Watching your GF with another man

[My Immortal]

I have always been kinda possessive throughout my life and it's always caused grief and turmoil in my relationships. Well the last GF that I had once told me of her fantasies and one of them was a 3-some with another man. I thought she was just joking so I asked her if it was just a fantasy or something she really wanted to try. She answered that she really wanted to try it. I was shocked but strangely enough the more I thought about it the hotter it became. Our conversations got steamier and steamier and what started out as a 3-some now was the idea of me watching her have sex with another man. I couldn't believe how excited she was making me feel. And at the same time our sex was breaking new barriers of excitement all the time. She kept pushing the envelope more and more...going from wanting to fuck another man to another couple, and then having a MMF encounter-with me watching. She knew what she was doing to me and it got to the point where I was masturbating almost constantly to the thought of watching her with another man/men. I loved how she took charge and wasn't afraid to tell me her innermost desires and felt she could be so honest to me. And I told her how badly I wanted to make her desires come to fruition...not that she didn't already know it. Unfortunately we never quite found the right guy and we have both moved on but I was wondering if anyone else ever actually had this experience and what it was like?

I have a newfound respect and desire for a sexually adventurous and open lady and I hope there are more out there. I would love to meet and begin a relationship with one. My ex showed me that a womans desire for more men while still having a boyfriend she loves can be a much enjoyed and exciting experience rather than something to be angry or upset about. And the fact that I wanted only her (and she didn't want me to be with another woman) made it even more thriling and passionate for me. It felt good to be concentrating on making HER happy and the center of sexual freedom and happiness. To the thousands of guys out there who only want a FFM but deny the woman the same pleasure, shame on you! Oh and try it with her, or watch while SHE has some fun...you just might like it! I know I want to!

 

[Monkeyyy]

Me too...

Hi! I've just been reading your post about watching your gf with another guy. I have to say I ahve been there myself. Back in my teens I remember the overwhelming shudder when I realized that the stories I was hearing were true. I was 17 and 3 months; she was 17 and 2 months. We were in love (if we knew what that meant then!). I was a virgin - but she had been well and truly banged, either in the back of a car in a late night car-park or after closing time back in some guy's flat - bam bam bam bam - lots of guys with big horny red dicks having their pleasure deep inside her- and condoms weren't a menu option either.... At first it phased me out - hey I was a kid!!! - and she knew I didn't want to know about her prolific fuck-rate - but later it just made me soooo horny and made me wish I had asked her to tell me all the horny details of her experiences...... ah well we live and learn.... anyone else been there too?!

 

[pattijoe]

mmf w gf

I know exactly how you feel about this. I believe when that kind of thing happens and you get excited, it's a trust thing you have with her. I'm having this same thing with my wife and we're gradually coming to the surface with it.

 

[Guttergoddess]

My BF and I have been together for 6 years. In the beginning he was BEYOND possessive. To say that he had a jealous streak doesn't begin to describe it. We joked about the green monster. EVERYONE knew I was his, and that was it. I am a flirtatious person by nature. Men, women, young, old I don't care, I flirt with everyone. I had a flirtation going on with a 21 year old (I was 29). My BF bowled alot, and this guy was always hanging out at the bowling alley. So when I was bored, I'd go play pool with him....nothing serious, I didn't cheat, just would get his blood boiling.

Well..then my BF and I went through a rough patch, and started actually *gasp* talking to one another...and lo and behold, he decides he wants to fulfill my little fantasy of a MFM 3some. He picks the guy I had the flirtation with. And HE invited him. I think the poor guy thought my BF was joking/planning to kill him. He was nervous as anything when I went to pick him up. Let's just say my BF swears watching me suck the other guy off, and fuck him was the HOTTEST thing he's ever seen, and he wants to do it again ASAP.

 

[UKrock]

in the right situation and with the right guy I think i'd enjoy it.

hmmm how do i talk my gf into it

 

[Monkeyyy]

OK - I love my gf to bits - she is the love of my life...... but up till now all my fantasies have been about watching gfs (current or previous) getting laid,

 

[My Immortal]

My BF and I have been together for 6 years. In the beginning he was BEYOND possessive. To say that he had a jealous streak doesn't begin to describe it. We joked about the green monster. EVERYONE knew I was his, and that was it. I am a flirtatious person by nature. Men, women, young, old I don't care, I flirt with everyone. I had a flirtation going on with a 21 year old (I was 29). My BF bowled alot, and this guy was always hanging out at the bowling alley. So when I was bored, I'd go play pool with him....nothing serious, I didn't cheat, just would get his blood boiling.

