass too!

Sorry, it may be a bit crude, but it's the same basic sentiment.
 
What a great idea!

Let's squeeze this day for all it's worth, then wait for tomorrow to show up so we can kick its ass too!

Sorry, it may be a bit crude, but it's the same basic sentiment.

Sorry can't agree with a Packers fan.

But that is a very classic concept about the brick walls. I like it.
 
I did!
I went out with my friends to the grocery store with a stack of vegan cookbooks and we picked out some awesome recipes and spent the day making the most delicious vegan lasagna I've ever eaten!
Then we made a vegan key lime cake for my birthday tomorrow!
Just spending time with friends in the comfort of the kitchen cooking, baking and tending to the children was so much fun.
It really made me appreciate my friends a lot more and we had super delicious food too!

It really brightened up the monotony of a usually boring day.
 
The world is your oyster, so eat it! :D

Tomorrow never comes, so don't worry about it.

Live each day as if it were your last, and love in the same way.

The past is prologue. ;)
 
I believe brick walls exist to re-direct you; its a message that your path isnt thru the wall.
 
The clock of life is wound but once,

And no man has the power

To tell just when the hands will stop

At late or early hour.

Now is the only time you own.

Live, love, toil with a will. Place no faith in time. For the clock may soon be still.
By John Pirnie


Live each day as if it were the last, leave no regrets.
 
"Live fast, die young, leave a beautiful corpse."

>Attributed to F. Scott Fitzgerald<
 
“I want to die in my sleep like my grandfather.

Not screaming and yelling like the passengers in his car.”
 
I don't think people do know how to die—even more so than not knowing how to live.
 
I don't think people do know how to die—even more so than not knowing how to live.

If you only had amazing life-inspiring moments, they, too would become ordinary. Perhaps we learn to live by experiencing pain, dissappointment, and sadness. Those things give us the yardstick upon which to measure joy. I think that we appreciate the beauty of life even moreso because of the ugliness. (not that I like pain/suffering/ugly life moments one bit!)
 
You dont need to know how to die. It happens anyway. Its equal outcome.
 
Randy Pausch, a Carnegie Mellon University professor, died at age 47 of pancreatic cancer. Before he died, he left some last words to live by. Below is an excerpt from a CNN article:

(CNN) -- Randy Pausch, the professor whose "last lecture" became a runaway phenomenon on the Internet and was turned into a best-selling book, died Friday of pancreatic cancer, Carnegie Mellon University announced on its Web site.

Randy Pausch emphasized the joy of life in his "last lecture," originally given in September 2007.

Pausch, 47, a computer science professor, delivered the lecture, "Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams," at Carnegie Mellon in September 2007, a month after being told he had three to six months to live because his cancer had returned.

The lanky, energetic Pausch talked about goals he had accomplished, like experiencing zero gravity and creating Disney attractions, and those he had not, including becoming a professional football player.

He used rejections he was handed when he applied for jobs at Disney to comment on the importance of persistence.

"The brick walls are there for a reason ... to show us how badly we want something," he said. "Because the brick walls are there to stop the people who don't want it badly enough. They're there to stop the other people."

I've never heard of Pausch but it sounds to me like he's just spouting more of the "me generation" philosophy. What is he doing for others?

To me, helping others is maybe the greatest measure of living.
 
I believe brick walls exist to re-direct you; its a message that your path isnt thru the wall.
How Taoist of you. ;)

Ahem: "There was, in a small chinese village, a mule tied up in a narrow alley. Each time someone would try to pass the mule, it would kick them. Soon enough a small crowd had gathered to try to find a way around the animal. All were stumped. Soon though someone ran up to the crowd. 'The old master is coming! He will know what to do!' Everyone waited and watched as the old master walked around the corner, looked at the crowd and the mule in the narrow space, turned, and went down another street"
(Copy-pasted from http://homepage.mac.com/shentzu/Tao/)

At least Pausch isn't making that stupid self-help promise that "you will succeed if you want it enough".

I'm with W.C. Fields on this: "If at first you don't succeed, try again. Then quit. No use being a damn fool about it. "
 
Sometimes one has to look back at what they've done in a new light.

For the longest time, eh, I believed I'd lived a somewhat boring life. Then, as it often happens on underways, we resorted to telling stories. Me? I'm not so great a storyteller, so I was pretty much quiet and let everyone have their moment in the spotlight, till one day someone looked at me and went "You were in SAR...you HAVE to have some good stories.". So I shrugged, settled in, and began to talk about some of the things I had done. When I paused, realizing it was time to take logs, I took note of the fact that there were quite a few wide eyes, just in awe of some of the things I'd seen and done. They weren't the typical drinking stories or conquests of women, they were just stories of life, and adventures. Made me think twice of my "boring life".
 
I have found what I was able to see of his lecture, really his life advice for his children now that he's gone, to be very inspiring. I would recommend it. I understand it is an hour and a quarter but it is available for free on Youtube.

R.I.P Randy Pausch :rose:
 
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