Watersports

[Armystud25]

I've always wanted to get into watersports has anyone had any good or bad experiences that I should know?

 

[catalina_francisco]

Know your partner's health status? Also depends what activities you have in mind, There are some threads here on various watersports if you are interested...if not in the library, I might be able to find them for you.

Catalina

 

[Sir_Winston54]

I've always wanted to get into watersports has anyone had any good or bad experiences that I should know?

I've always enjoyed swimming, diving, water-skiing, and just general boating/fishing. One thing I've learned that I feel I should share is to be very careful when diving, water-skiing or boating in man-made lakes: they often have trees or parts of trees just below the surface that can really hurt (diving, skiing) or tear a boat apart (boating).

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Oh... that kind of watersports? Umm, no.

 

[Bill3250]

Tried it/Liked it

As long as your lover is into watersports and you are both healthy I'm quite sure you'll find exciting.

 

[DeservingBitch]

First, Hi everybody. I've been a regular reader of this board for quite a while now, but registered on Lit only recently for some vague reasons.

*passing home-baked chocolate cookies around as a subtle way to earn everybody's favors*

I'm quite interested in this topic, and I look forward to reading about other people experience of watersports.

I have questions of my own regarging golden shower, mostly from the perspective of the one giving the GS, but I'm not sure if this thread is the right place to inquire. I don't want to hijack Armystud's thread, but then starting another thread on the same topic seems a little too much. Advices on proper etiquette here?

 

[RawHumor]

Advices on proper etiquette here?

Ask here... or if you want to play it really safe, do a search or two (watersports, golden showers, etc) and see if it's already been discussed.

Though I tend to prefer rehashing old ground - that way people who weren't around for the old threads get the benefit of the re-covering of the old stuff.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Here are some of the previous threads while we wait for this one to get going...

Golden Showers

Golden Showers

Piss Play

Forced Peeing

What's Your Favourite Position For GS?


I'm sure there are even more around.


Catalina

 

[DeservingBitch]

Thanks RH for the advice. I did try a search previously in the archives, but I didn't find what I was looking for. That or my research skills are lacking. Feel free to redirect me to a previous thread if one comes to mind.

So, here's my question: has anyone had trouble at first with peeing on their partner? I'm not talking about biological issues here, but psychological ones.

I really like the idea of peeing on a willing pyl, and my previous regular play-partner was also very much into it. But the few times we tried it, I had a sort of mental/psychological blockage and I couldn't manage to get one drop out of me. And yes, my bladder was full! The issue is also not coming from a discomfort in peeing in front of someone else: I've peed many time with him kneeling in front of me (great tease for a golden shower lover and pee-fetishist!), I've had him 'clean' my pussy after peeing, I'm totally OK with peeing in other places than in a toilet (outside or in a shower for instance). I'm also totally fine with other 'humiliation' play involving body fluid (such as spitting on a pyl).

Now, I do understand that my issue is probably coming from a remnant of catholic guilt mixed with puritan mentality. What I'm wondering is whether any of you have experienced a similar blockage, and more importantly, how did you overcome it (provided you did of course)?

 

[masterdaddy69ou812]

i had this problem as well

Thanks RH for the advice. I did try a search previously in the archives, but I didn't find what I was looking for. That or my research skills are lacking. Feel free to redirect me to a previous thread if one comes to mind.

So, here's my question: has anyone had trouble at first with peeing on their partner? I'm not talking about biological issues here, but psychological ones.

I really like the idea of peeing on a willing pyl, and my previous regular play-partner was also very much into it. But the few times we tried it, I had a sort of mental/psychological blockage and I couldn't manage to get one drop out of me. And yes, my bladder was full! The issue is also not coming from a discomfort in peeing in front of someone else: I've peed many time with him kneeling in front of me (great tease for a golden shower lover and pee-fetishist!), I've had him 'clean' my pussy after peeing, I'm totally OK with peeing in other places than in a toilet (outside or in a shower for instance). I'm also totally fine with other 'humiliation' play involving body fluid (such as spitting on a pyl).

Now, I do understand that my issue is probably coming from a remnant of catholic guilt mixed with puritan mentality. What I'm wondering is whether any of you have experienced a similar blockage, and more importantly, how did you overcome it (provided you did of course)?

this just took my partner telling me she wanted me to do it!