Well..then my BF and I went through a rough patch, and started actually *gasp* talking to one another...and lo and behold, he decides he wants to fulfill my little fantasy of a MFM 3some. He picks the guy I had the flirtation with. And HE invited him. I think the poor guy thought my BF was joking/planning to kill him. He was nervous as anything when I went to pick him up. Let's just say my BF swears watching me suck the other guy off, and fuck him was the HOTTEST thing he's ever seen, and he wants to do it again ASAP.

Wow I have to say your boyfriend is one LUCKY man! He gets to live out that experience with you and what's best is that it is YOUR fantasy so he knows you want it. Lots of guys have to "persuade" their SO to do this, which basically means that the woman is doing it for their man. That defeats the whole experience.

I just loved how while we were making love she would say how bad she wanted to fuck this or that guy. What a high that was. It was just so uncanny that she knew exactly what to say to drive me wild and giving so much control over to her turned us both on. I loved the feeling of her being the "boss" so to speak. That's why it fit so well that I wanted nobody else myself, and she didn't want any other women in our relationship.

All I know is I hope to find another just like her...and actually get to experience it

 

[LushLeah]

After split up with an old BF, we'd still see each other everynow and again and talk on the phone. He was always asking if I was seeing anyone else yet, and I said 'd had a few dates, and he was asking if I'd slept with any of them. At first I thought it was becasue he was jealous, and didn't really want to tell him that I was sleeping with other guys becasue I didn't want to hurt his feelings.

But it turned out it really turned him on thinking of me with other guys, and he'd phone me up and ask me to tell him all the details about how I;d been getting fucked and hed even jerk off while we were on the phone.

 

[ickle_stace]

i think alot of women won't want to sleep with another man in front of their partners because they've chosen to be with the guy they're with, and they wanna be faithful to them, and only be with them

I would need talking around to do it because I don't really like casual sex anyway, and if there was any chance my BF was gonna use it as a reason to break up i wouldn't do it, cos I'd have to know it was in a stable relationship and that I wasn't gonna be back on the shelf cos i fucked another guy when i would rather be in a relationship with 1 guy

but I wouldn't wanna watch my guy with another girl, so unless a guy accepted that and never tried to talk me into it then maybe it would happen. But one of my exes was always going on about him sleeping with another girl, or me having a FFM threesome, and it's not for me cos i know I'm not bisexual. But him asking and asking and asking yet would never have agreed to a MFM threesome actually upset me because he knew I didn't want it, and yet he kept on making me feel inadequate

 

[My Immortal]

i think alot of women won't want to sleep with another man in front of their partners because they've chosen to be with the guy they're with, and they wanna be faithful to them, and only be with them

I would need talking around to do it because I don't really like casual sex anyway, and if there was any chance my BF was gonna use it as a reason to break up i wouldn't do it, cos I'd have to know it was in a stable relationship and that I wasn't gonna be back on the shelf cos i fucked another guy when i would rather be in a relationship with 1 guy

but I wouldn't wanna watch my guy with another girl, so unless a guy accepted that and never tried to talk me into it then maybe it would happen. But one of my exes was always going on about him sleeping with another girl, or me having a FFM threesome, and it's not for me cos i know I'm not bisexual. But him asking and asking and asking yet would never have agreed to a MFM threesome actually upset me because he knew I didn't want it, and yet he kept on making me feel inadequate

Well it's definitely not for every couple. I think you really have to have a strong relationship and not have any insecurities or it wouldn't work. But I think alot of couples who scoff at the idea are the same ones who cheat BEHIND their partners back. That's even worse.

I think the key to making a relationship work is always being honest and striving to make your partner happy. If both people are sexually adventurous and wish to try new things that give BOTH of them pleasure, go for it there is nothing wrong with it at all, as long as you do it together and nobody gets hurt. This is where most guys are proven to be selfish and really uncaring of their partners' needs when they clamor for a FFM tryst then get pissed if their GF wants a MMF in return. They simply look at it as an easy way to get new tail but they only want it one way.

 

[ickle_stace]

Well it's definitely not for every couple. I think you really have to have a strong relationship and not have any insecurities or it wouldn't work. But I think alot of couples who scoff at the idea are the same ones who cheat BEHIND their partners back. That's even worse.

