Ways to pamper my girlfriend?

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Hey guys....Next week, my girlfriend and I are spending an entire day alone together, and I told her that on that day, I'm going to pamper her. I'm going to cook for her, give her massages, give her a bath, and of course, lots of sexual play. I'm just wondering if anybody has any suggestions as to what else I can do to pamper her, or how to add to what I already have listed. Anybody have any stories of what they liked, or any ideas for me? Thanks in advance!

 

[Sunnflower]

Hey guys....Next week, my girlfriend and I are spending an entire day alone together, and I told her that on that day, I'm going to pamper her. I'm going to cook for her, give her massages, give her a bath, and of course, lots of sexual play. I'm just wondering if anybody has any suggestions as to what else I can do to pamper her, or how to add to what I already have listed. Anybody have any stories of what they liked, or any ideas for me? Thanks in advance!

Yes a massage is great, multiple ones are wonderful. But how about not JUST a foot massage, but a pedicure? Plenty of places to read up on the 'hows' on the web. Include buffing the ankles and heels, massaging the foot, clipping and painting her toenails, slipping one or toe delicate toes into your mouth as you work.
Don't forget the scented candles and her favorite music in the background....play it softly enough that you can tell her all kinds of wonderfully erotic sensual things as you 'work'.

Hey, have a great time both of you.

 

[Hotred911]

Paint her toenails?

 

[abiamarie]

Your plan sounds GREAT!
If you feel like doing more....
Compliments from the heart. Lots of 'em.
Also include romantic and sweet actions, not just sexual stuff. Just hold her and snuggle with her for a while. Give her small kisses all over her face. Be sweet like that.

 

[BirdsWife]

Try slow dancing naked together in the candlelight.

You can hold each other close while you take your time kissing and caressing each other. It's an incredible way to make love without having intercourse and a wonderful form of foreplay for the acutal thing.

 

[PtyLips]

What a wonderful and sweet plan!

If you want to leave the house, if wearther permits, why not prepare a nice picnic with her favorite foods and take her to a special secluded place and surprise her that way.

Or if you don't want to leave the house, rent her favorite movie, even if it's one you might not have in your personal top ten. Get her favorite snacks, snuggle up on enjoy it togehter.

Have a wonderful day.

PtyLips

 

[bobsgirl]

Try slow dancing naked together in the candlelight.

You can hold each other close while you take your time kissing and caressing each other. It's an incredible way to make love without having intercourse and a wonderful form of foreplay for the acutal thing.

Makes me think of that scene in "Bull Durham" where Kevin Costner and Susan Sarandon are dancing in their baggy old bathrobes. This is an outstanding idea, BW.

 

[watergirl]

water fun

Draw her a bath, candles, scented ones are nice. Some women find bubble bath / bath fizzy things irrate them, and can encourage infections. No fun, I avoid them... Wash her hair, and make it into a mini scalp massage - gentle but firm, you can use a little bit of fingernail action - ask her to tell you how it feels, where to rub. Mmmm. Wash her back, again, massage - you get the idea here.

Showers together are fun, too, but soaking in tub of hot water is just soooo good sometimes. Pick nice music, like someone said. The soundtrack to City of Angels has some really nice selections, check it out.

Go for quality chocolate, not quantity. Cook something for her. Lots and lots and lots of cuddling.

 

[dollface007]

Someone once blindfolded me and fed me ice cream in bed (i had no idea it was coming, of course). That rocked! Oh, and i really like the bath idea...especially washing her hair. Baths are good b/c she can just lean back into your chest and you can hold her from behind and it's so warm and relaxing and romantic.
Ohhhhh...here's another thing.....
Do some special stuff for yourself as well, b/c it will make her feel special too. For example: wear some silk boxers if you normally wear plain old underwear, or throw on some nice cologne or aftershave (just a LITTLE) if you don't normally do that type of thing. A man who smells "manly" is a HUGE turn on.

 

[watergirl]

originally posted by dollface007 For example: wear some silk boxers if you normally wear plain old underwear, or throw on some nice cologne or aftershave (just a LITTLE) if you don't normally do that type of thing. A man who smells "manly" is a HUGE turn on.

YES YES YES YES YES!!!!!!!
MMMMMMMMMM. Guys who smell good make me turn into putty.

 

[DuckLover]

Great ideas!

Another one I'll add is: Both before and after the bath, brush her hair for her. I always find it very soothing and intimate to do for SG, and she absolutely loves it. I've only felt close enough to one other woman to do it, and she enjoyed it also.

Be sure to smile at her a lot. Tell her that you love her. Tell her WHY you love her-- what are the traits of hers that make you weak in the knees. Even if she knows it, telling her again (and again, and again) will be good.

A nice bouquet of flowers will make the room smell and look especially nice, and it is a sweet gesture. Finish the scene with a single red rose for her.

This plan you have is excellent, and I commend you for seeking additional suggestions to make it even better. (I need to plan one of these soon...) I hope you'll tell us all what you ultimately do and how it turns out!