 

[FurryFury]

First, Hi everybody. I've been a regular reader of this board for quite a while now, but registered on Lit only recently for some vague reasons.

*passing home-baked chocolate cookies around as a subtle way to earn everybody's favors*

I'm quite interested in this topic, and I look forward to reading about other people experience of watersports.

I have questions of my own regarging golden shower, mostly from the perspective of the one giving the GS, but I'm not sure if this thread is the right place to inquire. I don't want to hijack Armystud's thread, but then starting another thread on the same topic seems a little too much. Advices on proper etiquette here?

You HAVE been paying attention!

Good for you!

*grabs a cookie*

Thanks!

 

[DeservingBitch]

You HAVE been paying attention!

Good for you!

*grabs a cookie*

Thanks!

You're welcome Furry. I had a sense that you would be one to appreciate the cookies!

 

[Pure]

deserving

So, here's my question: has anyone had trouble at first with peeing on their partner? I'm not talking about biological issues here, but psychological ones.

I really like the idea of peeing on a willing pyl, and my previous regular play-partner was also very much into it. But the few times we tried it, I had a sort of mental/psychological blockage and I couldn't manage to get one drop out of me. And yes, my bladder was full! The issue is also not coming from a discomfort in peeing in front of someone else: I've peed many time with him kneeling in front of me (great tease for a golden shower lover and pee-fetishist!), I've had him 'clean' my pussy after peeing, I'm totally OK with peeing in other places than in a toilet (outside or in a shower for instance). I'm also totally fine with other 'humiliation' play involving body fluid (such as spitting on a pyl).


Now, I do understand that my issue is probably coming from a remnant of catholic guilt mixed with puritan mentality. What I'm wondering is whether any of you have experienced a similar blockage, and more importantly, how did you overcome it (provided you did of course)?

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i have seen such a blockage, but the person overcame it. how? the obvious things, close eyes visualize another time and place, etc.



since you've done every other kind of peeing, other obvious answers are:

have him/her cup hands and you pee there and let the bottom douse him or herself.

pee in cup or jar and pour it on (or in) him or her or

close your eyes and pee right next to his or her head, in the tub, and have the subject (by pre agreement) move into range without saying anything; iow you would not know the exact status of things.

pee next to him/her in the tub and let him/her wallow a bit, lap it up, or whatever.

i'm sure you get the idea...sneak up on it!


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it's a taboo that's there in your mind/brain.

i suspect that once you've don't some of the above, the boundary that's there will become blurred.

 

[DeservingBitch]

i have seen such a blockage, but the person overcame it. how? the obvious things, close eyes visualize another time and place, etc.

*laughing at self* i can't believe that i actually never thought about that one. closing my eyes. duh. obvious indeed. I did try some of the other suggestions you gave, but it didn't work either.

it's a taboo that's there in your mind/brain.

i suspect that once you've don't some of the above, the boundary that's there will become blurred.

Obviously, the taboo thing is part of it. But I think that there is also some sort of 'performance-anxiety' underneath it. Which makes your suggestion to try it with my eyes closed a perfect one. Sort of the equivalent of picturing your audience naked for people who have public-speaking anxiety (although I never understood how it's supposed to help -- picturing my audience naked would more likely trouble me than put me at ease -- but that's beyond the point).

Thanks for the advices!

 

[CutieMouse]

When people are learning to "turn over" bathroom privlidges to their Lover, they often experience similar "blockages" over the loss of privacy, etc. The only thing I can think of is to suggest baby steps - get used to peeing in the shower (while sharing it with your Lover). As Pure suggested, pee into a container and then pour it on your Lover (which actually in a twisted way, might make it more humiliating if that's your sort of thing... you don't even deserve my piss warm from my body, etc). Close your eyes and imagine a waterfall (or whatever).

 

[Pure]

you don't even deserve my piss warm from my body,


nice line, cutiemouse.... an original?


i agree that for calculated debasement as opposed to spontaneous toddler-like fun, some of the alternatives are nastier. and perhaps more appreciated!

 

[CutieMouse]

you don't even deserve my piss warm from my body,


nice line, cutiemouse.... an original?


i agree that for calculated debasement as opposed to spontaneous toddler-like fun, some of the alternatives are nastier. and perhaps more appreciated!

Yup... that would be the 5% of me that is capable of thinking like a Top, but has no desire to follow through.