I think the key to making a relationship work is always being honest and striving to make your partner happy. If both people are sexually adventurous and wish to try new things that give BOTH of them pleasure, go for it there is nothing wrong with it at all, as long as you do it together and nobody gets hurt. This is where most guys are proven to be selfish and really uncaring of their partners' needs when they clamor for a FFM tryst then get pissed if their GF wants a MMF in return. They simply look at it as an easy way to get new tail but they only want it one way.

well i wouldn't wanna see my boyfriend sleeping with another girl, and im not bisexual so i wouldn't want a FFM either. So I guess some people could say i'm on the uncaring selfish side, but then again, i can do without sleeping with another guy in front of my boyfriend. I'd do it if he wanted me to, but he'd just have to know beforehand that i don't want him going with another woman, so he can make his mind up whether he still wants to see me with someone else

 

[My Immortal]

well i wouldn't wanna see my boyfriend sleeping with another girl, and im not bisexual so i wouldn't want a FFM either. So I guess some people could say i'm on the uncaring selfish side, but then again, i can do without sleeping with another guy in front of my boyfriend. I'd do it if he wanted me to, but he'd just have to know beforehand that i don't want him going with another woman, so he can make his mind up whether he still wants to see me with someone else

If you did it because he wanted you to then I don't think that's healthy at all. As I have stated above, BOTH partners should want to experience it together. Why put your partner through something that will make them feel uncomfortable just to please yourself? That is not what I am talking about. And if it doesn't work for you, then hey, best advice I can give is to not attempt it.

 

[Guttergoddess]

This is not the sort of thing to do if you're trying to "save" a relationship, or if you're trying to guarantee he won't go outside for other partners. My BF and I do this because it turns both of us on. We've had (and will have) other women in our bed as well. We were both in stale marraiges. We're not going to allow that to happen to us. We love each other unconditionally...we just enjoy sex a ton!

 

[ickle_stace]

If you did it because he wanted you to then I don't think that's healthy at all. As I have stated above, BOTH partners should want to experience it together. Why put your partner through something that will make them feel uncomfortable just to please yourself? That is not what I am talking about. And if it doesn't work for you, then hey, best advice I can give is to not attempt it.

what i mean is im sure it would turn me on too, but im not gonna have a problem if i don't do it

 

[rdhdlvr2]

watching wife

My wife and I have had this experience a couple of times.It was very exciting sex and really picked our private sex life up.The emotions I went through seeing my wife with another man were very intense.Wer'e both looking forward to doing it again.

 

[ShyBiGrl]

I'd LOVE to get fucked by another guy or girl with my husband watching but he's WAAAY too possesive. I'd like to watch him fuck another girl too but even though I've hinted he's never bitten.

 

[TNSportsFan25]

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[conquen]

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For those of you interested there is an extensive thread on the matter in the playground, Wife with other men.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=325852

 

[conquen]

patience

I'd LOVE to get fucked by another guy or girl with my husband watching but he's WAAAY too possesive. I'd like to watch him fuck another girl too but even though I've hinted he's never bitten.

Give him time. At that age I was quite posessive myself.

 

[My Immortal]

Why can I never find any ladies like that All of my g/f's have been uber-conservative in the bedroom.

I know what you mean. Sucks' doesn't it?

Still, seeing that there are some wonderful women still like that (in this thread for example) gives me hope that maybe someday .......

 

[My Immortal]

I'd LOVE to get fucked by another guy or girl with my husband watching but he's WAAAY too possesive. I'd like to watch him fuck another girl too but even though I've hinted he's never bitten.

Damn, what I wouldn't give to be your husband LoL!

I'm curious, in your case is the thought of watching him more exciting than the thought of you fucking someone else? My ex was way too jealous to let me have another girl, not that I wanted another one anyway, but strangely enough, it excited me more to know that she was the only one "allowed" to have more other men if she wanted. I don't know why but that really turned me on.

 

[ShyBiGrl]

Damn, what I wouldn't give to be your husband LoL!

I'm curious, in your case is the thought of watching him more exciting than the thought of you fucking someone else? My ex was way too jealous to let me have another girl, not that I wanted another one anyway, but strangely enough, it excited me more to know that she was the only one "allowed" to have more other men if she wanted. I don't know why but that really turned me on.

You know what. I think it might be even more exciting just to watch him with another chick. It's strange but the thought of him looking (and thrusting) deep into someone else really gets me going. I wish he felt the same though.

 

[UKrock]

You know what. I think it might be even more exciting just to watch him with another chick. It's strange but the thought of him looking (and thrusting) deep into someone else really gets me going. I wish he felt the same though.

want to swap with my gf lol

 

[ShyBiGrl]

want to swap with my gf lol

LOL, I don't know why girls are so jealous. If you're in a loving relationship why wouldn't you trust your significant other. It's JUST SEX! (not Love-making...that's seperate)

 

[My Immortal]

You know what. I think it might be even more exciting just to watch him with another chick. It's strange but the thought of him looking (and thrusting) deep into someone else really gets me going. I wish he felt the same though.

Well there is hope, I used to be wicked possessive. But "she" changed that for me. Maybe you two can just playfully talk about it while having sex and that could jumpstart his imagination. For me, it was so erotic hearing my ex's lust talk about other men while I was fucking her. Nothing has ever gotten my cock harder