 

[DeservingBitch]

Yup... that would be the 5% of me that is capable of thinking like a Top, but has no desire to follow through.

A like that line too... thanks for the idea Cutie.

 

[FurryFury]

You're welcome Furry. I had a sense that you would be one to appreciate the cookies!

True dat!

Unfortunately I've never tried to piss on my partner. He is just not interested.

*le sigh*

*grabs another cookie*

 

[midwestyankee]

True dat!

Unfortunately I've never tried to piss on my partner. He is just not interested.

*le sigh*

*grabs another cookie*

And the reverse? Would that require a plateful of les cookies?

 

[Netzach]

Thanks RH for the advice. I did try a search previously in the archives, but I didn't find what I was looking for. That or my research skills are lacking. Feel free to redirect me to a previous thread if one comes to mind.

So, here's my question: has anyone had trouble at first with peeing on their partner? I'm not talking about biological issues here, but psychological ones.

I really like the idea of peeing on a willing pyl, and my previous regular play-partner was also very much into it. But the few times we tried it, I had a sort of mental/psychological blockage and I couldn't manage to get one drop out of me. And yes, my bladder was full! The issue is also not coming from a discomfort in peeing in front of someone else: I've peed many time with him kneeling in front of me (great tease for a golden shower lover and pee-fetishist!), I've had him 'clean' my pussy after peeing, I'm totally OK with peeing in other places than in a toilet (outside or in a shower for instance). I'm also totally fine with other 'humiliation' play involving body fluid (such as spitting on a pyl).

Now, I do understand that my issue is probably coming from a remnant of catholic guilt mixed with puritan mentality. What I'm wondering is whether any of you have experienced a similar blockage, and more importantly, how did you overcome it (provided you did of course)?

I got over it but it always took me about a half an hour or so to let the floodgates go. So they had to wait, is that MY problem?

 

[DeservingBitch]

I am happy to report that I've successfully covered my bottom with my warm piss last night!

Thinking that my issue was mostly 'performance-anxiety' related, I adapted Cutie's and Pure's suggestion of closing my eyes, and instead blindfolded my willing victim. It worked well, and having him blindfolded added to his humiliation and anxiety, while also adding a touch of "you were not seriously thinking that you were going to get a glance at my pussy, were you?" to the whole experience.

I can't wait to do it again.

 

[Shankara20]

I am happy to report that I've successfully covered my bottom with my warm piss last night!

Thinking that my issue was mostly 'performance-anxiety' related, I adapted Cutie's and Pure's suggestion of closing my eyes, and instead blindfolded my willing victim. It worked well, and having him blindfolded added to his humiliation and anxiety, while also adding a touch of "you were not seriously thinking that you were going to get a glance at my pussy, were you?" to the whole experience.

I can't wait to do it again.

Congrats to you both!

"you were not seriously thinking that you were going to get a glance at my pussy, were you?"

that is just about exactly what I was told the first time Ma'am was getting ready to pee in my mouth as she was blindfolding me...

(back when I was still a sub years ago)

 

[DeservingBitch]

Congrats to you both!

"you were not seriously thinking that you were going to get a glance at my pussy, were you?"

that is just about exactly what I was told the first time Ma'am was getting ready to pee in my mouth as she was blindfolding me...

(back when I was still a sub years ago)

Thanks Shankara!

I like to think that my bottom will also remember the moment in a few years.

 

[Pure]

hey, deserving, that's great news.

as they say, one never forgets the first time.

perhaps too, you'll get to the stage of objectification, beyond simple degradation. the idea that you simply use the "toilet" at hand w/o much muss or fuss or ceremony, can be a hot one, IMO!.

 

[Bill3250]

make it even better

I am happy to report that I've successfully covered my bottom with my warm piss last night!

Thinking that my issue was mostly 'performance-anxiety' related, I adapted Cutie's and Pure's suggestion of closing my eyes, and instead blindfolded my willing victim. It worked well, and having him blindfolded added to his humiliation and anxiety, while also adding a touch of "you were not seriously thinking that you were going to get a glance at my pussy, were you?" to the whole experience.

I can't wait to do it again.

Even though I enjoy both roles, I am by nature subservient. I assume your blindfolded bottom was also bound. Did you order him to open his mouth to savor your golden nectur? Or did you have him bathe you with his tongue and lips afterward?